A12 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, June 30, 2022 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Husband manipulates family living in shelter FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE untarily, his wages can be gar- Dear Abby: I am the mother nished. While you’re at it, reach of two small children. I have out to the National Domestic separated from their verbally Violence Hotline (800-799- abusive, alcoholic father. I re- 7233) because they may have turned to my grandmother, who useful suggestions about how to raised me, and tried to get a job. rid yourself of your abusive, al- I couldn’t find one quickly and coholic husband. my uncles made me move out. J EANNE Dear Abby: Our only son has I currently live in a women’s P HILLIPS moved 2,000 miles away and shelter with my children, and I ADVICE has no contact with his sisters finally got a job. My problem is or me. I know his street address my husband still acts like we are and still have his email address getting back together. I want a divorce, but he won’t talk about it, and and phone number. About 10 years ago, threatens not to send money to support when I was separated from his father, we were both expressing our angst, and I me and the children. He keeps telling me how much money more than likely negated his feelings in he makes now and that he can get us a an email. I ran across it the other day, nice place where he is, or he can come and now realize that it may have caused stay a whole week with us when he’s off. the rift. Should I bring that up in an apology I don’t want him to come stay with us. When I tell him this, he gets angry and now, hoping he will accept my most sin- hangs up, but then calls back the next cere acknowledgment that I ignored his day to say the same thing. I can’t get him pain? If so, what do I say? I am heart- to understand that I don’t want to be broken and cannot sleep well with this with him anymore, and I’m tired of his hanging over my head. — Heartbroken abuse. He won’t admit he has a problem. Mom In Texas Dear Mom: Write your son and tell Any advice? — Done For Good Dear Done: Your husband persists the him you are trying to understand what way he has been because he’s trying to has caused the rift between you. Explain wear you down to the point that you will that you have been going over things in reunite with him. Perhaps you should ac- your mind and found the email from so cept fewer of those phone calls. If there long ago. Tell him that if this is what are social workers connected to the shel- caused it, you sincerely apologize, but ter you’re staying in, consult them about that you were both going through a dif- ficult time when the email was written, your predicament. Your husband cannot shirk paying that you love him and hope he will for- child support. If he doesn’t do it vol- give you if it caused him pain. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY 100 years ago — 1922 GARFIELD BY JIM DAVIS The Thomas Shop, one of the niftiest ladies ready-to-wear stores in the state of Oregon, has changed hands, according to an announce- ment made today. The store has been sold by its chief owner, W. H. Thomas of Portland to C. E. Hopf, proprietor of Hopf’s Upstairs Shop. The deal will mean the elimination of one of Pendleton’s stores, Mr. Hopf states. Both stores will be closed tomorrow and the stock of garments from the upstairs shop will be merged with the stock of the first floor store. Then a special sale will start Wednesday. The Campbell millinery shop owned by Mr. Rose Campbell and Mrs. Bertha Turner, will retain its present floor space in the Thomas Shop. 50 years ago — 1972 BLONDIE BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL The Kiddie Korner drop-in day care center at Hawthorne Court in Pendleton closed today after receiving little use during its three weeks of operation. Created to serve the needs of parents who need a baby-sitter in the spur of the moment, the drop-in center opened under the supervision of the Blue Mountain Coordi- nated Community Child Care Council (4-C). Parents took advantage of the service only seven times. Karen Gronquist, director of the drop-in center, said that people may have had a hard time finding the center. It was located among the 4-C council and school district administration offices and other buildings in the Hawthorne area. Lois Wilson, director of the 4-C council, said last week that part of the reason for the lack of use of the center was the cost. The cost was originally 50 cents per hour per child, but was reduced to 25 cents if more than one child was left by a parent. 25 years ago — 1997 The economic impacts of The Eastern Oregon Regional Airport at Pendleton are far and wide, according to a recently released study. The Oregon Department of Trans- portation’s study, based on data from 1995, shows EORA contributes $29 million to the local community. The study combines the economic impact of direct and secondary employment at airports, annual spending by airport tenants and spending associated with visitors traveling through airports. The docu- ment provides beneficial information for the airport. “We’ll use it in economic develop- ing packages,” said Larry Dalrymple, airport manager. EORA employs 197 people directly and 210 in secondary jobs and carries a payroll of $8,003,100, according to the study. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On June 30, 1982, the proposed Equal Rights Amendment to the U.S. Constitution expired, hav- ing failed to receive the required number of rati- fications for its adoption, despite having its seven- year deadline extended by three years. In 1918, labor activ- ist and socialist Eugene V. Debs was arrested in Cleveland, charged under the Espionage Act of 1917 for a speech he’d made two weeks earlier denouncing U.S. involvement in World War I. In 1921, President Warren G. Harding nomi- nated former President William Howard Taft to be chief justice of the United States, succeeding the late Edward Douglass White. In 1971, the Supreme Court ruled, 6-3, that the government could not prevent The New York Times or The Washington Post from publishing the Pentagon Papers. A So- viet space mission ended in tragedy when three cos- monauts aboard Soyuz 11 were found dead of asphyxiation inside their capsule after it had re- turned to Earth. In 1986, the Supreme Court, in Bowers v. Hard- wick, ruled 5-4 that states could outlaw homosexual acts between consenting adults (however, the na- tion’s highest court re- versed this decision in 2003 in Lawrence v. Texas). In 1994, the U.S. Fig- ure Skating Association stripped Tonya Harding of the national champion- ship and banned her for life for her role in the at- tack on rival Nancy Ker- rigan. In 2009, American soldier Pfc. Bowe R. Berg- dahl went missing from his base in eastern Af- ghanistan, and was later confirmed to have been captured by insurgents after walking away from his post. (Bergdahl was released on May 31, 2014 in exchange for five Tali- ban detainees; he pleaded guilty to desertion and misbehavior before the enemy, but was spared a prison sentence by a mili- tary judge.) PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE