A16 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, May 3, 2022 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Man’s true colors shock his longtime girlfriend FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE adults, and most people consid- Dear Abby: I am a 58-year- er us a perfect couple. My wife old, never-married woman. I’ve has had several affairs over the recently ended a relationship years, some she has admitted with a man I’ve known since to and others I have stumbled childhood. I truly love him. The across. For the most part, they problem is that he had been have been physical only, with no stealing from me. I confronted emotional attachment. Twenty him several times, but finally J EANNE years ago she had a passionate had to involve the police. Now, P HILLIPS affair with a younger man. It he has flattened my tires and re- ADVICE ended when he broke it off to be peatedly dented my cars. with someone else. I didn’t know Is there more than one right about it at the time. person for everyone? How long A year ago, she found out he’s single will it take me to recover from a bro- ken heart, if ever? How well do you again and invited him back into her life. really know anyone? — Disillusioned Now, she’s openly seeing him. She’s tell- ing me they are “just friends” and she In Washington Dear Disillusioned: Inform the police “needs his company because only he un- that your ex-boyfriend is continuing to derstands her.” I believe if he had a bet- retaliate because you reported him. There ter job and financial outlook, she would is no timetable for healing from a broken leave me in a minute. I can’t stand the thought of losing the heart, but take it from me, it DOES hap- pen. I firmly believe there is more than love of my life, but I also can’t keep living with her knowing I play second fiddle in one “right person” for everyone. We get to know the significant people her heart. She refuses counseling because in our lives by observing them over a she doesn’t see this as a problem. Should long period of time and watching how I give her more time (a year already) or they treat others. You should not keep file for divorce? — Confused In Illinois Dear Confused: You have given your your distance from this man only be- cause of his vandalism and the money wife enough time to come to her senses. he has cost you, but also because he has You state that she refuses counseling and anger problems he seems unable to con- you believe she would leave you in a min- trol. Surely those character flaws showed ute if he made more money. That means themselves before he started acting out she is staying with you only because of on you. Think back on the little things the lifestyle you provide. I do think there should be some counseling — for YOU. you may have chosen to ignore. Dear Abby: My wife and I married as It will provide insight and emotional sup- teenagers 40 years ago. Our children are port as you contemplate divorce. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY 100 years ago — 1922 GARFIELD BY JIM DAVIS When teams from various schools of Umatilla county meet here this weekend to vie with each other for championships in declama- tion and track and field events, the folk dance, which was introduced last year, will also be an event over which teams will contend. At pres- ent indications are that five teams will partici- pate in the folk dances. A change in plans has been made and this year the teams will stage their dances on the courthouse lawn. This part of the program will be held Saturday morning and will be free to the public. 50 years ago — 1972 BLONDIE BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL Irrigation from wells in some areas of the dry desert country of Eastern Oregon may be restricted before long. In fact, this was done in the Ordnance area in 1966 in a strip 12 miles wide and 15 miles deep. This was the word given Heppner-Morrow County Chamber of Commerce this week by State Engineer Chris Wheeler. Under discussion was the Butter Creek area, which extends some 18 miles south from Ordnance, and three miles east. The only shallow wells are along the creek bed. In other areas deep wells have recently been drilled, bringing much of this land under irrigation. But studies show the water level is dropping 30 feet per year. “Development started faster and went further here than in any other area in the state,” Wheeler said in explaining why it was being watched so carefully by his department. “This may be one of our most critical areas.” Restrictions might require only that no irriga- tion be carried out except during the growing season. But they may also require closure of some wells now in use. 25 years ago — 1997 The lightning that rattled windows all across town Saturday evening struck a tree at Pendle- ton High School. The strike scorched the tree, ripping bark off most of the tree trunk, and also damaged a cement sidewalk at the school. The lightning bolt apparently traveled down the tree and through the ground a few feet before blow- ing out a portion of the sidewalk near the high school shop. Trisha Olson, secretary for PHS principal Jim Krout, said the strike also caused some electrical problems, such as clocks not running and computers malfunctioning. The high school was remodeled and expanded over the past year, with work finishing at the start of the school year. Olson said the school is in the process of finding out how much damage was caused by the lightning strike so the school could inform its insurance company. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On May 3, 1979, Con- servative Party leader Margaret Thatcher was chosen to become Britain’s first female prime minister as the Tories ousted the incumbent Labour gov- ernment in parliamentary elections. In 1802, Washington, D.C., was incorporated as a city. In 1937, Margaret Mitchell won the Pulitzer Prize for her novel, “Gone with the Wind.” In 1948, the Supreme Court, in Shelley v. Krae- mer, ruled that covenants prohibiting the sale of real estate to Blacks or mem- bers of other racial groups were unenforceable. In 1960, the Harvey Schmidt-Tom Jones musi- cal “The Fantasticks” be- gan a nearly 42-year run at New York’s Sullivan Street Playhouse. In 1987, The Miami Herald said its report- ers had observed a young woman spending “Friday night and most of Sat- urday” at a Washington townhouse belonging to Democratic presidential candidate Gary Hart. (The woman was later identified as Donna Rice; the resulting controversy torpedoed Hart’s presi- dential bid.) In 2006, a federal jury in Alexandria, Virginia, rejected the death penalty for al-Qaida conspirator Zacarias Moussaoui, de- ciding he should spend life in prison for his role in 9/11; as he was led from the courtroom, Mous- saoui taunted, “America, you lost.” In 2009, Mexican Pres- ident Felipe Calderon told state television that a na- tionwide shutdown and an aggressive informa- tional campaign appeared to have helped curtail an outbreak of swine flu in Mexico. In 2011, Chicago’s Derrick Rose became at age 22 the NBA’s youngest MVP. In 2015, two gunmen were shot and killed by a police officer in Garland, Texas, after they opened fire outside a purposely provocative contest for cartoon depictions of the Prophet Muhammad. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE