E Coosh Hopeful thoughts forthe New Year By Selena Boise Happy New Year to all our readers, with hopes for the brand new year to bring new outlooks on life, family, friends, relation ships, and per sonal well-being. My New Year's resolution this year is to become more or ganized and spend time doing things that I enjoy. Seems daily life keeps a per son on a one-track mind to con tinue to go to work. I heard these words at a fairwell for a friend: "Time goes by fast and we don't do things we used to do, or take time to visit friends and fam ily." I believe that to be true, be cause 2003 came and went and I had not accomplished all that I had set out to do, and I hadn't spent much time with family or friends. I also keep in mind that this friend was a happy person with no grudges or bad feelings. I want to be as happy as he was. I will work on that, as well as be coming organized. From a larger picture I hope the tribes will work toward im provements on the reservation. I read all those articles in the Oregonian series on Warm Springs, and I have mixed feel ings about them. I have hopes that the articles have opened the eyes of those ere,af ecte,d ,bj th e, s'e trag edies; and that the leaders of our tribe will take preventative measures to protect the children of this tribe. I know that there are fami lies who have learned from these tragedies and turned their lives around to become better par ents, and that was not written in the articles. I believe that families here are capable of learning from these tragedies, and that it is not an easy task to deal with problems. To become a responsible adult, from being an alcoholic half your life, is a hard thing to do. Denying that there is a prob lem is the hardest step of all to begin these changes. Then to go deep into the root of the problems is a hard thing to face, but it releases a big weight from your heart. Not to sound like I know it all, but I have had these same struggles. My counselor was happier than I was when I de cided that I needed to go to treatment. I made the decision to be a mom to my children and be able to teach them about life. I shared my struggles and mis takes with them, hoping that they learned from them. I knew that I couldn't do this for my kids if I was still using drugs and drink ing alcohol. I also heard this phrase, "If I could do it anyone can!" I also believe that to be true too, be cause it was not easy for me. So take this New Year and make it a good one for every one in your life. Toe Ness What does a tea kettle do when it's angry? blows off a little steam. How do you stop a skunk from smelling? Hold its nose. What do frogs wear for a night out on the town? Jumpsuits -yikes! Spilyay Speaks EEWA: Head Start Dear Warm Springs community members, The busy holiday season is winding down once again and it's almost time to get back to our regular everyday busy sched ules. I would like to extend my thanks to those of you who showed your generosity and car ing attitudes toward your less fortunate community members in so many ways. This is my first year working in the Family Services office at I lead Start, and I wasn't sure what to expect. I still don't know what to expect, but I appreciate the patience and guidance people have shown me along the way. I need to acknowledge the Head Start Parent Activities group, which meets every month, plans different events and discusses whatever topics parents would like to address. I thought it was great that these parents started the year off by designating the proceeds of their first fundraiser to go toward purchasing items to be distributed to families in need in our community. We also be gan a coat, hat and glove drive to collect warm clothing for those who needed it to come and get what they needed or to exchange for a different size. There are still coats available if anybody needs them. Thanks to those who were kind enough to drop a coat off to help others stay warm. The latest project was the Christmas Giving Tree. Each ornament on the tree represented a child be tween the ages of 0 and 17. We asked for people to take an or nament and donate a gift; ; ; - It was grqat to see people come in or call or even email for information to support this wonderful cause. Our list alone included the names of over 80 children in need and our list didn't include the adults in the same households. Again, thanks to the generosity of citizens in our community and a church in Hood River. We were able to provide something to all of the people on the list and then some. Thank you, Versa, for bring ing this stuff in, and Versa and Reona for helping match each ' donation to a child. I also ap preciate the help of Robert and Crystal Thomas in bagging up the donations and helping to be Santa by delivering some of the goodies on Christmas Eve. Other people I would like to acknowledge for their assistance in preparing baskets of goodies are: Pastor Rick for helping bag up food donations and the use of the church and helping with distribution. Morning Star for helping bag up food donations. Chester 'Curtis' for helping wrap and disburse presents along with the food. Danny M. and other Fire & Safety personnel for help ing deliver. William Wilson and other Fire Management person nel in helping deliver goodies. Ada B. for running me around Spilyay Tymoo (Coyote News, Est. 1976) Publisher Emeritus: Sid Miller Editor: Dave McMechan Management Successor: Selena T. Boise Advertising Manager: Sam Howard Receptionist: Angie Blackwolf Media Advisor: Bill Rhoades Spilyay Tymoo is published bi-weekly by the Confederated Tribes of Warm Springs. Our offices are located in the white house at 1100 Wasco Street. Any written materials submitted to Spilyay Tymoo should be addressed to: Spilyay Tymoo, P.O. Box 870. Warm Springs, OR 97761. Phone: (541) 553-1644 or 553-3274. FAX No. (541) 553-3539. E-Mail: spilyaytymooawstribes.org. Annual Subscription rates: Within U.S.: $15.00. The my it is Letters to the Editor to deliver bags and boxes of do nations all over Warm Springs. Most of all, to Vio who worked so hard in planning and coor dinating all of this activity and was everywhere helping with ev erything in order for so many families to have something to en joy throughout the holidays. It felt good to be a part of something which was to benefit so many others. Respectfully, Rebecca J. Danzuka, Head Start Family Services Office. Demonstration Dear community people, I recently was in the Warm Springs Market to see what was the issue that was being protested by some local community members. It was sad to see that children were being memorial ized in a way that had an under lying agenda. As I visited with the demonstrators, there never was a mention of the candle light memorial for the children. Instead, the conversation cen tered around the politics of what is happening within our Early Childhood Education Center. How insensitive for adults to convey their messages at the expense of children who are no longer with us. Did not The Or egonian make enough money exploiting our children and ceremonies with their series of articles? (And we still can make something good out of the bad!) Why is it not possible for our people to just speak (not yell argue) together until a consen sus is reached by all for a better work environment. Or is this just to idealistic for community' adults? Has our organization created an environment where there are many chiefs and not enough Indians? Sometimes it seems as if we all want what WE want, and not what may be beneficial to our community and people. We all have "personal" opin ions that need to be heard, and considered. However, we all may not have the best ideas for children at hand, and need to accept the opinion of others who may have a better or newer ideas. I can say for sure, that I do not know what is going on at the management level of ECE. I do know that there seems to be turmoil, and I have heard some negative comments of a serious nature. Of course, there are some positive comments, too. "This classroom encourages language in the classroom," "I enjoy working with this teacher," and "This classroom works well with the children." The opinions at the market were varied, about different subjects. Including our Language Program. That is okay. We en courage you to voice your opinions. And if they are nega tive opinions, we invite you to come and assist to make things better. That should be the atri- tude of all in a time when we should be encouraging each other, not discouraging and put ting each other down. "Confederated" tribes should be an attitude for all of us today. May all prayers be an swered, so that our community can become one again. Respect fully submitted, Myra Johnson News coverage Dear Editor In recent weeks, the Confed erated Tribes of Warm Springs has been doused by media cov erage, ridiculed and discredited by the press. The argument has once again been raised to de stroy the Indian Child Welfare Act, to terminate the reserva tion system, to reinstitute out side administrative control of the federal funds, and to turn a blind eye to stolen resources, post traumatic stress disorder symptoms, and rampant drug and alcohol abuse. The whys associated with all of the above have not been addressed. No one seems to care or want to understand the un derlying reasons for obvious reactions to 500 years of subtle systematic abuse and manifested degradation that federal dollars or a few lines in a newspaper cannot begin to rectify. I am a Warm Springs tribal member, a proud man who has experienced neglected emer gency calls, favoritism and other social inequities on my own res ervation. I am calling for this to stop. I am asking to be recog nized. We are a sovereign nation; lets keep it that way. Our busi ness is pur business.! We are In dian. Remember who we are. Charles Frank 11540 NE Inverness Dr. Portland, Oregon 97220 Good year To the editor As the new year sets in I look back at the year of 2003. How did 2003 treat you? How did you treat 2003? I'd like to share with the community our year of 2003. We survived the summer heat with two graduates. My daughter Melinda Polk gradu ated from high school. My son Kurds Satanus graduated from Thank you, Redmond Lockers & Custom Meats Inc. 353 S.E. Railroad Blvd. Phone, 548-5575. Owners Terry & Ruth. Warm Springs CPS staff. From Warm Springs Childrens Protective Services Page 4- Spilyay Ty moo junior high to senior high. My son-in-law Joe Thompson got accepted into Haskell Indian College. Birthdays rolled around for Melinda, Tommy and Kurds and we celebrated with family and friends over dinners. Soon it was time for Kurds to get ready for high school. I le did so by pre paring his class schedule, setdng goals that will help him in the future, Melinda and Joe were both accepted to I laskell in Kansas. We had another dinner with family and friends. It was a rime of praise, a time of joy, an amazing time to see how fast these young people had grown. Many accomplishments had been made, a positive dme with their heads held high and goals in mind. We would like to thank all the family and friends for your support, your help with the dinners we had, the gifts, your encouragement and the love for being there. Have a safe 2004. Thank you and God bless. From Kurtis, Joe, Tommy Jessie and Melinda Polk family Loved ones To the Member's of the Con federated Tribes of Warm Springs, It has been quite the year for the members who have lost More Letters to the Apologies To my granddaughter Shai and the Warm Springs Community Center staff. I would like to apologize for leaving Shai alone, I will not let it happen again. I apologize to Shai for putting her in this situation. Everything will be okay from now on. Thank you, Leota Saunders To Rene Holliday I wish to apologize for my actions on November 26, 2003 while operating a commercial motor vehicle on Highway 26 in the area between milepost 97 and milepost 98. While return ing to my lane after a failed at tempt to pass another commer cial vehicle, I partially restricted is? , If January 8, 2004- loved ones. I hope you can be happy for the ones who have gone on ahead of us, for they are making the way for us that are left behind. They are with us at all rimes, because of the way they have taught us to talk to them when we are in Sunday service. And that would be at the Longhouse for Seven Drum service. There, is where one would get the peace of mind that we need in our times today. I miss all of the people who have been a part of my life there in Warm Springs. And I thank all of you who had wel comed my kids there, and I mean the members of Simnasho Longhouse... I hope that you have a Happy New Year, yessoka Casey Jackson. Missing you Missing you Ray Smith Sr. I'm writing this because you know we did a lot together and I know what's going on with you as you do me. So I'm just writ ing this to let you know I love you! Love, Marsha Givens. Also I would like to put my address in for my friends. Just letting my friends know I have a release date of 4-15-06, so I'm putting my address in to let you know. Marsha Givens 14974316 PO Box 9000 Wilsonville, Oregon, 97070 Editor on page 8 your lane, causing you to leave the road surface to avoid a col lision. You have my sincere re grets for this actiqn,.., '; Sincere!)',' i Jon Bloker To the Warm Springs tribes I am writing to apologize to everyone for an incident that happened that I caused. I was driving while I was intoxicated with alcohol. For that I apolo gize to myself and Warm Springs. Thank you, Justin Boise I, Adrian Tulee, am sorry for my actions of November 15, 2003. y Mr,.:"' i