Spilyay Tymoo, Warm Springs, Oregon August 14, 2019 Summary of Tribal Council August 8 The meeting was called to order at 9:02 a.m. by Chair man Raymond Tsumpti. Present: Chief Delvis Heath, Chief Joseph Moses, Chief Alfred Smith, Jr. (AM), Vice Chair Lola Sohappy, Brigette McConville, Wilson Wewa, Jr., Anita Jackson, Lincoln (Jay) Suppah, and Raymond (Captain) Moody. Minnie Yahtin, Recorder. Ventures Update. Board appointments: Water Control Board · Motion by Brigette adopting Resolution No. 12,615 appointing Tai- ontorake Oakes to the Wa- ter Control Board, term end- ing October 30, 2021. Sec- ond by Captain. Question: 9/ 0/0, Chairman not voting. Motion carried. War m Springs Ven- tures Board · Motion by Brigette to re- advertise the vacant positions for Warm Springs Ventures due to lack of qualifications. Second by Jay; 5/4/1, Jo- seph/yes, Brigette/yes, Jay/ yes, Captain/yes, Anita/No, Wilson/No, Delvis/No, Lola/No, Alfred/Abstain, Chairman voting in favor to re-advertise. Motion carried. · Motion by Anita to have Tribal Council as the Acting Board for Warm Springs Ven- tures until vacancies are filled. Second by Wilson; 3/4/1, Anita/yes, Wilson/yes, Delvis/yes, Joseph/No, Cap- tain/No, Jay/No, Lola/No, Alfred/Abstain, Chairman not voting. Motion failed. Credit Enterprise Board · Motion by Captain ap- proving by acclamation that Carol Funk serve on the Credit Enterprise Board for a 3-year term. Second by Wilson. Question: 9/0/0, Chairman not voting. Motion Page 7 carried. · Motion by Captain adopting Resolution No. 12,616 appointing Carol Funk to the Credit Enterprise Board, term ending January 1, 2023. Second by Brigette. Question: 9/0/0, Chairman not voting. Motion carried. Tribal Employment Rights Ordinance (TERO) · Motion by Brigette adopting Resolution No. 12,617 appointing Glendon Smith, Lupe Katchia, and Shirley Allen to the TERO Commission, terms ending January 11, 2021. Second by Anita. Question: 8/0/1, Jay/ Abstain, Chairman not vot- ing; Motion carried. War m Springs Local Housing Authority Com- missioners · Motion by Captain ap- proving by acclamation add- ing Levi Vanpelt to serve on the Housing Commissioners. Second by Brigette. Question: 9/0/0, Chairman not voting; Motion carried. Summary continues 10 Warm Springs Vocational Rehabilitation Program — Questions & Answers Question: What is Voca- tional Rehabilitation? Answer: Voc Rehab as- sists under-represented or underemployed eligible American Indian consumers become employed. What does a person need to do to get started in Voc Rehab? Attend a scheduled Orien- tation at Culture and Heri- tage (Education) building, or at the Behavioral Health Center. W hen ar e the scheduled Orientations? Mondays at the Culture and Heritage building at 3 p.m.; or Tuesdays at the Be- havioral Health Center at 3 p.m. What if I cannot make a scheduled Orientation? We accept ‘walk-ins’ be- tween 8 and noon, and 1 and 5 p.m. each day except for scheduled Orientation times and Wednesday mornings. What happens after Ori- entation? After Warm Springs Vo- cational Rehabilitation re- ceives a signed application, an Intake is scheduled. (Note: Intakes can take up to 2 hours to complete). Do I need to bring any- thing to my Intake appoint- ment? Yes. Please bring: You identification (tribal ID card or Oregon Driver’s License); and any health insurance card and income you are cur- rently receiving. What makes a person eli- gible for Vocational Rehabili- tation? Any medical condition is diagnosed by a medical doc- tor or specialist, and the medical condition has pre- vented a person to go to work. How long does it take to become eligible for Vocational Rehabilitation? Warm Spring Voc Rehab has 60 days after receiving a signed application to make an eligibility decision. cuss the objectives that need to be written in your Indi- vidual Plan for Employment (IPE). What age does a person need to be to become eligible for Vocational Rehabilita- tion? Warm Springs Voc Re- hab works with any feder- ally recognized American Indian tribal member (within the continental U.S.) starting at 18 years old, and living in the service delivery area. How do I become employed after my IPE is written and approved? After eligibility is deter- mined and you receive a let- ter, Consumer works with the Job Coach/Developer or Counselor to do a job search. Warm Springs Voc Rehab advocates for a job that matches Consumer’s skills, interests and abilities. What is the Service De- l i v e r y A r e a f o r Wa r m Springs Voc Rehab? All of Central Oregon— from LaPine to The Dalles—and the border of Washington State. East to Prineville, and West from NARA OutPatient down- town Portland, 15 miles. What happens after eligi- bility? Eligible recipients meets with the Counselor to dis- Can a person be working and still become eligible for Vocational Rehabilitation? Yes .If a person has a bar- rier such as: Lack of train- ing, or a person needs addi- tional assistive technology or aids to maintain their cur- rent job caused by a medi- cal condition (that may have worsened). How long is Consumer em- ployed and be considered suc- cessfully rehabilitated? Ninety days. Consumer needs to work 90 consecu- tive days in their job (of their informed choice) be- fore Warm Springs Voc Re- hab can close a Consumer successful rehabilitated. Does Warm Springs Voc Rehab work with high school students who are in the Tran- sitions Program? Warm Springs Voc Re- hab provides education and liaison services to students in the Transitions Program. We encourage parents or guardians to contact Warm Springs Voc Rehab for more information. What if I disagree with a decision after I turn in a signed application? Every person is given Cli- ent Assistant Program bro- chure at Orientation and again at Intake. What is the CAP? Client Assistance Pro- gram. Legal representatives who advocate for a Con- sumer to Warm Springs Voc Rehab to help them get the service(s) they need to be- come employed. Can I contact anyone else other than CAP if I am dis- satisfied? Yes. You can call the Warm Springs Voc Rehab director 541-553-4952. W hat is the contact in- formation for Warm Springs Voc Rehab? Voc Rehab is located at the Culture and Heri- tage building, 1110 Wasco Street. Telephone 541- 553-4952. Fax 541-553- 2522. Can I call or come into Warm Springs Voc Rehab for information only? Yes. What are the Voc Rehab hours? Monday through Friday, 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. closed from noon to 1 p.m. and legal holi- days. Sixteen signs of emotional abuse in a relationship combination with other abuse types and tactics to obtain and maintain power in the relationship. People in abusive rela- tionships tend to blame themselves for the abuse or believe they must have done something to deserve the criticism or attacks. No one ever deserves to be abused. And no matter the abusive partner’s reason- ing for the abuse, domestic violence goes against our tra- ditional ways as Native people. It is never acceptable to hurt a partner or spouse in any way. by Mallory Black , Diné, StrongHearts Native Helpline N o one expects to find themselves in an abusive relationship—Most relation- ships begin in a good way with kind words and com- pliments, but they can turn harmful and emotionally abusive at any time. Emotional abuse is a type of domestic violence that often flies under the radar, but it should always be taken seriously as a for m of abuse. When emotional abuse is present in a relationship, a partner will criticize, threaten or isolate their part- ner as a way to manipulate and control them. Emotional abuse can be degrading, humiliating and terrifying, often leaving long-lasting scars on one’s spirit and self-esteem. So, how do you know if you’re in an abusive relation- ship? What can you do when a loved one is being emo- tionally abused? Let’s start with recognizing the tactics of emotional abuse. Signs of emotional abuse In an intimate relation- ship, emotional abuse can look like when a partner: · Constantly calls you hurtful or degrading names, insults you or criticizes you. · Acts extremely jealous or possessive of you. · Humiliates you in any way, or shames you. · Isolates you from your family, friends or commu- nity. · Blocks you from mak- ing new friends or joining so- cial groups. · Ignores your presence for several hours, days or weeks. · Refuses to listen, speak or respond to you—the si- lent treatment. · Explodes in anger to- ward you or is constantly angry at everything you do. · Pressures you to com- mit and becomes angry or sulks when you don’t com- mit. · Threatens to hurt you or themselves, or uses weapons to scare you. · Threatens to hurt your children, family members or pets. · Threatens to take your children away from you or call child protective services (CPS) on you. · Repeatedly lies about where they are, what they’re doing or who they’re with. · Calls you “crazy,” “too sensitive,” or denies abuse is happening when con- fronted. · Cheats on you or flirts with other people to inten- tionally hurt you. · Accuses you of cheat- ing in the relationship. Likely to escalate When emotional abuse is present in a relationship, you may feel off-balance, like you’re walking on eggshells, or question your judgment more than usual. This is because an abu- sive partner uses harmful behaviors like the tactics above to manipulate and control their partner so they feel powerless. That’s why it is so impor- tant to trust your instincts when your partner does or says something that doesn’t feel right to you. Emotional abuse is ex- tremely dangerous and det- rimental to a person’s wellbeing and often has life- long psychological effects. An abusive partner’s be- havior is likely to escalate as time goes on, and they will often use emotional abuse in Is arguing abusive? In every relationship, partners can expect to dis- agree from time to time. Ar- guments are a normal part of any relationship, but abu- sive behavior is not. In a healthy relationship, each partner must commit to being honest, communi- cating, and trusting the other person. Each partner must work to maintain healthy commu- nication and avoid hurting the other person emotion- ally, spiritually and physi- cally. Above all, each partner must show respect in the re- lationship, especially when disagreements arise. In an abusive relation- ship, any disagreement can escalate into emotionally or physically abusive behavior. Remember, there is never an excuse for abuse. Getting help Recognizing the signs of emotional abuse is the first step to getting help. If you or someone you know is being hurt in your relationship, know that you are not alone. There are people who want to support you, includ- ing advocates at the StrongHearts Native Helpline. By calling 1-844-7NA- TIVE (762-8483), you can connect anonymously with a Native advocate who can offer a listening ear and sup- port with whatever is hap- pening in your relationship. You can share as much as you feel comfortable, and our advocates will listen with- out judgment or blame. The StrongHearts Native Helpline is available daily from 8 a.m. to 11 p.m. Advocates also offer cri- sis intervention, assistance with finding ways to stay safe, and a connection to Tribal and Native domestic violence resources, if needed. We can also assist concerned friends or family members with ways to help a loved one who is being abused, as well as people who are worried they might be abusing their partner. It can also be incredibly helpful to lean on family members and your cultural roots for support. Never forget that you have the strength and cour- age of your ancestors, too, who dreamed of a world where every one of their relatives would live in safety, happiness and in harmony. You deserve to feel safe in your relationship, no matter what.