COFFEE BREAK Saturday, July 9, 2022 East Oregonian A9 DEAR ABBY High school friend oversteps bounds digging into the past Dear Abby: Even though I have lived in a diff erent state for many years, I’ve remained in touch with a female friend I’ll call “Tina” from high school, mostly via text messaging. For the last 12 years, I have been in a relationship with a man who has been very good to me. We are not married and we don’t live together. When I fi rst met him, he told me that many years ago, when he was very young, he had been involved in several barroom brawls and had been arrested more than once. He recognized that his abuse of alco- hol was at the root of his problem and decided to quit drinking. Over the years he has worked hard to search on my boyfriend. One turn his life around, and he hasn’t day, out of the blue, she sent me been in any sort of trou- his “mugshot” and other ble since. details from 40 years I believe everyone ago, asking me if that deserves a second chance. was him. I can’t believe However, I told him that she did that, and I feel like if he decided to resume it was crossing the line. I can’t comprehend what d r in king and /or got she hoped to accomplish. arrested for any reason, How would you advise I would have nothing JEANNE further to do with him. He me to handle this situa- PHILLIPS hasn’t. I didn’t share that tion? — Simply Stunned ADVICE information with Tina In Florida because it really isn’t any Dear Stunned: I would advise you to lose your of her business. Unbeknownst to me, Tina “friend” and keep the man with decided to conduct a background whom you have the relationship. Tina was a furlong out of bounds to send you the information with- out fi rst discussing it with you. She may have done it in an attempt to “warn” you, or perhaps because she’s jealous. Whatever the reason, she owes you an apology — if you are still speaking to her, that is. Dear Abby: My best friend often asks me to do errands for her, such as stop someplace and pick something up for her. It is usually close to where I live or work or on my way home. I don’t always like doing it. In fact, I resent it. An occasional favor is fi ne, but this happens way too often. How do I tell her “no” when it is somewhere I have to drive right by? Once I told her I didn’t think I’d have time (the truth at that moment), and she said I could do it later, when I had the time! She walks with a cane, but this started before she had mobil- ity issues. How can I say no? — Imposed Upon In Texas Dear Imposed Upon: Because you now resent your “best friend’s” requests to run her errands, you will have to be honest with her. Explain that you didn’t mind doing it once in a while in the beginning, but this is happening so often it is getting to you. Then “suggest” that many markets and cleaners deliver or that she use a delivery service. DAYS GONE BY 100 years ago in the East Oregonian At a meeting of the city council Wednesday evening, it was decided to rigidly enforce the laws relating to speeding, turning in the middle of a block, etc. Pool halls will be allowed open until 12 o’clock on Saturday nights, but must close at 11 p.m. other nights. Eraden Gerking, one of the best cowboys in the West, will make riders at the Pendleton Round-Up ride hard to take away honors from him when he comes to compete in the fall, according to Albert Peterson, president of the Camas Cowboy’s Association. He is expected to win the all-around award as he did at an Idaho rodeo last month. 50 years ago in the East Oregonian A facility that will annually convert 10,000 acres of raw potatoes into tasty French fries requires a lot of building, money and construction know-how. To handle the construc- tion and equipment installation job in eight months also says a lot for the capability of the construction contractor and its key personnel. That’s the job of Hoff man Construction Co., Port- land, is doing on a Hermiston contract. Ground was broken in April on the huge $10 million Lamb-Weston plant in the south- west of Hermiston, and around the Fourth of July, Harvey Pruitt, general superintendent on the project for Hoff man, was predicting the plant will be completed “in the winter.” 25 years ago in the East Oregonian Ten teams will join the host team, Pendleton Swim Asso- ciation, at their yearly invitational meet at the Pendleton High School pool. The meet kicks off at 5 p.m. Friday. Joining PSA in the meet is the Hermiston Swim Club, Hi-Desert Swim Club from Bend, Hood River Valley Swim Club, Milton-Free- water Valley, Mount Hood Swim Team, Oregon City Swim Team, Parkrose Swim Team, and The Dalles Swim Team. Between 350 and 425 swimmers are expected for the meet. PSA is coming off a strong performance at last weekend’s Ted Walker Invitational in The Dalles where PSA’s Jen Thomas earned a state-qualifying time in the 11-12-year-old 400 free- style and swam on two relay teams that also earned state-qual- ifying times. Hood River easily won last week’s team title and will be a strong favorite again this week. Other top teams should be The Dalles and La Grande. THIS DAY IN HISTORY In 1776, the Declaration of Independence was read aloud to Gen. George Wash- ington’s troops in New York. In 1918, 101 people were killed in a train collision in Nashville, Tennessee. The Distinguished Service Cross was established by an Act of Congress. In 1937, a fire at 20th Century Fox’s fi lm storage facility in Little Ferry, New Jersey, destroyed most of the studio’s silent fi lms. In 1943, during World War II, the Allies launched Operation Husky, the inva- sion of Sicily. In 1944, during World War II, American forces secured Saipan as the last Japanese defenses fell. In 1947, the engagement of Britain’s Princess Eliza- beth to Lt. Philip Mountbat- ten was announced. In 1965, the Sonny & Cher single “I Got You Babe” was released by ATCO Records. In 1982, Pan Am Flight 759, a Boeing 727, crashed in Kenner, Louisiana, shortly after takeoff from New Orle- ans International Airport, killing all 145 people aboard and eight people on the ground. In 2004, a Senate Intel- ligence Committee report concluded the CIA had provided unfounded assess- ments of the threat posed by Iraq that the Bush admin- istration had relied on to justify going to war. In 2010, the largest U.S.-Russia spy swap since the Cold War was completed on a remote stretch of Vienna airport tarmac as planes from New York and Moscow arrived within minutes of each other with 10 Russian sleeper agents and four pris- oners accused by Russia of spying for the West. In 2015, South Carolina Gov. Nikki Haley relegated the Confederate fl ag to the state’s “relic room” after the legislature passed a measure removing the fl ag from the grounds of the Statehouse in the wake of the slaughter of nine African-Americans at a church Bible study. In 2018, President Donald Trump chose Brett Kavana- ugh, a solidly conservative, politically connected federal appeals court judge, for the Supreme Court to fi ll the seat left vacant by the retirement of Justice Anthony Kennedy. (Kavanaugh would be confi rmed in October after a contentious nomination fi ght.) In 2020, New York Mayor Bill de Blasio used a roller to help paint “Black Lives Matter” in front of President Donald Trump’s namesake Manhattan tower. The Supreme Court ruled in favor of a New York prose- cutor’s demands for Trump’s tax records. Ten years ago: Facing sagging jobs numbers, President Barack Obama sought to recast the Novem- ber election as a fi ght over tax fairness, urging tax cut extensions for all families earning less than $250,000 but denying them to house- holds making more than that. The remains of six U.S. airmen lost over Laos in 1965 were laid to rest in a single casket at Arlington National Cemetery. Detroit’s Prince Fielder became only the second player, after Ken Griff ey Jr., to win multiple titles in the All-Star Home Run Derby, thrilling the crowd at Kauff man Stadium with eight splash shots into the right-field fountain and beating Toronto’s Jose Bautista 12-7 in the fi nal. Five years ago: A cease- fi re arranged by the United States, Russia and Jordan took eff ect in three war-torn provinces of southern Syria. Iraqi Prime Minister Haider al-Abadi celebrated with Iraqi troops in Mosul after they drove Islamic State militants from some of their last strongholds. One year ago: Relaxing its COVID-19 guidelines, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention said vacci- nated teachers and students did not need to wear masks Church Solid Rock Community Church ONLI NE and I N-PERSON SERVI CES S U N D A Y S | 8 : 3 0 A M & 10:00 A M 541.276.1894 | 712 SW 27TH www.pendletoncog.com love God, love people, and make disciples who make disciples 140 SW 2nd St Hermiston, OR 97838 inside school buildings. 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Actor Linda Park is 44. Actor Megan Parlen is 42. R&B singer Kiely Williams (3lw) is 36. Actor Mitchel Musso is 31. Actor Georgie Henley is 27. DIRECTORY Redeemer Episcopal Church 541-567-6937 241 SE Second St. Pendleton (541)276-3809 www.pendletonepiscopal.org Worship Service: 11:00AM Sunday School: 9:45 Pastor Wilbur Clark Sunday Holy Communion: 9am Wednesday Holy Communion: Noon M-F Morning Prayer 7am on Zoom All Are Welcome St. Johns Episcopal Church N.E. Gladys Join Ave & Us 7th, Hermiston 541-567-6672 JOIN OUR INCLUSIVE CONGREGATION ON OUR JOURNEY WITH JESUS Services 9:00am Sundays In-person or streaming on Facebook or Zoom Sunday Worship Service 9:30 - Sunday School 10:30 - Worship Service Wednesday Bible Study 5:30 Family Fellowship Meal • 6:00 Bible Study 150 SE Emigrant (541) 276-3369 565 W. HERMISTON AVE. Iglesia Católica Nuestra Señora de los Ángeles 565 W. HERMISTON AVE. 32742 Diagonal Rd. 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