A16 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, April 26, 2022 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Teen struggles after his family’s move recently FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE one’s mental health, and while it Dear Abby: Because of frus- might benefit your son to learn tration with our state’s substan- to adapt, he might do better ac- tial COVID restrictions and our ademically if you put him in a teen son’s struggles with remote friendlier environment. learning, we moved to another Dear Abby: I have two grown state. At the time, our son was sons who are 13 months apart. excited to move. However, we are The younger, age 44, constantly now nearly through the school J EANNE and viciously degrades his broth- year and he still hasn’t made P HILLIPS er in text messages. His anger new friends. He’s depressed and ADVICE level is so high that on Christ- wants to move back. mas Eve two years ago, while he He plays a sport and has a was visiting from a neighboring part-time job, but neither have helped. My husband and I love it here. state with his wife, he declared, “F—- In fact, our son loves everything except this family!” and stalked out. Since then, his wife has divorced him, his lack of a social life. We work from home, so it would be he’s been rear-ended in a car wreck due an option for us to temporarily return to road rage, lost his job and alienated so he can finish his remaining two years himself from our family. Online research of high school in our original state. He I’ve done indicates he’s narcissistic. Last has always been very social, so we are month, I texted him my concern that he’d surprised he hasn’t made new friends. walked off his job, which unleashed an Should we push him to keep trying? Or angry tirade against his brother and me. Everything is our fault, and he bad- is moving back for two years the best for his (and our) mental well-being? mouths his ex-wife mercilessly. He’s an adult, so I can’t force him to seek mental — Wants The Best For Him Dear Wants: Moving during one’s health help. Is there anything I can do? teens isn’t easy, particularly because — Worn Out In Wyoming Dear Worn Out: Your son is deeply cliques have already formed. Before packing your bags, talk with your son’s troubled, and for that you have my sym- teachers and counselors about why he pathy. For the sake of your own mental has had problems integrating there. They health, I strongly recommend you con- may be able to offer some important in- sult a licensed mental health profession- al. You can’t diagnose your son’s prob- sight. However, if they cannot do that and lem, and neither can I. You also cannot you are prepared to make the move force him into therapy before he’s ready when the school term is over, do it. Being to admit that he needs it. Please don’t treated as an outcast isn’t good for any- wait to do this. I know you are hurting. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY 100 years ago — 1922 GARFIELD BY JIM DAVIS James H. Raley, of Pendleton, Democratic candidate for the honorable office of senator of the twenty-first district of Oregon, visited Milton on Friday in order to become acquainted with the people and learn as near as possible of their needs and opinions regarding both tickets now before them. It is, of course, unnecessary to state that Mr. Raley found a united and inde- pendent people, a people with one thought and one purpose first and uppermost in their minds — division. He found them ready and willing to accept with gratitude any measure which might assure Eastern Umatilla of her rights with due regard for the interests of Pendleton, and found, too, that could this simple but everlasting ques- tion be amicably disposed of Umatilla county would roll up such a Democratic majority next June as she never has before. 50 years ago — 1972 BLONDIE BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL Jack Bascomb, Pendleton, was given $15 from Blue Mountain Community College to build an integrator, an electric device that normally costs between $500 and $3,000. It took four months, but Bascomb, a sopho- more at the college, finally got his personal- ly-designed integrator to work. And he stayed within his budget. Now, he and BMCC chem- istry instructor Ron Nohr are preparing a paper to be presented to a chemical journal with the feeling that industrial concerns might be inter- ested in Bascomb’s design. “It is impressive when you consider the cost, compactness and simplicity in relation to its function,” Nohr said. Bascomb, an A student in electronics, did not need the class, but took it as an elective. He readily admits that he had to cut some corners to stay within the budget. 25 years ago — 1997 Before long, pedestrians will be able to walk under the 10th Street bridge, although the river may get in the way once in a while. The city Planning Commission recently gave its blessing to the plan by approving a flood-zone development permit. At this point, the river parkway suffers from a lack of access to the riverbank. The underpass will enhance access to the river, as well as connecting two stretches of the walkway. Construction is scheduled for this summer. According to the permit, the city will be required to not put in more material than they excavate during the development. You don’t want to put in more than you take out. If you do that you end up with more flood- ing than would naturally occur. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On April 26, 1986, an explosion and fire at the Chernobyl nuclear power plant in Ukraine caused radioactive fallout to be- gin spewing into the atmo- sphere. (Dozens of people were killed in the immedi- ate aftermath of the di- saster while the long-term death toll from radiation poisoning is believed to number in the thousands.) In 1607, English colo- nists went ashore at pres- ent-day Cape Henry, Vir- ginia, on an expedition to establish the first perma- nent English settlement in the Western Hemisphere. In 1865, John Wil- kes Booth, the assassin of President Abraham Lincoln, was surrounded by federal troops near Port Royal, Virginia, and killed. In 1913, Mary Phagan, a 13-year-old worker at a Georgia pencil factory, was strangled; Leo Frank, the factory superinten- dent, was convicted of her murder and sentenced to death. (Frank’s death sen- tence was commuted, but he was lynched by an anti- Semitic mob in 1915.) In 1977, the nightclub Studio 54 had its opening night in New York. In 2000, Vermont Gov. Howard Dean signed the nation’s first bill allowing same-sex couples to form civil unions. In 2009, the United States declared a public health emergency as more possible cases of swine flu surfaced from Canada to New Zealand; officials in Mexico City closed ev- erything from concerts to sports matches to church- es in an effort to stem the spread of the virus. In 2018, comedian Bill Cosby was convicted of drugging and molesting Temple University em- ployee Andrea Constand at his suburban Philadel- phia mansion in 2004. (Cosby was later sen- tenced to three to 10 years in prison, but Pennsylva- nia’s highest court threw out the conviction and released him from prison in June 2021, ruling that the prosecutor in the case was bound by his prede- cessor’s agreement not to charge Cosby.) PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE