E Coosh EEWA; The way It is r' Page 4 Spilyay Tymoo March 7, 2002 Community growth begins with respect By Willie Fuentes, Chief Operations Officer The Confederated Tribes of Warm Springs Hello, recently I was asked to sub mit to the Spilyay Tymoo an article expressing my viewpoints on various issues happening locally, regionally, or nationally. I want to make explicitly clear that while these are my thoughts, they in themselves are not more important than any other community member's thoughts or opinions. My hope is that increased aware ness of issues will result, and mean ingful dialogue between members would follow. This is in the spirit of the legend of "Toe Ness" or "YIKES," while acknowledging I am not going to fill that writer's massive footprints. With that out of the way, I would like to share my thoughts on a sub ject, which is not often talked about I find this subject to be as important as the fiscal stability of the Tribes. You're probably thinking what that could be. While I admit, money is a useful and somewhat necessary thing to have in this day and age it is not the most important thing, in my mind. The manner in which we as com munity and tribal members treat each other is the subject that I feel is the backbone for any future growth potential we may have as a tribal community. The history of 'bad blood goes beyond what even our eldest mem bers can recall. Why is it important? Think of your own personal experi ences or those of close relatives or friends and the obstacles encountered as one attempts to improve one's sta tion in life. I've often heard that we as a com munity do not like anybody to suc ceed, or we as a community like to see others fail. But what I'm talking about goes deeper into our interpersonal rela tionships with other fellow tribal or Easter is just around the corner I am so excited. Easter is only three weeks away. The tomb is empty. The Holy Spirit continues His mission. You know I have heard of the many paths to God. That all paths lead to I lis love. That may be so, but with Jesus Christ I do not have to walk a path. God comes down my path and we walk it together. Spirituality is not a path up a mountain to the presence of God. The path called life is down valleys, up mountains, beside clear waters. It is the beginning of learning to live and love in the presence of God today and tomorrow. Because in time living in the presence of God will be eternity. Getting it right today is to experi ence that place called Heaven. Get excited. God loves you. The Lord will Deadlines The next Spilyay is sue publishes March 21, with a March 15 deadline for letters and stories. Announcements The Spilyay encourage! orga nization and individuals to lend notices of events that are of inter est to the Warm Springs commu nity. The preferred method of deliv ery it via e-mail to spilyaytymoowstribei.org. You also may drop announce In My Opinion community members. So often, I observe blood relatives, not necessar ily my relatives, cross each other's path and not nary a word or acknowl edgment is given by either party. What would happen if all of a sud den we started talking to each other at the most basic human level? I realize that we all want immedi ate resolution to bigger issues facing the Tribes today, but I put forth that we must do the small things well first before we can effectively solve much bigger and complex tribal issues. Talking to someone, shaking someone's hand, acknowledging someone to let them know they are a meaningful part of the tribal commu nity are all so simple and cost noth ing to express. Too often, at community meet ings, a person speaks out against an other person or issue by forcibly as serting what needs to be done in their personal view. Too often, there is not enough talk ing about problem identification or resolution, just a personal view left out there for the wind to blow away. Our elders, many of whom have passed to the other side, knew the value of consensus building through talking about the pros and cons of each side of a problem. To get where I think we need to be will require improving our commu nications skills first as individual hu man beings, then just maybe our communications as a government or community will surely follow. , ' So the next time you come across a nephew, niece, grandchild, uncle, aunt, grandparent or neighbor let them know you know they are alive. Call them good names and keep a good heart That is all, for now. Hello from Pastor Rick help you discover how to love your self. And how to love others, even the ones you do not like. Yep, that is the power of love. Don't worry if you feel your prayers are poor. Your Bible reading is slim. Your worship shallow. Try. lining go, and letting God is the Christian way of Easter. Yep, get excited, the tomb of Jesus Christ is empty. The war for our souls is over, we won. Act like a winner. Hymns for the family of God. If you have one of the Warm Springs Presbyterian Church hymnals, we need it We do not have enough for worship. If you find one, drop it off at the church. Hug someone you love. Hug someone you dislike. No alcohol or tobacco for children. One day at a time. Buckle up the kids and your selves. Don't hit or beat on yourself. Pay your bills before gambling, then stay home. Read the Bible for its ef fect on your heart. Pray to God to the point of your hearing Him. I lonor someone each day. Love your self. Like yourself. See you in church. Pastor Rick R. Ribelro ments in printed or computer disk format at the i;2jtj oKke, 1100 Wasco Street. Or lend them to Spilyay Tymoo, P.O. Bos 870, Warm Spring, OR 97761. Fat number k 533-3339. Fieaie feel free to call if you have itory ideas, ques tions or comment!. The number is 553-3274. Important notice regarding letters - Beginning with the next edi tion of the Spilyay, any letter longer than 350 words may be cut from the bottom up. Letters that are longer than 350 words will appear in their entirety only if there is room on the editorial page. The reason for this policy is that everyone has the right to submit a letter to the editor. Letters that are exceedingly long leave no room on the page for the views of others. In the future, priority will be given to letters that are shorter than 350 words. Letters longer than 350 words may be cut start ing with the last sentence. Thank you very much for writing to the Spilyay Tymoo. A thank-you To the Editor, I would like to take this time to say thank-you to the following people. My aunt Melinda and Uncle Lester. My cuzz Richard and Kelly. My In-laws Thelma and Janice. We appreciate all your help and being there for us. To Nancy Collins, for taking the time and standing by us. To my daughters' friends who took the time to help us out. To Jack and Mimi. It was real kind of you, good to see you both. To the person who returned my coin purse, I will remember your honesty. Thank ypu. 4 - Jessica Polk family An apology To the Warm Springs Police Department: I, Elmina Ching apologize for my actions and for what I had done to one of the Police cars. I didn't mean to scratch the car or peel the logo on the door. It'll never happen again. Elmina Ching Not giving up Hey there natives, how is life on the rez? Well as for me I'm doing somewhat good. I'm sitting in the hole aka (S.H.U.) I have been in the hole for the passed 26 days now for getting drunk and fighting. So now I'll be getting sent to the (USP). So I just want my family and friends to know that I will be leaving Sheridan F.C.I. real soon. I'd like to take some time to say to my family that now that I'll no longer be here 111 still pray at sweat for you all and to my twin girls. Daddy loves you girls a lot and will miss you girls. I know how much you girls wanted to come visit daddy here at Sheridan but not having the time and now that daddy is getting sent out of the state of Oregon I just want you girls to know 111 still be there in your hearts. If you girls are feeling down about daddy being gone, just look to your hearts and you will see me there! Well it has been going on 3 years now that I have been in lock down and I'm still the same old native I was when I was out there. I am not going to give up and let the fed's run over me. It is not what I'm about. I'm the native that is going to stay real and who I am. I will not let the fed's win by giving up I keep in my heart I will miss the visits with you. It was good seeing family and friends. 1 would like to say one happy birthday and she knows who she is, my first real love happy 22 or 23"1. I'm out and still keeping it native. Thank you for your time all the na tive of Warm Springs. As soon as I get to the next place I'll send my ad dress to the Coyote News for who ever wants to write. Francea T. Spino Jr. Letters to the Editor Support appreciated To the editor, I want to thank the people, friends and family for being there in support of our loss of our mother. Thank you drummers, cooks and special thanks to Margaret Boise, Mona Schuster and Janice Gilbert Gunshows for dressing her. Love you very much for what you have done. I don't remember everyone that helped or donated but we appreciate all that were there for your prayers and support during her illness and the funeral. It meant a great deal to each of us to know she was loved by so many. If I didn't mention your name and you know who you are, I am grateful for what ever it was you done and sorry for not acknowledging you. I love my family and want them to know I never have or will have a bad problem or attitude when we need each other, love each other and have to be sad with anyone but have family. There was family left out on the obituary so I asked if it could be run again with the corrections. Always a loving friend and relative, Linda (George) Meanus Getting on track To Rhonda (R.J.), Hey Sweetheart. Writing you this short note to apologize for all of the pain and suffering that I've caused you during our relationship. Once again, I let alcohol get the best of my life. I thought that I could handle one or two drinks. But, as an alcoholic knows, one isn't enough and, two is too many. Until I exceeded my limitatipn both mentally and physically', I "had a slight mental and physical disorder due to my alcohol intake. I am sorry and ashamed of myself for doing the things that I've said and done during my alcoholic escapade verbally, emotionally and physically. As you know, I put myself in alco hol counseling and soon I'll be going to an alcohol treatment program to get my life back on track and in or der so that we will be able to carry on our lives as a couple and, help each other through our relationship. I love you with not only the bot tom of my heart but my whole physi cal being. Love you forever, TimfT.J.) No bad feelings On September 2, 2001, we were passengers in a car that rear ended Robert Sam. We failed to report our name and address. We did not know it was the law. So, I just want to say I'm sorry to Robert Sam for this in cident that happened and hope there is no bad feeling loft between all par ties. I do apologize. Vanessa Gabriel & Cory Smith. The Lord's mercy Dear Christians, I would like to apologize for my indecent actions while I was under the influence. All that time of sobriety that the Urnl gave me, all went down the drain when I backslidcd for a weekend. 1 especially apologize to my church family at the Full Gospel. I know that we arc trying our best to get our people saved from eternal damnation, and that a bad report of one of us makes people quick on the draw with the word "hypocrite." I hope none of your family think we arc that. Thank God, our lord's mercy endureth forever. 1 had quenched the Spirit for that short time, and am paying for it, be cause sin has built-in consequences which arc impossible to escape. I am saved yet, because the Lord didn't some at an hour 1 didn't expect him, and I confessed and repented of my wrongdoing before the day of ac countability. As brothers and sisters in the Lord, please forgive me and pray me through this. Thank you, I also want to thank you special people that stood by my side and spoke up for me, such as my boss and our staff, Bible study teacher, counselors, family and rela tives. It made me feel better knowing that you all believed in me. Thanks. RT Thompson Carbusiness To the editor, Hi to all my relations on the rez. I'm "down" in Sheridan, finishing up a 15-month sentence on a federal beef selling marijuana. I feel bad my wife, Winona, and son have had to endure this. It's been difficult, more so when my sister, Eliza "Hotdawg" Greene, passed away and I couldn't be there for my family. I appreciate the sup port we've had and I apologize to those people I've disappointed. As far as my car sales business goes, I intend on starting back up in the future. But you know, it's a shame our tribes never game me the full support and funding necessary to really make this successful. I wanted to be the dealer for our vehicle pool, which budgets approximately $200,000 per year for car purchases. This would've been a good, hon est way to make a living, provide for my family, and branch out in the fu ture, thus helping others succeed. In stead, I was relegated to buying and selling older, high-mileage used cars, a very risky proposition. I believe in myself and my capa bilities. I had a workable business plan, quantified it, squeezing out as much risk as possible. Thanks to Vo cational Rehabilitation, I completed 8 weeks on the job training in 1999, with C.J. & X Auto Wholesale, Port land, Auto Auction, and Oregon DMV. Why haven't the tribes given me the support they've shown oth ers? Where are all these businesses that were given grants and loans? How much money (millions?) has been invested in these businesses? What procedures for accountability are there? Does anyone care? I also attained a phone dealership license. But is it because of who I am all I got was fish-eyed and shown the door? Once the cell phone business started, I planned on selling it to an other tribal member with some mo tivation and knowledge. I'm aware all phone coverage is spotty on the rez. Is American Tower Corp. (ATC) still interested in plac ing towers on the rez? It would be good. If so, I suggest our tribes look into ATC's profit potential and nego tiate for a percentage of profits rather than a yearly license fee. I can go on and on, but I got some people to thank. My customers, for buying cards from us, thank you. You've shown that this business is needed and can work. My philoso phy was no-pressure sales, let each car sell itself, all prices negotiable, and guaranteeing lowest prices. Thanks to those of you who stopped by or called to encourage us. Some of you spoke up to our leaders on my behalf. The following people wrote letters of support to the judge: Mom, Neda Wesley, my wife Winona, cousins, Marclla Sam and Mina Shike Estimo, also Dclford Johnson, Walt Quinn, Nelson Zumont, Juanita Villa, Lorena Wise, Trudy Thompson Brunoc, and Rhonda and Mike Greene. It was enough to help bring my sentence down and I'm grateful to these people. Last but not least, thanki to my mom and Aunt Liz, for loaning their cars to my family to they can visit A little more fat to chew on... How about mail-in voting for our referen dum elections? A work crew for in mates? A weekly Spilyay Tymoo with more in-depth news? Sincerely, Roger T. Srwyer Sr. (Ulttrt nntinm pigt 5)