Spilyay Tymoo Warm Springs, Oregon ' (Mm TT V.- EXTENSION 4-H & Luvn-t BcrnadetteHandley Zack del Nero Minnie RedDog rOi ER-3238 Home Economics Natural Kesources 4-tl Assistant Internet Address: http:www.orst.edudeptwsext The Oregon State University Extension Service staff Is devoted to extending research-based Information from OSU to the people of Warm Springs In agriculture home economics, 4-H youth, forestry, community development, energy and extension sea grant program with OSU, United States Department of Agriculture, Jefferson County and the Confederated Tribes of Warm Springs cooperating. The Exenslon Service offers its programs and materials equally to all people. The Clover speaks Cornell Study Says Path to BcttcrGradcs and Behavior: Join 4-H ITHACA. NY Young people who participate in New York state 4-H clubs do better in school, are more motivated to help others and achieve more than other kids ; who both do and do not participate in other kinds of group programs and clubs, ac cording to a two-year Cornell University study. Members of the youth organization also are more educationally motivated, have higher levels of self esteem, place more emphasis on having a value system and communicate at more of an adult level, says the study conducted by June Mead, a pro gram e val uator for Cornell Cooperative Ex tension; Eunice Rodriguez, an assistant professor in the Department of Policy Analysis and Management; and Tom Hirschl, a professor in the Department of Rural Sociology at Cornell. The findings from the study on how 4-H clubs make a difference in young people's lives are based on the "New York State 4-H Clubs: 'Members Only' " survey of almost 3,200 fifth-through 12lh-graders (30 percent male, 70 percent female) in 50 New York counties, including New York City. State wide, 4-H club enrollment is now about 10,600 males and 18,300 females. The Cornell researchers analyzed the data from Raising achild is probably the most gratifying job any of us will ever have and one of the toughest In large part, that's because times have changed. We live in a world that challenges us everyday with a wide range of disturbing issues that are difficult for children to understand and for adults toexpIain.Chattingaboutsex, HIVAIDS, violence, drugs and alcohol may be uncomfort able for you especially with young children. But consider this: our children are already hearing about these issues from TV, movies, magazines and school friends. If we don't talk with them early and often and answer their questions they'll get their facts from someone else. And we'll have missed an important opportunity to offer our children information that's not only accurate, but also in sync with our own personal ; values and moral principles. Start Early - Kids are hearing about and forced to cope with tough issues at increasingly early ages, often before they are ready to under stand all aspects of these complicated ideas. Researchandpublic health data tells us that when young children want information, advice and guidance, they turn to their parents first Once ' they reach the teenage years, they tend to depend more on friends, the media and other outsiders for their information. We need to take advantage of this "window of opportunity" with young chil dren and talk with them earlier and more often, particularly about tough issues like sex, HIV AIDS, violence, alcohol and drugs. Initiate Conversations with Your Child -While we want our children to feel comfortable enough to come to us with any questions and concerns and thus give us the opportunity to begin conversations this doesn't always oc cur. That's why it's perfectly okay at times even necessary to begin the discussion our selves. TV and othermediaare great tools for this. Say, for instance, that you and your 12-year-old are watching TV together and theprogram's plot includes a teenage pregnancy. After the show is over, ask your child what she thought of the program. Did she agree with how the teenagers behaved? Just one or two questions could help start a valuable discussion that comes from ev eryday circumstances and events. Also, when spcakingwithyourchild,besuretousewordsshe can understand. Trying to explain ADDS to a 6-year-old with words like "transmission" and "transfusion" may not be as helpful as using simplerlanguage.Thebesttechnique:usesimple, short words and straightforward explanations. If you have more than onechild andyourkids are widely spaced try to speak with them sepa rately, even about the same subject The reason? Children of varied ages are usually at different developmental levels, which means that they need different information, have different sensi tivities andrequireadifferentvocabulary. What's more, older children will often dominate the discussion, which may prevent the younger ones from speaking up. Even about Sex and Relationships - If you feel uncomfortable talking about such sensitive subjects - particularly sex and relationships STOCKMAN'S ROUNDUP: Agencies seek input by Bob Pawelek OSU Livestock Agent SPOKANE, WASHINGTON, March 14, 2000 Washington State Directors for Arinno Hnilp.ii Hnh Pawelek riinM.irkc Deanie lohnson VWMV. ' -wlt - Youth Livestock Staff the "Members Only" survey and then com pared the data with that of the "Search Institute Profiles of Student Life: Attitudes and Behaviors" survey that included young