APRIL 1, 2003 Smoke Signals 3 War continued from front page stayed for seven months. During the 911 attacks, the group was securing the Los Angeles harbor. The group, which is busy now patrolling the Cali fornia coast, won't be deployed again until after November, according to Norton. But the Middle East is definitely in Tony's future, according to his mom. He told her, 'It's not a matter of if, but when we're going. We'll be back there just to keep the peace." Tribal member and E-4 Specialist Frank Grammer, training at the Dallas Na t i o n a 1 Guard Ar mory at press time, will be at Fort Lewis, for in tensive training by the time you read this. Then, as his wife, Marsha, under stands it, hell be shipped out with the rest of his engineering battalion to, well, nobody is saying yet, but every body is guessing it's the same place. Grammer is a specialist in demolition. "He's proud to go over there and serve his country," Marsha Grammer said of her husband, but the couple found out that Marsha was pregnant just as the National Guard troop put him on standby for orders. "He doesn't want to leave us but he has to," Marsha said. "I don't want 1 ,f?A y lV E-4 Specialist Frank Grammer him to go but he's got to do what he's got to do. I support him," she said. Marsha is an enrolled member of the Standing Rock Sioux. He's also leaving two step-sons be hind: Robin, 14, and Bradley, 12. Tribal member and E-4 Specialist Frank Hostler II shipped out last month from the National Guard Ar mory in Albany, and is now at Fort Carson, Colorado, according to his mom Linda Bean Olson and wife, Laurie. As part of an engineering group, Hostler was first set to build quarters in Turkey, but that ultimately fell through. His training is in heavy equipment and explosives. "I told him to 'keep your hand down, Son. You've got a wife and kids.'" said Olson. "Frank's the kind of guy who volunteers for everything." In peace time, Hos tler works for Salem Parks and and in the winter months, he attends Chemeketa Commu nity College. His background also includes for estry and firefighting with the Tribes' Natural Resources Department. Hostler joined the Navy out of high school and served three years before returning home and joining the Re serves. "We're all really proud of him for go- E-4 Specialist Frank Hostler II f --'d li Arch Bly ing and doing this," she con tinued. "It's hard on (the children) as well. It's differ ent around the house. It's not normal any more. We used to come home and fix dinner and sit around the table and talk about our day. That's where we had our lamily time." She held back tears as she added, "That's gone now." Tribal member Arch Bly had been an enlisted man since 1982. In 2002, he was commissioned as a chief war rant officer. "Under orders to be anyplace in the world at any time," according to Roger Bly, his dad, who with his wife, Tribal member Betty Bly, live in Elder Hous ing, "he's the officer in charge of certi fying naval ships for the Tomahawk missiles." "I train and certify warships going over," said Senior Chief Arch Bly from his base now "in the Pacific North west." The drill includes 17 weeks of training, he said. For the current hostilities, he has certified four ships now in service in the Persian Gulf: USS Rodney M. Davis, USS Ingraham, the USS Bridge and USS Camden, each carrying up to 700 crew members. "Nobody enjoys war," said Arch Bly. "We do our job to the best of our abil- ity. Nobody in the military enjoys it. But this is our job. This is what we're trying to do and we do it the best we can." Bly's personal decorations include four Navy Commendation Medals, three Navy Achievement Medals and numerous campaign and service awards. Tribal member and Private Ira TInrrisnn. Woolf is a I personnel clerk at Fort Bliss in El Paso, Texas, according to his mom, Nonie Woolf (Yakama), herself a Public Health Ser vice Officer, which is a branch of the uniformed (not military) forces, from their home in Browning, Montana. "He's pushing paper," she said, "and you know, we're kind of glad because some of his friends are paratroopers and they're headed for Kuwait." The last time they spoke was before the hostilities began and at that time, said Woolf, "he's adjusting to being on his own." He took Basic Training at Fort Jackson in South Carolina from August-October, 2001. "He's more comfortable making his own decisions. He's pretty proud of being able to buy a new car for himself. That's where he's at." Harrison-Woolf is the grandson of Tribal Elder Kathryn Harrison. Private Ira Harrison-Woolf Davidson's Reopen Popular Eyvette's Brookside Cafe Eyvette's continued from front page Lucien, and badly injured his wife, knew the family not just for their out Eyvette, and son, Benjamin and rageous omelet's and homemade himself - with a far away look on bread, but also for their loving family his face. It's almost like he is reliving the experience before his eyes as he de scribes those terrifying mo ments when his life changed forever. "I didn't know Eyvette was alive until she came around my side with the firefighter," said Davidson. The family was returning home from a shopping trip to McMinnville when their 1997 GMC Suburban sud denly burst into flames on Highway 18. Investigators determined that the cause of the fire was a mix of chlo rine and cleaner. Both items were purchased on the trip and placed in the back of the car with everything else. They mixed, said investigators, and that mix turned deadly in an instant. "In 25 years of police work, I've never seen anything like this," said Oregon State Police Lt. Dale Rutledge at the time. The Davidson family owns and op erates a very popular landmark res taurant in the area know as "Eyvette's Brookside Cafe." The closeness of the community and the popularity of the family made the event that claimed the lives of their children even more tragic. People and the fact that the family home schooled their kids and that the chil dren frequently brightened the restau rant with their presence. A Remembrance Service for J anesse and Lucien was held in Grand Ronde on Saturday, July 13. The service was well attended by Tribal members, locals and people who just wanted to pay their respects. Lucien was remem bered for his love of the Green Bay Packers, the Portland TrailBlazers and collecting Hot Wheels. Janesse was remembered for being artistic, lov ing and thoughtful. At the service, a local man who asked not to be identi fied recalled how he and his wife had broken down on the highway near the restaurant. He said that when he got coffee to take back to the car while they waited for help - Janesse of fered to let the man use her prized Easter basket to carry his coffee in. He remembered that gift of generosity and wanted the family to know he remembered. Despite the fact that the surviving members of the Davidson family faced years of recovery from their burns, the idea of closing the restau rant never came up. The Davidson's family rallied and came from various parts of the country to keep the busi ness open. Eyvette's sister Sherene came from Wash ington to take over day-today operations of the restau rant. Tiffany Justen came from Ha waii, Travis and Lane Justen came from Florida and many family mem bers made their way in and out to help while Loren, Eyvette and Benjamin re covered at Portland's Legacy Emanuel Hospital's Burn Unit. On a recent visit to the restaurant, Eyvette and Loren were cooking away in the kitchen - although they did say they are a little slower now. They wear bandages covering the worst of the burns. They have to take breaks to get away from the heat of the stove. "We still have surgeries," said Eyvette. "So we still have to go to Portland for that." Now, it is time for the family to get back to the business of running their restaurant. They don't want to talk about what happened to strangers, but they want everyone to know how much they appreciated the support that came their way from the community who helped keep their business open while they were away. The best way to sup port the family as they try to piece their lives back together is to come and eat. Come into the restaurant and eat. And laugh. Tell stories, jokes. Don't expect them to stand on display they won't. But come and eat. Now it is time to heal and remem ber. 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