COTTAGE GROVE SENTINEL MAY 17, 2017 11A Living 50 Plus in Cottage Grove Shirley McDaniels set to retire after 35 years I care for the eldery," Shirley McDaniel says but she's care- ful to add, "Of which I'm not. I'm 80." And after 35 years of working to insure elderly residents of Cottage Grove could stay in their homes, McDaniel's is ready to call it quits. She's been working in the fi eld for over three decades, fi rst with Evelyn Hart who began efforts to establish a caretakers program in the city in 1987. "She had a passion to elderly in their home so she sarted a pro- gram that included nurses, hospice and Operation Independece which was the caregiveres who went into the homes and cared for the elderly. At one time had over 50 employees and 100 clients," McDaniel said. When Magnolia opened, the pair lost a share of their clients but with the buyout of Cottage Grove Hospital to PeaceHealth, they had a new home. Operation Independence functioned under Peace- Health until 2005. "Then, I went independent," McDaniel said. "Word got around that I was doing caregiving and people coming into town looking for work or caregivers who lived here would call me and I would coordinate work for them and myself ." Then, three years ago, McDaniel joined forces with another Cot- tage Grove resident to start caregiver meetings on the fi rst Monday of every month. There, caregivers can share information and re- ceived it from guest speakers. "I have a passion for caregiving," McDaniel said. A passion she thinks may have its roots in caring for her own grandmother and later, her aunts. And while she'll miss her clients and the people she works with, McDaniel isn't slowing down. "I have met a wonderful man and I'm getting married July 8," she said. The pair plan to travel, where exactly they don't know yet but according to McDaniel a cruise may be involved. "It's just going to be a lot of traveling. I had a couple of clients and whenever I started dating my future husband, we started plan- ning our wedding so that took care of what I'm going to do the rest of my life." When they return home, McDaniels says she'll enjoy her time with her new husband and become more involved with her church located here in Cottage Grove. I'm going to miss the people, going into the homes and getting to know the people that I have many many memories of," she said. Caregiver tips Don’t strive for perfection It isn’t possible to maintain a patient attitude and get ev- erything done perfectly each and every day. People are not perfect and mistakes will be made. Do not punish yourself if you lash out or simply need a break Pay attention to mood changes Anxiety or depression can sneak up on you when you least expect it. Ask for help if you feel your tasks are becoming too overwhelming. Seek the help of a doctor if changes in mood, sleeping patterns, appetite, and the like become noticeable. Take frequent breaks Getting a break from caregiving and setting aside time for yourself can increase patience levels and the ability to bounce back from stress. Whenever possible, have a friend or another relative step in for you so you get a break. Explore resources available for professional aides to come and take some of the responsibilities off of your shoulders. Senior Center Calender for May 18: Hand and Foot cards or Mexican Train dominos 12:30 p.m. 19: Pinochle 11:30 a.m.-4 p.m. 22: Bingo 12:45 p.m. 23 Painting, woodcarving, charity quilting 10 a.m. 24: Needle arts and crafts 1-4 and pinochle 11:30-4 25 BUNCO 12 p.m. 29:Memorial day Jenna Buetow Grant Gording, BC-HIS Hearing Consultant Board Certifi ed in Hearing Instrument Sciences RISK-FREE HEARING AID TRIAL 30 day Trial with 100% satisfaction guarantee You have nothing to lose, and everything to hear www.grantshearing.com Have an event you want the community to know about? Email cmay@ cgsentinel.com 1498 E. 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