COFFEE BREAK 8B — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD THuRSDAY, JunE 10, 2021 Woman spurred to action by grandkids’ plight but more so with his mom. They were raised in a very Christian home. There were always weight issues for the entire family because they eat most of their meals out. My daughter-in-law rarely cooks, and the house resembles a “Hoarders” home. In the past, I tried talking with my son and his wife but they have a convenient excuse for everything I bring up. During my last conversation with my grandson, he was so unhappy he mentioned suicide. Please can you help me? How can I get through to my son and his wife? — Distraught Grandma in Texas Dear Grandma: Do your son and his wife know their son is depressed to the point of talking about suicide? If Dear Abby: I have a grandson (25) and granddaughter (22) who are both extremely over- weight (300 pounds each). They not only have health issues, but also mental issues. Both work part time at the same company as their mom and dad — and still live at home. They don’t date, don’t drive and are very depen- dent on their parents because their parents encourage it. My granddaughter is being treated with meds; my grandson is not. I’m very close to him, and he shares a lot with me. He has issues with both of his parents, tradition used to involve a young woman going directly from her parents’ house to that of her husband. More recently, young people have postponed marriage, estab- lished themselves in the work- place and achieved economic independence before coupling up. This is a positive step because if the marriage fails or the spouse dies, the widowed spouse isn’t left without the tools to support themselves and their family. While you may think the couple “already has everything they need,” take a peek at their bridal registry because it may be an eye-opener. And remember, if you cannot celebrate happily with the couple, no rule of etiquette dictates that you must attend the wedding. happening these days. Young people live together for several years, get pregnant and go to the justice of the peace to get legally married. Then, a year or more later, they sometimes decide to have a formal wedding cer- emony. Friends throw them a shower, and the wedding is often elaborate. I thought a shower gift or wedding gift was to help the new couple to get their household set up. These couples already have everything in their house. I feel this is a slap in the face of tra- dition. What are your thoughts? — Old-Fashioned Dear Old-Fashioned: Yes, it’s a break with tradition. These changes have occurred because of changes in social mores, the economy and gender roles. The they are unaware, put them on notice. While you’re at it, give him the number of the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-8255. Because you have already tried talking to his parents and found them unreceptive, would you consider inviting your grandson to live with you for a while? It would be a way of teaching him healthier eating habits, and if he needs medica- tion, you might be able to see that his doctor prescribes it. Living apart from his parents might also be an incentive for him to become more independent in other ways, such as continuing his education if he is able, which would improve his employment prospects. Dear Abby: There is a trend NEWS OF THE WEIRD China’s wandering elephants becoming international stars Elephants are given the top level of protection in China, allowing their numbers to steadily increase even as their natural hab- itat shrinks, and requiring farmers and others to exercise maximum restraint when encountering them. Government orders have told people to stay inside and not to gawk at them or use firecrackers or otherwise attempt to scare them away. So far, more passive means are being used to keep them out of urban areas, including the parking of trucks and construction equip- ment to block roads and the use of food drops to lure them away. As of June 8, the herd remained on the outskirts of Kunming, a city of 7 million, with one of the males having moved away on his own, creating even more excite- ment — and worry — for those attempting to keep tabs on them. A statement June 7 from a pro- vincial command center set up to monitor the group said the ele- phants appeared to be resting, while more than 410 emergency response personnel and police personnel, scores of vehicles and 14 drones were deployed to mon- itor them. Area residents were evacuated, temporary traffic con- trol measures implemented, and 2 tons of elephant food put in place. Another objective was to “maintain silence to create con- ditions for guiding the elephant group to migrate west and south,” the command center said. Asian elephants, the conti- nent’s largest land animal, are declining overall, with less than 50,000 left in the wild. Habitat loss and resulting human-wildlife conflict are their biggest threats, along with poaching and popula- tion isolation. The Associated Press BEIJING — Already famous at home, China’s wandering ele- phants now are becoming interna- tional stars. Major global media are chron- icling the herd’s more than year- long, 300-mile trek from their home in a wildlife reserve in mountainous southwest Yunnan province to the outskirts of the provincial capital of Kunming. Twitter and YouTube are full of clips of their various antics, par- ticularly those of two calves who slipped into an irrigation ditch and had to be helped out by older members of the group. “We should be more like the elephant and be more family oriented, take family vaca- tions and help and care for and protect each other,” read one comment on YouTube signed MrDeterministicchaos. The elephants have been trending for days on China’s Weibo microblogging service with photos of the group sleeping attracting 25,000 posts and 200 million views Monday night, June 7. The 15-member herd has been caught at night trotting down urban streets by security cam- eras, filmed constantly from the air by more than a dozen drones and followed by those seeking to minimize damage and keep both pachyderms and people out of harm’s way. They’ve raided farms for food and water, visited a car dealership and even showed up at a retire- ment home, where they poked their trunks into some of the rooms, prompting one elderly man to hide under his bed. While no animals or people Yunnan Forest Fire Brigade via AP In this photo taken June 4, 2021, and released by the Yunnan Forest Fire Brigade, a migrating herd of elephants on June 4, 2021, graze near Shuanghe Township, Jinning District of Kunming city in southwestern China’s Yunnan Province. Already famous at home, China’s wandering elephants are now becoming international stars. Major global media, including satellite news sta- tions, news papers and wire services are chronicling the herd’s more-than year-long, 300 mile trek from their home in a wildlife reserve in mountainous southwest Yunnan province to the outskirts of the provincial capital of Kunming. have been hurt, reports put damage to crops at more than $1 million. Sixteen animals were origi- nally in the group, but the govern- ment says two returned home and a baby was born during the walk. The herd now is composed of six female and three male adults, three juveniles and three calves, according to official reports. What exactly motivated them to make the epic journey remains a mystery, although they appear to be especially attracted to corn, tropical fruit and other crops that are tasty, plentiful and easy to obtain in the lush tropical region that is home to about 300 of the weather | Go to AccuWeather.com that in their search for new hab- itat, they got lost along the way and kept going.” Authorities have been working to avoid negative interactions and “must determine what the best next steps here are and keep human-elephant conflict at bay,” Jayasinghe wrote. Kunming is to host the upcoming Convention on Bio- logical Diversity’s Convention of Parties to discuss topics such as human-wildlife conflict, and “this is a real-time example of the importance of addressing the issue and its root causes for the benefit of both wildlife and people,” she wrote. animals. Others have speculated their leader may be simply lost. Asian elephants are loyal to their home ranges unless there have been disturbances, loss of resources or development, in which case they may move out, according to Nilanga Jayasinghe, manager for Asian species conser- vation at the World Wildlife Fund. “In this case, we don’t really know why they left their home range, but do know that there has been significant habitat loss due to agriculture and conversion of for- ests into plantations within that range in the last few decades,” Jayasinghe wrote in an email. “What possibly happened here is AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 50/61 Kennewick 51/63 St. Helens 54/66 TIllamook 52/65 54/71 54/66 50/66 Condon TONIGHT FRI SAT SUN MON Considerable cloudiness Nice with clouds and sun Mostly sunny and warmer Warm with lots of sun 76 45 89 52 92 52 Eugene 49/67 Comfort Index™ La Grande 9 46 72 49 Comfort Index™ 10 Enterprise 9 7 6 4 78 51 91 53 90 55 10 4 4 10 40 67 48 Comfort Index™ 10 89 53 86 55 10 4 4 10 NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Tuesday Low Tuesday High: 107° Low: 25° Wettest: 6.15” 73° 42° 73° 49° 79° 48° PRECIPITATION (inches) Tuesday Trace Month to date Trace Normal month to date 0.38 Year to date 2.23 Normal year to date 4.91 0.00 Trace 0.49 5.90 8.29 Trace Trace 0.56 14.21 12.48 AGRICULTURAL INFO. 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