A12 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, August 11, 2022 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Woman’s relationship is undermined by jealousy FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE running it into the ground, plus Dear Abby: I’ve been in a stealing as much as he could. “friend with benefits” relation- We have not spoken since. Our ship for more than a year now. grandson is now being married, I’m 57 and he’s 79. I was raised and he wants us to attend. We a Christian and wanted to save haven’t spoken to our grandson myself for marriage. I’m jealous or his father since all this hap- of his last girlfriend and what pened. Must we attend this wed- they had together. She wanted J EANNE ding? — Bad Blood In Florida to get married, and he didn’t. P HILLIPS Dear Bad Blood: It would be A woman at my church says I ADVICE unfair to shun your grandson ought to just remain friends with for the sins of his father. MUST him and pray God will send me you attend the wedding? No. a man who will love and marry me. There aren’t many available men my SHOULD you go? I think so. When you age. I feel guilty because I went against do, be cordial to your son. You do not my Christian faith. I’d appreciate your have to see him often or at all after that, but keep in mind there may be other fam- advice. — In Limbo In Arizona Dear In Limbo: Why are you wast- ily celebrations in the future. Dear Abby: I have a best friend of 15 ing your time being jealous of his ex- girlfriend? They are history. The odds years. (We even got matching tattoos.) of you changing this man’s mind on the However, I feel like I’m always put on the subject of marriage are not good, but you back burner. I’m easygoing, so maybe she knew that from the beginning. The guilt feels she doesn’t need to be a good friend you’re carrying may be the price you pay in return? I understand we all have busy for whatever pleasure this relationship lives, but there are 24 hours in a day and seven days in a week. It doesn’t take but a brings you. Since pickings are so slim in your com- minute to send a text to ask how I’m do- munity, please note that I’m not telling ing. Am I being unrealistic for wanting a you to end it. However, if the situation friendship that goes both ways? — Lost becomes increasingly painful, that’s what In A Friendship Dear Lost: It is only unrealistic if you should do. Because you are deeply religious, this may be a subject to discuss you have spoken to your longtime friend about how you feel (15 years late) and with your religious adviser. Dear Abby: Five years ago, our son she’s unwilling to expend a little more was arrested for child porn. At the time, effort in your direction. I recommend he was responsible for running our fam- you have that long-overdue conversa- ily business. When he was sent to prison tion with her and let her know what your for two years, we realized he had been needs are. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY 100 years ago in the East Oregonian GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL When giving the writer of the item of news for the Assembly of the Primitive Baptists of the Northwest at Touchet, Wash., Mrs. E.W. Allen showed an old manuscript of the first records of that church in the Oregon County. The records were kept by Mrs. Allen’s father, Benjamin Walden, who was clerk, and they began in February 1847 when a church was organized on the bank of the Yamhill river in a school house near Salem. They are brown with age and were written with a quill pen that was dipped in homemade ink. The manu- script is bound with pasteboard made by Mrs. Allen’s mother who pasted pieces of wrap- ping paper together with flour paste until they became the thickness of our paste board of today. The Assembly which meets at Touchet next Sunday will be the Seventy-third annual meeting of the association. Mrs. Knopp met Tetsuhiko and his parents during their tour of Japan. Marilyn Miller, a missionary friend of the couple arranged the introduction. “I took lessons in conversational English for several months,” said Tetsuhiko, a slim youth who does very well with an alien tongue. He has a variety of interests at home. He is a sub-leader in the Boy Scouts; a ham radio oper- ator with the call letters JH3BKJ; plays base- ball and soccer, and travels around 200 miles to go skiing in the mountains north of his home. He’ll leave Aug. 20 for home, stopping in California to visit Disneyland, and in Hawaii for a tour of that state. 25 years ago in the East Oregonian Hermiston Mayor Frank Harkenrider came back from Seaside with a couple pieces of good news: tax bills should be out before the end of the year and Oregon mayors agreed on 50 years ago a transportation resolution. in the East Oregonian Harkenrider, who attended the Oregon A 16-year-old visitor in Pendleton from Mayors Association 1997 summer conference, Japan will surely consider a bottle of gold said that Oregon mayors are in agreement that dust one of his most treasured souvenirs of an transportation funding is imperative. exciting month here. Tetsuhiko Kobayashi, The 64 mayors who attended resolved to of Takaishi City, near Osaka, is the guest of call upon the governor, the president of the Mayor and Mrs. Eddie Knopp this month. He Senate, the speaker of the House and the Legis- flew to San Francisco, then to Portland. The lature to convene a special session to pass a Knopps met him there. Two years ago Mr. and transportation funding package into law. On Aug. 11, 1997, Pres- In 1965, rioting In 2016, the Obama ident Bill Clinton made and looting that claimed administration said it the first use of the historic 34 lives broke out in the had decided marijuana line-item veto, rejecting predominantly Black would remain on the list three items in spending Watts section of Los An- of In most 2014, dangerous drugs, In 1860, the nation’s first out in the predominantly Academy and tax bills. geles. Watts section of Los Award-winning rebuffing growing successful silver (However, mill began Black actor sup- and the U.S. near Supreme In 1992, the Mall of comedian port across country operation Virginia Court City, Angeles. Robin the Williams, 63, later struck down the veto America, nation’s for broad legalization, but a Nevada. In 1992, the the Mall of Amer- died in Tiburon, California, as unconstitutional.) largest shopping-enter- said it would allow more In 1919, Ger many’s ica, the nation’s largest shop- suicide. center, research In 2016, Obama Weimar Constitution was ping-entertainment In 1860, the nation’s tainment center, opened into the its medical in Bloomington, said it had signed by President first successful silver Fried- mill opened in Bloomington, Minne- administration uses. rich Ebert. decided marijuana would began operation near Vir- Minnesota. sota. In 2020, Democrat Joe In City, 1934, Nevada. the first federal In President Bill on the list of most ginia In 1993, 1993, President Bill remain Biden named California prisoners at Alca- Army Army Gen. dangerous drugs, Harris rebuffing In 1949, arrived President Har- Clinton Clinton named named Sen. Kamala as traz Island (a former military John Shalikashvili to be the growing support across the ry S. Truman nominated Gen. John Shalikashvili his running mate; Harris prison) in San Francisco Bay. new chairman of the Joint country for broad legalization, General Omar N. Bradley to be the new chairman of was the first Black woman In 1952, Hussein bin Chiefs of Staff, succeeding the but said it would allow more to become the first King chair- the Joint Chiefs Staff, research on a major Talal was proclaimed of retiring Gen. Colin of Powell. into its party’s medical presi- uses. man of the Joint Chiefs of succeeding the retiring dential ticket. The newly Jordan, beginning a reign last- In 1997, President Bill Today’s Bir thdays: Staff. Gen. Colin Powell. elected district attorney in ing nearly 47 years. columnist Marilyn Clinton made the first use Magazine In 1956, abstract paint- In 2014, Academy Portland, Oregon, said he In 1956, abstract painter of the historic line-item Vos Savant is 76. Wrestler-ac- er Jackson Pollock, Award-winning actor items and tor would prosecute peo- Jackson Pollock, 44, died 44, in veto, Hulk not Hogan is 69. Actor rejecting three died automobile in an automobile comedian Robin ple arrested on Actor non-vio- an accident on in Davis is 57. Anna spending and Williams, tax bills. Viola Long Island, York. U.S. Supreme is 54. Hip-hop artist accident on New Long Island, (However, 63, died in the Tiburon, Cali- Gunn lent misdemeanor charges In York. 1965, rioting and loot- Court struck down the Ali Shaheed Muhammad is New fornia, later a suicide. during protests. ing that claimed 34 lives broke veto as unconstitutional.) 52. Actor Nigel Harman is 49. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN TODAY IN HISTORY PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE