20 S moke S ignals april 1, 2014 PRevenTIOn CORneR Our Family What does your family like? What are some of your traditions? How do you talk with one another? How does your family talk about alcohol and drugs? These and other questions we sometimes don’t talk about or think about. Our daily lives are filled with interaction with family, com- munity, friends, co-workers, teachers, well, all people. The way we learn to talk, treat and be in the world comes from our family values, traditions and upbringing. Prevention programs work to strengthen relationships and bonding in the family. There are many ways to do this; each family does it differently and has a different set of values. There are some research-based family skills that you can practice at home to build relationships and also help reduce the chance your youth will use alcohol and drugs. They are: 1) Build a warm and supportive relationship with your child; 2) Be a good role model when it comes to drinking, taking medicine and handling stress; 3) Know your child’s risk level; 4) Know your child’s friends; 5) Monitor, supervise and set boundaries; and 6) Have ongoing conversations and provide information about drugs and alcohol. Source: ThePartnershipAtDrugfree.org, 6 Parenting Practices- Help reduce the chances your child will develop a drug or alcohol problem. “Research confirms the benefits of parents providing consistent rules and discipline, talking to children about drugs, monitoring their activi- ties, getting to know their friends, understanding their problems and concerns, and being involved in their learning.” Source: National Institute on Drug Use: Preventing Drug Use Among Children and Adolescents: A Research- Based Guide for Parents, Educa- tors and Community Leaders, p.19. To get your youth involved in the Youth Prevention program, contact Lisa Leno at 503-879-1471, Amber Mercier at 503-879- 2162, Shannon Stanton at 503-879-1489 or Cristina Lara at 503- 879-2040. Please “like” our Facebook page Grand Ronde Youth Prevention for information and upcoming events. “I think they [our ancestors] would want us all to stand tall for what is right and good. They would want you and me to be seen and heard and make a positive difference wherever we were.” — Howard Rainer Date April 2014 Schedule Contact April 1-May 9, 2014 It's your game: Keep It Real at Willamina School Tue-Fri Amber Mercier 503-879-2162 April 4-25, 2014 Young Womens Skill Set Teaching (sewing) Fri at CC 3:45-5 p.m. Shannon Stanton 503-879-1489 11-Apr-14 Coming of Age meeting Noon-1 p.m. at Community Center (CC) Lisa Leno 503-879-1471 12-Apr-14 Canoe Family meeting Noon-4 p.m.at Tribal Gym Cristina Lara 503-879-2040 17-Apr-14 Community Garden/ Planting fruit trees 3:45-5 p.m. Shannon Stanton 503-879-1489 19-Apr-14 Egg Hunt/Fun Run/Walk/ Movie Day at Tribal Campus 10 a.m. Shannon Stanton 503-879-1489 26-Apr-14 Women's Sweat Noon-5 p.m. Cristina Lara 503-879-2040 March 31- April 23 Fit to Paddle Mon & Wed 4-5 p.m. at Tribal Gym Amber Mercier 503-879-2162 April 23-June 4, 2014 Strengthening Families Wednesdays at Adult Ed 5:15-7:30 p.m. Cristina Lara 503-879-2040