A16 East Oregonian PEANUTS PAGE LABEL HERE Tuesday, September 6, 2022 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Birthday dinner is more than reader can afford FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: I am in my ear- Dear Abby: Every year my ly 40s. I have reconnected with girlfriend and I take each other a girl I dated in high school. out for dinner on our birthdays Things are wonderful. I have and bring a gift. I am currently come to understand that she was experiencing financial hardship. “wronged” by other men. But At the restaurant, she ordered I have also learned it was hap- the largest portion of what she pening during our relationship wanted. She stated it’s what she J EANNE as teens. I cannot stop ripping always orders. I responded that P HILLIPS myself in half for not realizing it she always takes half of it home, ADVICE was happening and doing noth- and that I had offered to buy ing to stop it. her dinner for that night, not I am hesitant to do anything for two days. She got very angry that makes her revisit her pain, but it is and said I was ruining her birthday. She then said she’d pay for her own something I can’t let go of. I am not sure meal. I declined her offer and paid, but how I should proceed in the present, so now I’m wondering if I was wrong. She that I don’t let the past damage a future did pay for half the appetizer, which I that seems so bright. Could you please didn’t want or eat, and she left the tip. give me a woman’s point of view? — Should I have told her before we went out Cautious In Michigan Dear Cautious: Understand that you to dinner that I was on a tighter budget? Can our relationship be saved? — Losing and this woman were very different peo- ple when you dated more than 20 years In Las Vegas Dear Losing: Strong relationships ago. I suspect my point of view is simi- thrive when there is honest communi- lar to what you would get from a man: If cation. You and the Birthday Girl have you plan to proceed with this romance, been seeing each other for an extended the two of you should get at least six period of time. If money is tight, you months of couples counseling from a li- should have mentioned it long before her censed professional. A lot has happened to you both in birthday rolled around. Yes, she should have been aware of it before you invited the intervening years since high school. her to dinner. Because she wasn’t, I can There was nothing you could do to understand why she might have been put stop anything that happened. She was off by what she may have interpreted as a a willing participant in those failed re- snide comment rather than a cry for help. lationships. Your future with her will be Can your relationship be saved? Yes, as brighter once you know each other better long as you two REALLY start talking as adults, which will involve frank com- munication on both of your parts. to each other. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY 100 years ago in the East Oregonian GARFIELD BY JIM DAVIS History repeated itself this morning when J.J. Hamley, long the first buyer of tickets when the window opened at the box office on Alta street. Next in line was his son, John Hamley, with the Smythe-Lonergan Co. Third. George Baer, business manager, and Ernest Boylen, who is in charge of the office, state that today’s sales exceed the first day totals of 1921. Up to noon, $4000 had been taken in. Many people are buying the limit of twelve seats. There are still some good second row boxes and some small end boxes left. Both Mr. Baer and Mr. Boylen commented upon the spirit shown by the ticket purchasers. The controversy for tickets was most goodna- tured and there were absolutely no complaints regarding the sale. 50 years ago in the East Oregonian BLONDIE BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL Pendleton City Police are looking this week for a seriously ill person, following a burglary over the weekend at Hill’s Furniture Co., while the building was being fumigated. Dobyns-Hart Pest Control sealed the build- ing Saturday morning after flooding it with cyanide gas. When Dobyns-Hart workers returned Monday morning, they discovered that the building had been entered. A camera, two rolls of eight cent stamps and a company seal were reported missing. Total value of the stolen items is about $148. Police Chief Ernest Gallaher said he was told by Bob Hart of Dobyns-Hart that inhalation of the cyanide could be fatal. “If they did it Saturday night, there is a good chance that they’re dead,” Gallaher said. “If they did it Sunday night, they’d at least be very sick.” Pendleton area doctors and hospitals have been asked by city police to report any victims of gas poisoning. 25 years ago in the East Oregonian Pendletonian Benn Fosnaugh claims that every man has his hobby. “Some like to collect old cars; some like to collect women. I just got interested in stamps,” he said. “I’m a nut.” This past spring, Fosnaugh made a purchase that includes the now-cherished Princess Diana collection. Originally worth about $100, the 7-stamp collection that chronicles her early life will certainly be worth much more due to Diana’s recent untimely death. Small countries such as Anguilla, which produced the Diana collection, do so as a way to raise quick revenue, Fosnaugh said. The hobby helps keep the retiree occupied. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Sept. 6, 1901, President William McKinley was shot and mortally wounded by anarchist Leon Czolgo- sz at the Pan-American Exposition in Buffalo, New York. (McKinley died eight days later; Czol- gosz was executed on Oct. 29.) In 1909, American ex- plorer Robert Peary sent a telegram from Indian Harbor, Labrador, an- nouncing that he had reached the North Pole five months earlier. In 1972, the Summer Olympics resumed in Mu- nich, West Germany, a day after the deadly hos- tage crisis that left eleven Israelis and five Arab ab- ductors dead. In 1975, 18-year-old tennis star Martina Navra- tilova of Czechoslovakia, in New York for the U.S. Open, requested politi- cal asylum in the United States. In 1991, the Soviet Union recognized the in- dependence of Lithuania, Latvia and Estonia. In 1997, a public funer- al was held for Princess Di- ana at Westminster Abbey in London, six days after her death in a car crash in Paris. In Calcutta, India, weeping masses gathered to pay homage to Mother Teresa, who had died the day before at age 87. In 2001, the Bush ad- ministration abandoned the Clinton-era effort to break up Microsoft. In 2002, meeting out- side Washington, D.C. for only the second time since 1800, Congress convened in New York to pay hom- age to the victims and he- roes of September 11. In 2006, Presi- dent George W. Bush ac- knowledged for the first time that the CIA was running secret prisons overseas. In 2007, opera star Luciano Pavarotti died in Modena, Italy, at the age of 71. In 2018, the agent for actor Burt Reynolds con- firmed that Reynolds, known for his roles in “De- liverance,” “The Cannon- ball Run” and “Smokey and the Bandit,” had died at the age of 82. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE