6B — THE OBSERVER & BAKER CITY HERALD SATuRDAY, DECEmBER 19, 2020 COFFEE BREAK Memories of woman cloud devoted dad’s happiness DEAR ABBY: I have been mar- DEAR RON: “One conver- sation” with the woman from ried to my wife for two years, your past won’t fix what has gone after being together for 10 years. wrong with your marriage. You We have two kids with a third on have a responsi- the way. Our rela- bility to your wife tionship is great. and your growing It’s healthy. DEAR I just have this family. What you feeling of loneli- are experiencing ABBY ness. I feel like I could be symptoms have my children of depression. You and that’s it. My mind often wan- may be feeling overwhelmed with ders to a woman from the past. the responsibilities you now carry I would never leave my children and subconsciously yearning for because they are my world. I just the carefree years you enjoyed cannot control or ignore these before you were formally mar- ried. Before you feel more alien- chronic feelings of unhappiness ated than you already do, I urge and loneliness. I’ll be honest: I wish I could just have one conver- you to talk this out with a licensed sation with said woman. I don’t psychotherapist. know what to do. DEAR ABBY: I have a friend — RON IN CALIFORNIA who has a habit of giving me unsolicited gifts. It’s little things like string lights for my patio or a small toy for my daughter, but it makes me feel obligated to give her a gift back. I would rather not be stuck in this continual gift exchange loop, especially during a pandemic when you’re not supposed to be seeing people outside your house- hold. This friend has shown up unannounced at my doorstep to drop off a gift without letting me know she’s coming. The last gift she offered I refused because it was an offen- sive toy that wasn’t age appro- priate for my daughter. Was I right to do that? How can I stop this cycle without hurting my friend’s feelings? — GIFTED IN THE WEST comments. It creates a barrier with family, and I think people distance from her because of it. I avoid talking to her because it’s so blunt and rude. How can I explain that the word now has a negative connotation and should be avoided? — STAYING AWAY TO NOT GET HURT DEAR STAYING AWAY: Address it the next time she uses “whatever” in conversation with you. ASK if she is using the word because she isn’t inter- ested in what you are trying to convey and what she means by it. THEN explain how hearing it made you feel, because it may not have been her intent. (If it was, then you, too, have a right to distance yourself.) DEAR GIFTED: Understand that this friend may not give you these gifts out of gener- osity, but because it gives her an excuse to interact with you. You have a right to refuse any item intended for yourself or your child that you feel is inap- propriate. Jump off the gift- giving treadmill by telling this person her friendship is enough and you will no longer accept any gifts because it makes you uncomfortable. DEAR ABBY: I have an older relative who uses the word “whatever” when she is done discussing something. I don’t think she realizes how dismis- sive it comes across to others. It’s as if she doesn’t care about the other person’s opinion or News of the Weird Florida’s new python-sniffing dogs have first success ernor for the increased attention on the problem. Flamethrower drone incinerates wasp nests in China TALLAHASSEE, Fla. — Truman, the python- sniffing black Labrador retriever, recently tracked down his first snake in a new program Florida is using to eradicate the inva- sive species. The Florida Fish and Wildlife Conservation Commission recently began training Truman and another dog named Eleanor to detect a python’s scent and alert handlers when they’ve come across one. The first success was last week when Truman found an 8-foot Burmese python in the Rocky Glades Public Small Game Hunting Area in Miami-Dade County. “We’ve got to stay inno- vative. We’ve got to try new approaches and the detector dogs is just one area where we’re doing that,” commis- sion Executive Director Eric Sutton. told commis- sioners during an update Dec. 9. He showed commis- sioners pictures of the dogs during a virtual meeting, including one with Truman standing behind the massive snake he found. “They’re hard workers, commissioners. They really are very dedicated and you can see that they’re very proud and they should be,” Sutton said. Estimated to number between 100,000 and 300,000, pythons have become a threat to the fragile Florida Everglades ecosystem as they devour native mammals and birds, Florida Fish and Wildlife Conservation Commission via AP Dog handler Paula Ziadi praises Truman after he tracked down an 8-foot-python Tuesday, Dec. 8, 2020, in Miami-Dade County, Florida. The state’s Fish and Wildlife Conservation is beginning a new program to use dogs to sniff out invasive pythons. disrupting the natural bal- ance of predator and prey. They’ve been successful at reproducing in the swampy Everglades because they have no predators. Females can lay up to 100 eggs. Trainers use python- scented towels and live pythons with surgically implanted trackers to teach the dogs to pick up a snake’s scent. The dogs were trained for more than a month before going out in the wild, according to the agency’s website. And while Burmese pythons have been known to eat small alligators and small deer, Truman and Eleanor are trained to stay about 3 feet away from the reptiles. The battle to contain the pythons in the Everglades and nearby areas has been a difficult one for Florida, and Republican Gov. Ron DeSantis made increasing eradication efforts a budget priority. He also signed a bill that allows the use of drones to track down the snakes. Sutton told commis- sioners snake hunters hired by the state captured about 6,300 pythons over the last four years. He said nearly 40% of that total was in 2020 and credited the gov- Blue Sky Rescue of Zhong County via AP A drone equipped with a flamethrower on Dec. 10, 2020, burns a wasp nest at a village in Zhong county near Chongqing municipality in southwestern China. A drone has been converted into the flying flamethrower in cen- tral China in a fiery campaign to eradicate more than 100 wasp nests. weather AROUND OREGON AND THE REGION Astoria Longview 48/50 Kennewick 47/52 St. Helens 50/52 46/53 45/56 50/53 49/54 Condon TONIGHT SUN MON TUE WED Rain tapering off Showers around A morning shower; colder Partly sunny and chilly 44 31 38 17 31 12 Eugene 4 3 3 49/56 49 32 37 22 31 18 3 2 1 La Grande 39 47 38 Comfort Index™ Enterprise 1 3 0 38 47 40 Comfort Index™ 4 35 19 29 18 7 2 3 ALMANAC THURSDAY EXTREMES TEMPERATURES Baker City La Grande Elgin NATION (for the 48 contiguous states) High Thursday Low Thursday High: 84° Low: -21° Wettest: 2.00” 44° 33° 45° 36° 42° 36° PRECIPITATION (inches) Thursday Trace Month to date 0.07 Normal month to date 0.53 Year to date 3.29 Normal year to date 9.70 0.15 0.43 0.97 16.44 15.87 0.48 1.32 1.73 35.11 22.48 HAY INFORMATION SUNDAY 60% S at 4 to 8 mph 0.5 0.03 RESERVOIR STORAGE (through midnight Friday) Phillips Reservoir Unity Reservoir Owyhee Reservoir McKay Reservoir Wallowa Lake Thief Valley Reservoir 8% of capacity 33% of capacity 45% of capacity 25% of capacity 26% of capacity 49% of capacity STREAM FLOWS (through midnight Thursday) Grande Ronde at Troy Thief Valley Reservoir near North Powder Burnt River near Unity Umatilla River near Gibbon Minam River at Minam Powder River near Richland OREGON High: 54° Low: 27° Wettest: 0.34” Hermiston Keno North Bend WEATHER HISTORY AGRICULTURAL INFO. Lowest relative humidity Afternoon wind Hours of sunshine Evapotranspiration Hollywood, Fla. Angel Fire, N.M. Milton, Mass. Dry weather is usually in the cards at Las Vegas, Nev., but a rare heavy rainstorm hit the city on Dec. 19, 1984. Local fl ooding deposited silt in area drainage ways, requiring subsequent spadework. SUN & MOON SAT. Sunrise Sunset Moonrise Moonset SUN. 7:28 a.m. 7:28 a.m. 4:12 p.m. 4:12 p.m. 11:30 a.m. 11:54 a.m. 9:51 p.m. 10:57 p.m. MOON PHASES 917 cfs 3 cfs 10 cfs 176 cfs N.A. 101 cfs First Dec 21 Full Dec 29 Last Jan 6 New Jan 12 32/42 37/45 42/52 36/46 Beaver Marsh 29/42 Roseburg 52/58 Brothers 47/54 Coos Bay 48/55 Burns Jordan Valley 31/44 Paisley 26/44 Frenchglen 33/49 Diamond Grand View Arock 33/47 31/45 30/49 Fields Medford 29/47 Klamath Falls 25/43 Lakeview 25/43 McDermitt 24/42 RECREATION FORECAST SUNDAY REGIONAL CITIES MON. 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A rating of 10 feels very comfortable while a rating of 0 feels very uncomfortable. 43/50 48/52 50/54 49/56 49 32 1 Corvallis Enterprise 38/47 39/47 Monument 44/52 Idanha Salem Rain and drizzle late 4 Elgin 41/50 La Grande 44/50 Maupin Comfort Index™ 47/55 Pendleton The Dalles Portland Newberg Lewiston 46/58 Hood River 47/55 TIllamook 36 42 35 Forecasts and graphics provided by AccuWeather, Inc. ©2020 Walla Walla 47/58 Vancouver 46/50 48/51 Baker City BEIJING — A drone has been converted into a flying flamethrower in cen- tral China in a fiery cam- paign to eradicate more than 100 wasp nests. Blue Sky Rescue, a vol- unteer group that conducts search and rescue and other emergency work, have teamed up with villagers in Zhong county near the city of Chongqing. They raised 80,000 yuan ($12,200) to buy a drone and equip it with a gaso- line tank and an arm-length nozzle. Videos released by Blue Sky show a recent mis- sion by the six-arm drone. It hovers above a hive as large as a suitcase before swooping down. The drone operator flips the ignition switch, and the drone spits bursts of fire onto the hive. “The burning ashes of the wasp’s nest gradually peeled off and fell, and the surrounding residents applauded and praised the rescue team,” said an article on a local news app run by state-owned Chongqing TV. The article quotes a resi- dent thanking Blue Sky for helping the village: “Now we don’t have to worry about being stung by a wasp.” Blue Sky said it has destroyed 11 hives so far. There are more than 100 to go. — Associated Press City Lewiston Longview Meacham Medford Newport Olympia Ontario Pasco Pendleton Portland Powers Redmond Roseburg Salem Spokane The Dalles Ukiah Walla Walla SUN. MON. Hi/Lo/W 58/45/r 52/49/r 43/38/r 52/38/c 52/48/r 51/45/r 43/32/c 58/42/c 55/44/r 53/48/r 58/49/r 56/39/r 55/44/r 54/47/r 47/37/c 56/43/r 44/41/r 55/45/c Hi/Lo/W 57/38/r 51/35/r 47/29/r 52/36/r 51/42/r 51/34/r 46/32/pc 61/38/r 56/35/r 53/41/r 55/37/sh 55/29/r 53/40/sh 53/37/r 50/32/r 59/40/r 48/29/r 58/37/r Weather(W): s-sunny, pc-partly cloudy, c-cloudy, sh-showers, t-thunderstorms, r-rain, sf-snow fl urries, sn-snow, i-ice ANTHONY LAKES PHILLIPS LAKE Rain and snow Bit of rain, snow 37 30 42 33 MT. EMILY REC. BROWNLEE RES. Rain tapering off Rain and drizzle 43 38 39 32 EAGLE CAP WILD. EMIGRANT ST. PARK Snow, 1-3” A little a.m. rain 38 30 43 40 WALLOWA LAKE MCKAY RESERVOIR Rain and drizzle Rain and drizzle 44 37 55 44 THIEF VALLEY RES. RED BRIDGE ST. PARK Rain and drizzle Rain tapering off 42 35 47 38