people who were involved in some type of club or organized group program and those who were not. The research by the Search Institute of Minneapolis found that the more opportunities young people have to develop their capacities in positive ways, the less likely they are to engage in problem behav iors and the more likely they are to engage in positive, pro-social behaviors. Of the 254,400 young people in the HOWIE SWEET HOME By Bernadette Handiey, Family & Community Development Agent with your young child, you're not alone. Many parents feel awkward and uneasy, especially if they are anxious about the subject But, for your kid's sake, try toovercome your nervousness and bring up the issue with your child. After all, our children are hearing about it both through the media and on the playground, and that informa tion may not include the values that we want our kids to have. Create an Open Environment - Young children want their parents to discuss difficult subjects with them. However, our kids will look to us for answers only if they feel we will be open ' to their questions. It's up to us to create the kind of atmosphere in which our children can ask any !uestions on any subject freely and without ear of consequence. How do you create such an atmosphere? By being encouraging, supportive and positive. For example, if your child asks, "How many people have AIDS?" try not to answer with, "I don't know. Please just finish your lunch." No matter how busy you are respond with something like, "That's an interesting question, but I'm notsure. Let's go look it up."(FYI: Don't worry that if your children learn that you don't know everything, they won't look up to you. That's simply not true. Kids accept "I don't know," and "let's go find out," and they are better responses than any inaccurate or misleading answers you may be tempted to offer.) One more point: You don't need to answer all of your children's questions immediately. If your 10-year-old asks, "Mom, what's a condom?" whileyou'renegotiatingatricky turn inrush-hour traffic, it's perfectly okay for you to say some thing like, "That's an important question. But with all this traffic,Ican'texplainrightnow.Let's talk later, after dinner." And make sure you do. Communicate your values - Begin the con versations before anyone else can confuse him herwith"iustthe-facts''explanationsthatlackthe sense of values and moral principles you want to instill. Likewise, when talking with your child about sex, remember to talk about more than "the , birds and the bees," and communicate your values. Remember: research shows that children want and need moral guidance from their moms and dads, so don't hesitate to make your beliefs clear. Listen to Your Child - How many times do we listen to our children while folding clothes, preparing for the next day's meeting, or pushing a shopping cart through the supermarket? While that's understandable, it's important to find time to give kids our undivided attention. Listening carefully to our children builds self-esteem by letting our youngsters know that they're impor- , tant to us and can lead to valuable discussions about a wide variety of sensitive issues. Listening carefully also helps usbetterunderstand whatour children really want to know as well as what they already understand. And it keeps us from talking above our youngsters' heads and confusing them even further. For example, suppose your child asks you USDA's Farm Service Agency (FSA), Natural Resources Conservation Service (NRCS) and Risk Management Agency (RMA), announced today theirplans for seven Public Listening Sessions scheduled through out the State of Washington. The purpose of the sessions is to gather farm owner and op erator input on the future of agricultural policy in the United States, particularly farm safety net and conservation programs within the 2002 Farm Bill. The format of the Public Listening Session is one that allows for prepared testimony, as well as remarks by mose who wish to address specific programs FSA, NRCS and RMA administer. The Western Washington meetings will be held in cooperation with WA Dairy Federation; Central Washington meetings with the WA Chair, Madras Secretary 4". Search Institute's survey, the 41 percent who participated in some type of club or organization similar to 4-H scored higher in almost all of the areas studied. I lundreds of young people said that 4-H clubs provided enrichment activities, broadened their worldview and expanded what they learned in school. One youth wrote, "MyJ 4-H experiences, such as public presentations and educational projects, have given me an edge in school. Most importantly, the lead ership experiences that I have had through 4-H nave helped me to become a more outgoing person, ready to take on all different sorts of responsibilities." Many young people reported that they had developed skills in leadership, public speaking, self-esteem, communication, and planning and that they have made lasting friendships through their club participation. One 4-H'er reported, "I've had a lot of fun in 4-H, learned many new skills and learned that my little help can count. 4-H has given me opportunities to grow and have fun doing so. For this gift, I am very grateful." Another wrote: "Without 4-H, I don't know where I'd be." what crack is. Before you answer, ask him what he thinks it is. If he says, "I think it's something you eat that makes you act funny," then you have a sense of his level of understanding and can adjust your explanations to fit Listening to our children and taking their feelings into account also helps us understand when they've had "enough. Suppose you're answering your 9-year-old's questions about AIDS. If, after a while, he says, "I want to go out and play," stop the talk and re-introduce the subject at another time. Try tobeHonest - Whateveryourchildren's age, they deserve honest answers and explana tions. It's what strengthens our children's ability to trust Also, when we don't provide a straight , forward answer, kids makp up their own fantasy ' explanations, which can be more frightening than any real, honest response we can offer. While we may not want or need to share all the details of a particular situation or issue with our child, try not to leave any big gaps either. When 4 we do, children tend to fill in the blanks them selves, which can generate a good deal of con fusion and concern. Be Patient Often it can feel like forever before a youngster gets his story out As adults, we're tempted to finish the child's sentence for him, filling in words and phrases in an effort to hear the point soonerTry to resist this impulse. By listening patiently1, we allow our children to think at their own pace and we are letting them know that they are worthy of our time. Use Everyday Opportunities to Talk-It's irnportantto try to talk withyour kids abouttough issues often, butthereisn'talways time in the day to sit down for a long talk. Also, kids tend to resist formal discussions about today's toughest is sues, often categorizing them as just another lecture from mom and dad. But if we use "talk opportunities," moments that arise in everyday life, as occasions for discussion, ourchildren will be a lot less likely to tune us out For instance, a newspaper item about a child expelled from school for carrying a gun to class can help you start a discussion on guns and violence. A public service TV commercial can give you an oppor tunity to talk about AIDS. Talk About it Again. And Again. - Since most young children can only take in small bits of information at any one time, they won't learn all they need to know about a particular topic fromasmgleaMscussion.That'swhyit'simportant toletaMetimepass.thenaskthechildtotellyou what she remembers about your conversation. This will help you correct any misconceptions and fill in missing facts. Finally, in an effort to absorb all they want to know, children often ask questions again and again over time which can test any parent's nerves. But such repetition is perfectly normal, so be prepared and tolerant. Don't be afraid to initiate discussions repeatedly, either. Patience and persistence will serve you and your child well. -Mtedfromhttpyww.talkingwithkids.org firsthtml on 2002 Farmbili- Horticultural Association and the Eastern Washington meetings with the WA Associa tion of Wheat Growers. Scheduled Listening Sessions throughout Washington State April 17, 2000; Colfax, WA; 7-9:00 a.m.; Public Service Bldg, 310 N. Main Street April 17, 2000; Waterville, WA; 9:30 a.m.-Noon; Douglas County Fairgrounds April 17, 2000; Walla Walla, WA; 1-3:00 p.m.; Pioneer Methodist Church, 209 E. Birch April 17, 2000; Yakima, WA; 4-6:30 p.m.; Davis H.S. KIVA room, 212 So. 6th Ave. April 17,2000; Kennewick,WA; 6:30-8:30 p.m.; Benton Co. PUD Auditorium 2721 W 10th Ave. April 18, 2000; Ml Vemon, WA; 10:30 - - A r,A Natural Resource by Zach del Nero, Natural Resources Agent Spring warm-up is on the am It is the end of February and I was ex pecting to see 2 or 3 feet of snow on the north end and 20-foot drifts on the pass roads - well, maybe next year. It appears that spring is getting close, we've been seeing some warmer days lately and the rains too. Now is a good time to start thinking about weed control, pasture plans, garden ing plans, and anything else you want to get done this year. You might have noticed a lot of articles here about weeds over the past couple of years - they are a serious problem for agri culture, yards, fire management, pasture quality, livestock health, and native roots and other plants. In just a few weeks, many problem weeds are going to start sprouting in your fields and along roadsides. Learn how to identify problem weeds and learn what you can do to control them. Weeds affect everyone - herbicides are costly and can cause environmental damage, wildlife and livestock lose out on feed quantity and quality, and native roots are crowded out (just look at what medusa head has done to many traditional root areas). Some weeds, like puncturevine (goat head, bullhorns), won't come out 'till the weather warms up in June or so - but it's a good idea to be ready for anything. If you wpuld like some help with identification or control methods -contact us at OSU Extension. For help with your pasture or other livestock plans - please contact Bob Pawelek, OSU Livestock Agent, for tips on improving your returns and the health of your grazing lands and livestock. Remem ber - livestock producers are dependent on a healthy pasture - if we are good at "farm ing" grass and other forage, then we can take the "gravy" off with livestock. Interested in gardening this year? Fred Meyer in Redmond has a great selection of fresh produce - and lots of "organically-grown" stuff. Safeway in Ma dras has been getting more and more "or ganic" items too, including milk and eggs. Organic produce is priced higher than Satellite Events OSU Extension hosts' a series of educational satellites developed by the U.S. Department of Education. Multiplying Excellence - April 18 Connecting with Youth - May 16 Learning Everywhere - June 20 Programs will be offered in the 1st floor classroom of the Education Building from 5PM-6 PM. Contact OSU Extension 553-3238 if you are interested in attending. Limit: 10. Have a safe & fun-filled Spring Break! U.S. farmers1 oil costs up as much as $3 bln-USDA WASHINGTON(Reuters) - U.S. farm ers may pay an extra $3 billion for fuel to run their tractors and other machinery this year due to soaring oil prices, a top U.S. Agriculture Department official said Mon day. USDA Chief Economist Keith Collins had said late last month that a spike in oil prices, which has come right as farmers need to run their machinery during spring planting, would raise farmers' fuel costs by $1 billion. But Collins is now raising his estimate to somewhere between $2 billion and $3 billion in added costs. Farm fuel expenses totaled $6.4 billion last year, ac cording to USDA estimates. "Oil prices have gone up fur ther than we thought and are staying high am.- 12:30p.m.; WSU Research Center 1468 Memorial Hwy. April 19, 2000; Chehalis, WA; 10:30 a.m. -12:30 p.m.; First Baptist Church , 1866 So. Market St. To submit statement for the record: Pro ducers who are unable to testify at a field hearing may instead submit written testimony for the official record. Testimonies must in clude their name, address, phone number and forwarded to USDA-FSA, Chris Bieker, 316 W. Boone, Suite 568, Spokane, WA 99201 by May 1,2000. Persons requesting special accommoda tions (e.g.: translator, disability) to participate in any one of the above listed meetings should contact Jo Lynne Seufer at 1-800-205-9953 by April 10,2000. USDA is an equal opportunity provider and employer. Li EJIA notables- "commercial" produce, because it is a smaller market right now. Often, organic produce is more expensive to grow, be cause there can be a lot more manual labor involved. The big advantage of "organic" goods is that they are grown without the use of many agricultural chemicals, pesticides, and hormones that are potentially harmful to the environment and to you (of course, anything that damages the environment ends up damaging us anyway). So why not grow some of your own? March is a good time to plant some seed flats for "cole" crops like cabbage, cauliflower, broccoli, and brussel sprouts (some of the best known "cancer-fighting" foods known). As soon 5S the soil is warmed up and ready, these flats can be transferred to the garden. Right now, you can pick out a spot on your prop erty for your "Y2K" garden. It's too early to work the soil up, but at least you can plan where you want it and what you are gonna want to plant this year. Pick an area that'll get plenty of sun from morning to evening, with good soils (may need to add some mix anyway), and access to water. It's a good idea to plan on fencing off your garden, since dogs and loose horses & cows like to tear into gardens when they can. If gardening sounds good to you, give us a call at OSU Extension and we can help with your plan. Also, I hope we can get together this year and work on the Community Garden - it's a great opportunity to work together for something that benefits everyone. longer than we thought," Collins told re porters after attending a government brief ing on spring drought prospects. . Crude oil prices have skyrocketed over the last several months, reaching a nine-year high of $34.14 last week. Prices have risen largely due to a coordinated cut in produc tion by members of the Organization of Petroleum Exporting Countries. U.S. offi cials are now hoping that OPEC will agree to increase output to help drive down prices at its next meeting later this month. Collins said unless crude oil prices drop soon, they will have a significant impact on U.S. farmers, not only in direct fuel costs, but also in added transportation charges for shipping crops and higher fees for oil-dependent fertilizers and pesticides. The oil price hike will cost farmers an extra 12 cents per bushel to grow commodities such as corn and wheat, he said. Twelve cents may not sound like much, but with depressed commodity prices, such as wheat trading at $2.62 per bushel and corn trading at $2.30 per bushel, those 12 cents could cause significant problems in farm country, officials said. "This is a very serious problem affecting agriculture," Agriculture Secretary Dan Glickman told reporters. "It shows how vulnerable agri culture really is." The oil price spike could also drive down consumer demand for some high-value agricultural goods, as grocery shoppers have less money in their wallets to spend on food after paying higher prices to fill the gas tanks in their cars. The Energy Department predicts the national price for gasoline could hit a record $1.80 a gallon this summer. Glickman said the department is putting together a report on the impact of higher oil prices on farmers. "We are looking at it and we will do a full-scale analysis and work with the Energy Department on it as well," he said. i