A16 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, March 22, 2022 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Beau shows no desire to progress the relationship FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE at lunch and during our break. Dear Abby: I have been dat- All of a sudden, she stopped ing “Brent” for four years. Prior sitting with me during the first to meeting him, I was divorced break but she still ate with me at with two children. Brent shows lunch. Then she stopped! little interest in my kids’ lives. I asked her if I said or did He doesn’t want us to live to- anything wrong and she said gether before the kids are out of no. I asked her if she was avoid- the house, and he never plans to J EANNE ing me or had found something get married. P HILLIPS wrong, and she insisted there Even if he would agree to ADVICE was nothing wrong and I worry move in now, I don’t want to too much. So now I sit alone move to his city because my kids and she sits somewhere else by need to be close to their school, their friends and their father. Brent herself with her phone. I was nice to her. We talked about our day and sometimes doesn’t want to relocate. I really would like to take our re- shared snacks during the break. All that lationship to the next level, but he ig- is gone now. I know people grow apart, but it nores my subtle hints. I can’t imagine life without him. I have even considered stings. Being an adult means moving on, getting pregnant to make this relation- but when something happens for no ap- ship go further, in spite of knowing he parent reason, there has to be an expla- doesn’t want a baby. Advice? — Getting nation. Can you share your insight on this dilemma? — Lunching Alone Desperate In The Heartland Dear Lunching Alone: There is always Dear Getting Desperate: Brent is cen- tered on himself and would be a nega- a reason. Perhaps you should believe tive, disruptive influence in your chil- your co-worker when she says you didn’t dren’s lives. Your first responsibility must do or say anything wrong. What may have changed are her circumstances. You be to them. As to the idea of “trapping” him by mentioned that rather than sit with you, becoming pregnant in spite of the fact she now sits alone with her cellphone. It’s that he doesn’t want to be a father — I possible that something is going on with DON’T RECOMMEND IT! You could her family — or her personal life that re- get a rude awakening and end up parent- quires her attention. I know it stings, but ing a child you didn’t really want all by you have to let it go. Find someone else to socialize with during breaks. It would yourself. Dear Abby: I have a co-worker I en- be less painful if she explained it to you, joyed talking to and being around. I’m but your co-worker may be a private per- 27, and she is 41. We used to sit together son. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY 100 years ago — 1922 Andy T. Barrett mail carrier on Route 2 out of Weston, thinks he has used more varieties of locomotion now than any other mail carrier in the United States. He encounters washouts and muddy roads in the lowlands and deep snow drifts in the mountains. The result is that he makes ten miles with a car, two miles with a buggy and eight miles with a sleigh. GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL 50 years ago — 1972 Until three or so years ago, the Future Farmers of America was strictly a male organization. Then along came the women’s liberation movement. Women’s lib may not be the reason, but FFA no longer is confined to boys and men. Back East, some FFA offi- cers are girls. And at least two girls will seek state offices during the Oregon FFA conven- tion in Pendleton this week. What do boys think about girls as FFA members? “It’s sort of hard to be beaten by a girl,” said one, refer- ring to Romana Music of Hermiston, who won a district FFA contest recently. It’s been necessary to change some by-laws to accom- modate the fairer sex. In many cases, invi- tations to local FFA banquets no longer can designate the events as parent-son affairs. But it’s not been a fad on the girls’ part, the boys admit. “They’ve really taken part,” said one of the youths. 25 years ago — 1997 Eighteen at-risk newborns in Umatilla County will snuggle into cozier cribs this year. Future Family and Community Lead- ers (FFCL) students at Umatilla High School donated 18 quilts to the county Department of Human Resources. Thirty of the students, some enrolled in teacher Nancy Iveson’s home economics class, crafted the quilts during their spare time in January and Febru- ary. Rosemarie Atfield, volunteer program manager for the human resource department, explained that the soft blankets will cover babies placed into foster care, or born into homes with a history of drug abuse or domes- tic violence. Home economics students began the quilting program in 1992, which FFCL has since adopted. “They didn’t like to sew for themselves,” Iveson said, recalling how the quilting donations began. Quilting was more difficult than Troy Johnson, a junior at UHS, expected. “Actually, it’s kind of hard work if you don’t know your way around a sewing machine,” he said. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On March 22, 1894, hockey’s first Stanley Cup championship game was played; home team Mon- treal defeated Ottawa, 3-1. In 1765, the British Par- liament passed the Stamp Act to raise money from the American colonies, which fiercely resisted the tax. (The Stamp Act was repealed a year later.) In 1882, President Chester Alan Arthur signed a measure outlaw- ing polygamy. In 1941, the Grand Coulee hydroelectric dam in Washington state of- ficially went into opera- tion. In 1978, Karl Wallenda, the 73-year-old patriarch of “The Flying Wallen- das” high-wire act, fell to his death while attempting to walk a cable strung be- tween two hotel towers in San Juan, Puerto Rico. In 1988, both houses of Congress overrode Presi- dent Ronald Reagan’s veto of the Civil Rights Restoration Act. In 1993, Intel Corp. unveiled the origin- al Pentium computer chip. In 2010, Google Inc. stopped censoring the in- ternet for China by shift- ing its search engine off the mainland to Hong Kong. In 2019, special counsel Robert Mueller closed his Russia investi- gation with no new charg- es, delivering his final report to Justice Depart- ment officials. Former President Jimmy Carter became the longest-living chief executive in Ameri- can history; at 94 years and 172 days, he exceeded the lifespan of the late former President George H.W. Bush. In 2020, New York Gov. Andrew Cuomo ordered all nonessential businesses in the state to close and nonessential workers to stay home. Kentucky Republican Rand Paul became the first member of the U.S. Senate to report testing positive for the coronavi- rus; his announcement led Utah senators Mike Lee and Mitt Romney to place themselves in quarantine. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE