A16 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, May 10, 2022 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Couple reconnects but can’t rekindle the past FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE one to “nest” with, you will have Dear Abby: I met a man, to look elsewhere. “Gabe,” 30 years ago. We had a Dear Abby: I am contemplat- very good time together. We dat- ing asking my wife for a divorce. ed some and even traveled occa- Her 86-year-old mother lives sionally. I liked him a lot but, with us. After she moved in, I when we met, I was divorced quickly realized that her mother and looking for marriage. He is a bigot, nosy and has little to was not. I moved for my job, and J EANNE no respect for my wife. Agreeing met and married someone else. P HILLIPS to her mother moving in was the Gabe did call to keep in touch ADVICE worst mistake of my life. I avoid for several years, but the calls her like the plague now. stopped. I never forgot him. I can work from home full My husband passed away four years ago, and then COVID hit. time, but prefer to drive 75 miles a day to Feeling the loneliness of lockdown, I get out of the house. Her mother needs wrote letters to people I hadn’t heard more care now than can be provided at from in years. Gabe’s was one such let- home. However, my wife wants to bring ter. He called me after he received it, and someone in a few days a week, since I no we reconnected. We have enjoyed each longer work from home. She’s just delay- ing the inevitable. other’s company off and on since then. I believe her mother is more impor- I would love to have a deeper relation- ship with him. Unfortunately, he regards tant to her than I am and, if that’s the me as nothing more than a friend. He is case, I can’t change her mind. Aside from intelligent, quick-witted, well-traveled this, we have a great marriage. I don’t and still very handsome. I enjoy his com- want to lose what I have, but I am pre- pany very much. I’ve wanted to tell him pared to walk away. Advice? — Hates how I feel, but I don’t want to jeopardize The Houseguest Dear Hates: I do have some. If as- what we have together. So here I am, now in my 60s, feeling lost and not knowing sisted living is in your mother-in-law’s fu- how to handle my desire to be with him. ture, it would be kinder to have her take What do you think? — Long History up residency soon, while she’s capable of adjusting to it rather than postponing it In Florida Dear History: If you are looking for until there is an emergency. You are long more than you already have with Gabe, overdue for a frank and not very pleas- you are wasting your time. Gabe is sat- ant conversation with your wife about isfied with the relationship just as it is. how you feel you rank on her list of pri- If he wasn’t, believe me, he would have orities. Feeling as you do, it may be your mentioned it. If what you need is some- only chance of saving your marriage. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY 100 years ago — 1922 GARFIELD BY JIM DAVIS Milton City’s new engine arrived Wednes- day from the factory at Beloit, Wis. It is a Fair- banks-Morse, of the semi diesel type, three hundred horsepower and weighs thirty tons. The gigantic machine is about twenty feet long by six feet in width, and is one piece of solid iron, with the exception of the shafting, pulleys, etc. It was no small task to move the huge thing from the car to the foundations, a distance of about one hundred feet. The job was accomplished by means of blocking made of railroad ties and other heavier timbers, over which it was moved on rollers, Gilbert Thomas using his Fordson tractor in the place of a capstan. Any kind of fuel oil, from gaso- line to crude oil, can be used to run it. 50 years ago — 1972 BLONDIE BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL Muscle shirts on boys, and blue jeans on girls. Are these grubbies? No, said a McLough- lin High School committee from the student council which attended the regular meeting of District 3 school board Tuesday night. The committee was accompanied by more than 50 students. The student protest began last week, said school Supt. Edward Miller, when four students were sent home for wear- ing apparel the school principal considered to be in violation of the student dress code. Last fall a code was reviewed by faculty and students. Teacher Jack Williams, one of the members of the Milton-Freewater student-fac- ulty committee, was asked to define the word “grubby.” “It wasn’t easy,” said Williams. “But we finally decided grubbies are clothing that is ragged, dirty or unkempt, and clothing which is disruptive in school.” Lee Monthie, president-elect of the student body, said that a school poll showed 89.5 per cent consider muscle shirts “not disruptive,” and 92.5 don’t think blue jeans on girls is disruptive. The students, said Monthie, propose that the school administration leave the matter of dress to the students and their parents. 25 years ago — 1997 After almost 20 years of service, Amtrak’s Pioneer trainline decided to shut down its Chicago to Seattle run. Originally, it was supposed to cease to exist Nov. 10, 1996, but a six-month reprieve was granted by Amtrak, which agreed to let states affected by the shut- down search for ways to win additional money for the line. It didn’t work. In March, the company announced that without state support, the Pioneer line would stop running May 10, and this time, there would be no stay of execution. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On May 10, 1940, during World War II, German forces began in- vading the Netherlands, Luxembourg, Belgium and France. The same day, British Prime Minis- ter Neville Chamberlain resigned, and Winston Churchill formed a new government. In 1775, Ethan Allen and his Green Mountain Boys, along with Col. Benedict Arnold, captured the British-held fortress at Ticonderoga, New York. In 1818, American pa- triot Paul Revere, 83, died in Boston. In 1865, Confederate President Jefferson Davis was captured by Union forces in Irwinville, Geor- gia. In 1869, a golden spike was driven in Promon- tory, Utah, marking the completion of the first transcontinental railroad in the United States. In 1924, J. Edgar Hoover was named acting director of the Bureau of Investigation (later known as the Federal Bureau of Investigation, or FBI). In 1994, Nelson Man- dela took the oath of of- fice in Pretoria to become South Africa’s first Black president. The state of Il- linois executed serial killer John Wayne Gacy, 52, for the murders of 33 young men and boys. In 2002, a tense 39-day-old standoff be- tween Israeli troops and Palestinian gunmen at the Church of the Nativity in Bethlehem ended with 13 suspected militants flown into European exile and 26 released into the Gaza Strip. In 2013, the Internal Revenue Service apolo- gized for what it acknowl- edged was “inappropriate” targeting of conservative political groups during the 2012 election to see if they were violating their tax-exempt status. In 2014, Michael Sam was picked by the St. Louis Rams in the seventh round of the NFL draft, becoming the first openly gay player drafted by a pro football team. (Sam retired after an unsuccess- ful stint with the Rams and the Dallas Cowboys.) PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE