A10 COFFEE BREAK East Oregonian Saturday, June 11, 2022 DEAR ABBY Young couple’s PDA session prompts woman to chime in Dear Abby: A few months ago, my daugh- ter told me she was with her boyfriend at the local bowling alley and they were kissing and hugging. When she went to use the ladies’ room, she was followed by an older woman who proceeded to “advise” my daughter about the local family planning clinic, as well as off er her opinion that teenagers need to be very careful in their sex lives so they don’t end up as young parents and derail their futures. While I believe the woman had good inten- tions, I also think what she did was wildly inappropriate. I was tempted to report her to the police. What’s your opinion? Should I have contacted and confronted this woman? — None Of Your Business Dear N.O.Y.B: For you to have contacted the police or confronted the woman would have been extremely inappropriate. If your must-go-to-events such as Thanksgiving and daughter and her boyfriend were putting on Christmas, he’ll say a few words to everyone, such a show for the other bowlers and then sit quietly the rest of the that an onlooker felt your daughter evening, looking bored. needed the information, she did your I have always been outgoing child a favor. An unintended preg- and social. I recently started work- nancy can, indeed, derail a young ing from home, so my workplace couple’s future. socialization has disappeared. I Dear Abby: For the 30-plus need socialization, and I don’t know how to tell my husband I am going to years I have known him, my start doing things without him. He husband has never been social. JEANNE When we were dating, he’d rather will consider that I am abandoning PHILLIPS it just be the two of us, and avoided him. What would you suggest? — ADVICE parties, group outings, etc. Because Social Butterfl y In Buff alo of this, I have given up trying to Dear Butterfl y: You are not going go out with friends, and even with his or to change your husband. Before you become my family members because he complains completely isolated, start doing things with- about having to go. When he does attend out him. Leave him at home where he’s comfortable. If he feels “abandoned,” quit making it your problem as you have before. You aren’t joined at the hip, and isolation isn’t healthy for you. Dear Abby: I have a lovely collection of cloth napkins, but no longer use them for holiday meals because my son-in-law of 15 years began using them as “hankies” at my formal dining table. He actually blows his nose in them. This grosses us out, but I’m afraid to say anything for fear he will pack up my grandkids and that will be the last we see of them. He has a doctorate degree, so it isn’t ignorance causing this. What would you do? — Proper In Michigan Dear Proper: What I would do is have a nice box of tissues at his place setting when he comes for dinner. DAYS GONE BY 100 years ago — 1922 A refusal on the part of the city council to interfere with the plans for rebuilding Happy Canyon, the passing of an ordi- nance for making it illegal for livestock to be permitted to run in corrals or enclosures within the city limits, the issuance of an order to George DeMott to show cause why his license for operating a soft drink place should not be rescinded, and a decision to have houses on cross streets that intersect Jackson street between Main and Matlock renumbered were some of the high spots of the city council’s accomplishments last night. The attitude of the council on Happy Canyon was asked by Henry Thompson, a resident of the vicinity of the night show, who with others presented the city body with a petition oppos- ing the rebuilding of the place which was partially wrecked by snow last winter. Mr. Thompson declared that neither he nor any of the others felt any animus against the show or any of the directors, but he said the building increases fi re risk and during the holding of the night show there are too many objectionable things going on. 50 years ago — 1972 During a city council meeting in Heppner on Monday, Mayor Bill Collins said he had received an unsigned letter from a resi- dent complaining of the horse tracks on the newly constructed foot bridge across Willow Creek. Councilman Jerry Hollomon, who operates a barber shop on N. Main Street, said youngsters in groups on horses had been riding on the sidewalk in front of his business. Not only youngsters ride on sidewalks. Two coun- cilmen reported they had watched an adult ride his horse down the sidewalk to a grocery store, go in and purchase groceries, come back and mount and ride off . It is usual here from the fi rst of June until rodeo time at the end of August for many horses to be on the streets. But council members issued a warning that the animals, according to city ordinance, are restricted to the streets and are not to be on sidewalks. 25 years ago — 1997 Before and after school care for Pendleton School District students will be more accessible next school year after the School Board voted Monday to approve a contract with Children’s World Learning Centers. With a 4-2 vote, board members gave the go ahead for Children’s World — a division of Ara Services Co. — to operate before- and after-school day care centers at Lincoln and McKay elementary schools. Chil- dren’s World operates seven learning centers in the Portland area. The company operates more than 480 child care centers in 21 states. The program will serve kindergarten through sixth grade students from 6:30-8:25 a.m. and from 2-6:30 p.m. Monday through Friday. Children from any elementary school are eligible to enroll in the program. The learning centers will have nine “clubs” that students can join in diff erent areas, including science, crafts, cooking, sports and drama. THIS DAY IN HISTORY In 1509, England’s King Henry VIII married his fi rst wife, Catherine of Aragon. In 1770, Captain James Cook, commander of the British ship Endeavour, “discovered” the Great Barrier Reef off Australia by running onto it. In 1776, the Continental Congress formed a commit- tee to draft a Declaration of Independence calling for freedom from Britain. In 1919, Sir Barton won the Belmont Stakes, becom- ing horse racing’s first Triple Crown winner. In 1938, Johnny Vander Meer pitched the first of two consecutive no-hitters as he led the Cincinnati Reds to a 3-0 victory over the Boston Bees. (Four days later, Vander Meer refused to give up a hit to the Brook- lyn Dodgers, who lost, 6-0.) I n 1955, i n mot or racing’s worst disaster, more than 80 people were killed during the 24 Hours of Le Mans in France when two of the cars collided and crashed into spectators. In 1962, three prisoners at Alcatraz in San Francisco Bay staged an escape, leav- ing the island on a make- shift raft; they were never found or heard from again. In 1985, Karen Ann Quinlan, the comatose patient whose case prompted a historic right-to-die court decision, died in Morris Plains, New Jersey, at age 31. I n 1987, Ma rga ret Thatcher became the first British prime minister in 160 years to win a third consec- utive term of offi ce as her Conservatives held onto a reduced majority in Parlia- ment. In 1993, the U.S. Supreme Court unanimously ruled that people who commit “hate crimes” motivated by bigotry may be sentenced to extra punishment. I n 2 0 01, Ti mot hy McVeigh, 33, was executed by injection at the federal prison in Terre Haute, Indi- ana, for the 1995 Oklahoma City bombing that killed 168 people. In 2009, with swine fl u reported in more than 70 nations, the World Health Organization declared the fi rst global fl u pandemic in 41 years. In 2020, Louisville, Kentucky, banned the use of “no-knock” warrants and named the new ordi- nance for Breonna Taylor, who’d been fatally shot by officers who burst into her home. San Francisco’s mayor said city police offi - cers would stop responding to non-criminal activities such as disputes between neighbors and reports about homeless people; they would be replaced on those calls by trained, unarmed profession- als. Ten years ago: Testi- mony began in the trial of former Penn State assis- tant football coach Jerry Sandusky, accused of sexu- ally abusing 10 boys over 15 years. (Sandusky was later convicted and sentenced to at least 30 years in prison.) Rafael Nadal won his record seventh French Open title, defeating Novak Djokovic 6-4, 6-3, 2-6, 7-5. The Los Angeles Kings won their fi rst NHL championship, beating the New Jersey Devils 6-1 in Game 6 of the Stanley Cup fi nals. Five years ago: Support- ers of LGBT rights marched and rallied in the nation’s capital and dozens of other U.S. cities, celebrating gains but angry over threats posed by the administration of Pres- ident Donald Trump. “Dear Evan Hansen,” the heart- Church Our Lady of Angels Catholic Church 565 W. HERMISTON AVE. felt musical about young outsiders, took the best new musical trophy at the Tony Awards along with fi ve other statuettes. The Stanley Cup returned to Pittsburgh after the Penguins defeated the Nashville Predators 2-0 in Game 6. Rafael Nadal won his record 10th French Open title by dominating 2015 champion Stan Wawrinka 6-2, 6-3, 6-1 in the fi nal. Today’s Bir thdays: Former U.S. Rep. Charles B. Rangel, D-N.Y., is 92. Singer Joey Dee is 82. Actor Roscoe Orman is 78. Actor Adrienne Barbeau is 77. Animal rights activist Ingrid Newkirk is 73. Singer Graham Russell (Air Supply) is 72. Rock singer Donnie Van Zant is 70. Actor Peter Bergman is 69. Pro Football Hall of Famer Joe Montana is 66. Actor Hugh Laurie is 63. TV personal- ity Mehmet Oz, M.D., is 62. Singer Gioia Bruno (Expose) is 59. Rock musician Dan Lavery (Tonic) is 56. Actor Clare Carey is 55. Actor Peter Dinklage is 53. Actor Lenny Jacobson is 48. Actor Joshua Jackson is 44. Amer- icana musician Gabe Witcher (Punch Brothers) is 44. U.S. Olympic and WNBA basket- ball star Diana Taurasi is 40. DIRECTORY Iglesia Católica Nuestra Señora de los Ángeles Redeemer Episcopal Church 565 W. HERMISTON AVE. 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