COFFEE BREAK 8B — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD TUESDAY, MAY 25, 2021 Musician frustrated by bandmate’s lack of loyalty DEAR ABBY: I am in a rock band with some friends. All of us are in our 50s and 60s. We have been playing together for the last three years. Last year, our bass player joined another band (while staying in ours) because another friend was in it, but they broke up because of COVID. Now that music venues are opening up again, he has joined yet another group. I’m a loyal guy, and it bothers me that he doesn’t seem as loyal to our band. He says he can easily do both, but for me, it causes booking issues because the other band will be blocking out dates that we might be able to book. I see no other confl icts. He even asked if I was interested in he should be replaced with a musi- cian you can rely on. many years without trying to mend the relationship. This is very hurtful DEAR ABBY for me, and I’m sure for others. How DEAR ABBY: I have a friend who does one respond, if at all, to some- feels a need to correct the behavior thing like this? joining the other band, too, because of others by writing letters. There he fi gured that if he can’t be in two are not too many businesses around — SUFFERING IN MICHIGAN places at once, it might as well be town that haven’t received one of her both of us. Should we cut our losses letters and, no doubt, others in her DEAR SUFFERING: One does and replace him? Loyalty is really circle of friends have, too. not respond. One copes by recogniz- important to us. After a misunderstanding for ing that the only person this unhap- which I apologized, I received one of py woman is punishing is herself, as — ROCKING ON IN TEXAS them. Because she lacks understand- her circle of friends diminishes and ing or the ability to forgive, a vitriolic businesses around town no longer DEAR ROCKING ON: Because diatribe came my way. In her letter, welcome her. you feel that loyalty is paramount she related past “unfortunate (in her and your friend may have schedul- opinion) ill behaviors on my part for DEAR ABBY: My wife recently ing confl icts because of his partici- which I should be ashamed.” Then asked me if she could take off her pation with the other band(s), yes, she ended a friendship we had for wedding ring in favor of wearing her mother’s, which is much larger than the one I gave her. I regard it as a lack of respect for our marriage, which has been under a lot of stress for a long time. (No affairs.) I also view it as symbolic of how much she has fi nancially sacrifi ced being mar- ried to me. What do you think? — WONDERING IN THE EAST DEAR WONDERING: I “think” you should tell your wife it would hurt you deeply if she follows through, and why. I also think the time has come for the two of you to talk about what is “stressing” your marriage with a licensed marriage and family therapist. N EWS OF THE W EIRD Las Vegas offi cials hold pop-up vaccine clinic at strip club at a topless revenue, got their shots at the clinic along with members of the public. Some people who showed up to get shots admitted they were reluctant to get the vac- cine but decided to go for it if it meant visiting a strip club. Roberto Montti, who lives near the club, said he had been putting off getting his shot but realized he should get it in order to resume his love of traveling. Ellen Schmidt/Las Vegas Review-Journal via AP Montti said he probably Savannah Wilkinson receives the Pfi zer vaccine from would have gotten his shot at Sarah Lugo, senior community health nurse with the a more humdrum venue but Southern Nevada Health District, during a pop-up decided to go to the Hustler COVID-19 vaccine clinic at Larry Flynt’s Hustler Club on Club because it felt familiar. Friday, May 21, 2021, in Las Vegas. “I’ve been here so many — I’ve been here a few times. ... usual, was an unconventional nurse of the Southern Nevada Maybe 10 times, give or take,” site for a walk-in vaccination Health District, who monitored he said with a laugh. clinic. But as government of- the walk-in clinic. “It might at- “I was going to wait, I tell fi cials and health workers try tract some people who like the you that,” said Las Vegas to address the slowing demand novelty of it, I suppose.” resident Michael Myers as he for COVID-19 vaccines, they’re The clinic opened for several stood between a full-length increasingly turning to creative hours Friday night, May 21, picture of a naked woman ways to incentivize people to administering shots to about and a sign promoting social show up and get a shot. 100 people before the strip club distancing and other behaviors “This is just another way opened for its usual business. to mitigate the virus spread. to access our population,” Several workers at the club, Myers’ wife, Lisa Harper, said JoAnn Rupiper, the chief including Hamner, a dancer said he changed his mind LAS VEGAS — Wearing a French maid-inspired lingerie costume and high heels, dancer JoJo Hamner waited patiently to get her COVID-19 vaccine in a line that snaked past a glittery hostess stand under a red-light chandelier. When it was her turn, Ham- ner sat in a chair and held onto a small feather duster that completed her costume while a nurse administered the shot into her already-exposed arm. Hamner then waited nearby for the required 15 minutes of observation, sitting with other vaccine recipients in leather chairs between plush purple booths, vacant stages and empty poles at this strip club in Las Vegas. “This is just the most Vegas thing I’ve ever seen,” she said of the experience. Larry Flynt’s Hustler Club, with a spinning disco ball cast- ing rainbow colors on the walls but more lights turned on than weather | Go to AccuWeather.com when she told him they could both get it at the Hustler club. “I said, ‘Flynt’s Hustler?’ She said ‘Yeah.’ I said, ‘Oh! Let me consider,’” Myers said with a laugh. “Nothing says vaccinations like a stripper pole,” said the couple’s friend George Stoeck- lin, who joined them to get his shot. Myers, 70, said he was reluc- tant to get the shot and wor- ried about how fast it had been available. But he noted his age and said he was concerned about his ability to spread the virus and infect others, includ- ing his wife. Myers said he was disap- pointed there were no dancers on the stage while he got his shot but said, “at least I got the scope of it.” More than 46% of the state’s population age 12 and older has received at least one shot of the vaccine, but Nevada health offi cials said a steep drop-off in demand for shots may make it impossible for the state to reach a goal of vaccinating 75% of the eligible population. 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The club offered its own incentives to those who show proof of vaccination: a membership card giving them and fi ve friends free admission, a complimentary bottle of alco- hol, dances from “a vaccinated entertainer” and other perks. Ralph James, the general manager, said the business thought it would be a good chance to help the community and get back to normal faster. He acknowledged people may not typically think of the strip club as a public health partner but said, “this gives everyone a chance to see how clean it is and it’s a normal business just like any other business.” 41 72 47 SAVE 600 UP TO $ 1520 ADAMS AVENUE La GRANDE, OREGON 97850 on BEAUTYREST ® HARMONY LUX ™ mattresses and adjustable sets. *