A12 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, March 17, 2022 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Man is insulted only wife is asked to be godparent FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: I’m worried my Dear Abby: I have a girlfriend, 23-year-old son may be in serious “Dawn,” who is one of my old- financial trouble. He has always est friends. I married a man who made clear that he wants to run I think is the love of my life. He’s a business instead of working at very macho and proud. We have a 9-to-5 job. He has been work- built a life together, and through ing hard trying to start a consul- stepchildren, exes and family — tation business for the last four through thick and thin — our J EANNE or five years, which sometimes love has endured. P HILLIPS works and sometimes does not. Well, my husband is also ADVICE He’s dependent on my credit possessive. Dawn recently asked card, which he was only sup- me to be the godmother of her posed to use for emergencies, second child. My husband is of- fended that I was asked and he wasn’t. but he sometimes uses it for more than He has never made an effort to have a that. I pay off the credit card bills and friendship with Dawn and her husband, he owes me all the money he has charged or even met her son since his birth many on it. He promises to pay it back, and months ago. He wants no part in the pro- comes up with the weirdest excuses when he can’t. cess, which I am very upset about. On a number of occasions I have tried What do I do? Should I ignore my husband’s feelings, be a good friend and to sit him down and get out of him if he’s godmother to Dawn’s baby and deal in trouble, but he keeps insisting that he’s with the aftermath with my husband? “working on things and everything will be OK soon.” I want to be supportive, — Potential Godmother In Arizona Dear Potential Godmother: Your hus- but I see the debt rising and number band appears to be not only possessive, of lies piling higher. I am worried sick but also somewhat self-centered and con- about him. Please help. — Anxious Mom trolling. It would be interesting to know In Pennsylvania Dear Mom: Turn off the spigot. You why he’s pouting, since he’s not close to your friend nor particularly interested in have been your son’s “angel” long enough. her baby. Because one spouse is asked to A business that cannot support itself is a be a godparent does NOT automatically failure. That your son would abuse your mean the other must be. Some children generosity and compound it by lying to have only one godparent; others have you is very sad. The way to stop this cycle them in multiples. If you wish to be god- is to remove him from your credit card mother to Dawn’s baby boy, go ahead and let the chips fall where they may. If and do it — and do not feel you have to he needs a business partner, it should not be you any longer. apologize for it. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY 100 years ago — 1922 GARFIELD BY JIM DAVIS “Early Days in Pendleton” was the subject of a talk of extreme interest by Col. J. H. Raley at the Commercial association forum luncheon. Col. Raney said he first came to this section with his parents in 1862 and they returned two years later. At that time the flat where Pendleton is located was covered with cottonwoods and a thorn thicket. But one house stood near here, then known as Swift’s crossing. Later the site where Pendleton stands today was sold by Abe Miller to Mose Good- win for a consideration of a team of horses and a cow. In those days, said the colonel, the entire district was covered with bunchgrass two feet high and there were well worn trails in various directions made by the Indians or by animals. The first few houses erected along the river were covered with grass and dirt roofs, the houses being made out of logs. 50 years ago — 1972 BLONDIE BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL When the Umatilla County Sheriff’s Office received several telephone calls about a big white dog that was foaming at the mouth and was feared to be rabid, Deputy Russell Bart- lett was armed with dog-catching equipment and sent to the rescue. After he caught the dog, he found out that its owners had been feeding powdered milk to a batch of kittens. The greedy dog had been raiding the kittens’ lunch and coming away with his muzzle covered with harmless white foam. 25 years ago — 1997 When Bruce Anglin came to the rescue of a fellow guard being attacked by a pris- oner at Eastern Oregon Correctional Insti- tution, he didn’t realize the fight would last more than three years and pit him against his employer, the Oregon Department of Correc- tions. Anglin recently won that battle and a jury awarded him $402,000 in a civil trial. In 1993 when an inmate attacked a guard with a weight lifting bar, Anglin ran 100 yards, dodged a punch from the inmate and then struck the attacker on the forehead, breaking his hand. For his actions, Anglin was awarded the Department of Corrections’ highest honor — the medal of valor. The damage to his hand left him disabled and after nine months he returned to work in the EOCI mail room. A few months later he met with prison officials to find a permanent job at the prison. They denied his request because of his disability and in 1994 he was put on leave without pay. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On March 17, 1969, Golda Meir became prime minister of Israel. In 1762, New York held its first St. Patrick’s Day parade. In 1941, the National Gallery of Art opened in Washington, D.C. In 1942, six days after departing the Philippines during World War II, Gen. Douglas MacArthur arrived in Australia to be- come supreme command- er of Allied forces in the southwest Pacific theater. In 1950, scientists at the University of Califor- nia at Berkeley announced they had created a new ra- dioactive element, “cali- fornium.” In 1966, a U.S. Navy midget subma- rine located a missing hydrogen bomb that had fallen from a U.S. Air Force B-52 bomber into the Mediterranean off Spain. (It took several more weeks to actually re- cover the bomb.) In 1970, the United States cast its first veto in the U.N. Security Council, killing a resolution that would have condemned Britain for failing to use force to overthrow the white-ruled government of Rhodesia. In 2003, edging to the brink of war, President George W. Bush gave Saddam Hussein 48 hours to leave his country. Iraq rejected Bush’s ultima- tum, saying that a U.S. attack to force Saddam from power would be “a grave mistake.” In 2010, Michael Jor- dan became the first ex- player to become a ma- jority owner in the NBA as the league’s Board of Governors unanimously approved Jordan’s $275 million bid to buy the Charlotte Bobcats from Bob Johnson. In 2016, finally bowing to years of public pres- sure, SeaWorld Enter- tainment said it would no longer breed killer whales or make them perform crowd-pleasing tricks. In 2020, the Kentucky Derby and the French Open were each post- poned from May to Sep- tember because of the coronavirus. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE