A16 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, March 1, 2022 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Costs quickly adding up for wedding participant FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Anxious Attendant: Yes, Dear Abby: I couldn’t be you should have asked the bride happier for my friends who are before accepting her invitation embarking on the next chapter to join the wedding party. And of their lives with their part- it is not too late to speak up. ners, but I’m becoming increas- Bachelorette parties and wed- ingly anxious about their bach- dings do NOT “go together like elorette parties. When did the a horse and carriage.” Explain bachelorette party become such J EANNE that all of the costs are more a big production? While I have P HILLIPS than you can afford. If you do, attended my fair share, I think ADVICE she may tell you it’s enough that they are getting increasingly ex- you travel to and participate in travagant and pricey. the wedding. However, if she I’m trying to prioritize my own next step in life, which is buying a doesn’t, back out so she can replace you. Dear Abby: My husband, who is in home, and it feels like I’m being “invit- ed” to spend a significant chunk of my his 60s, wears a baseball cap all day, ev- savings over the course of a few months. ery day, to hide a bald spot. He has worn The bachelorette party I’m most con- that same dirty cap for two years and cerned about is for a wedding in which I even wears it to work. He only removes it have been asked to be a bridesmaid. For when he is sleeping. I have suggested he this reason, I feel obligated to attend. wash it or replace it, but he refuses and The cost associated with the weekend is he makes a tsk-tsk noise when I tell him $2,500 per person and will total $20,000 I don’t think it’s healthy to wear some- for three days. This equals three months thing filthy on your head for two years. of rent for me, and I’m finding it hard to — Disgusted In Florida Dear Disgusted: You are correct. Ac- justify this kind of expense. I get anxious thinking about the other expenses and cording to the Cleveland Clinic, moder- ate exposure to sunlight increases vita- time-off requests from work. My first instinct is to say “No,” but min D levels in the body, which is not it’s hard to refuse a bride who is so im- only beneficial to good health, but it also portant to me. I want to be supportive encourages hair growth. Your husband and involved during this exciting time for is doing himself no favors by constantly her. How much is too much? What is the wearing that (dirty) baseball cap, espe- proper etiquette for being in the wedding cially indoors. If he does it because he’s party and attending the bachelorette self-conscious about his bald spot, there party? Should I have asked about this be- are products that can minimize it, and fore accepting to be in the bridal party? effective surgical options if he would be willing to spend the money. — Anxious Attendant BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY 100 years ago — 1922 GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL The old Woodward tollgate which is in operation on the Weston-Elgin road stands an excellent chance to be done away with if a decision of the court of Umatilla county can be realized. The county thinks the tollgate is a thing of antiquity, a remnant of other times and has no place in the lives and activities of the people of Umatilla county in the days of 1922. No state records have been found and a search is now being made by the county clerk to ascertain whether the operators of the toll- gate have legal permission to exact payment from travelers over the road. The Woodward family has been sent formal notice request- ing they show cause why the privilege of charging toll should not be denied them. Not only do owners of vehicles of various kinds have to pay, but owners of livestock also have to pay for the privilege of driving flocks and herds over the private road. 50 years ago — 1972 A confused series of traffic accidents occurred in a blinding dust storm about 2:30 p.m. on Interstate 80 North between Rew Elevator and Stanfield Junction. Winds of up to 45 miles an hour churned dust out of plowed fields and left visibility near zero. Seven separate collisions occurred. One five-vehicle crackup of two big trucks and three cars injured several members of the Vale basketball team. The players were en route home from The Dalles, where the team had upset Wahtonka High School. 25 years ago — 1997 It’s not uncommon for jail officials to receive letters from inmates, most of them complaining about the conditions or service during their time behind bars. But it is uncom- mon to receive a letter thanking the staff for their efforts. One such letter was sent to the Umatilla County Sheriff’s Office last month from an inmate who spent a week in the coun- ty-run jail. While imprisoned on a second-de- gree robbery charge, the inmate “was coming down off heroin and to say I was feeling terri- ble and incredibly ashamed would be an under- statement,” he wrote. “I’m an addict and I’ve been in several different jails, but I’ve never been treated with the respect and concern that you all showed me.” It was the first letter of its kind that Sheriff John Trumbo could remember receiving. The inmate ended his letter with a warning against drugs — “Drugs are a terrible thing and its grip is mighty.” TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On March 1, 1974, sev- en people, including for- mer Nixon White House aides H.R. Haldeman and John D. Ehrlichman, former Attorney General John Mitchell and for- mer assistant Attorney General Robert Mardian, were indicted on charges of conspiring to obstruct justice in connection with the Watergate break-in. (These four defendants were convicted in January 1975, although Mardian’s conviction was later re- versed.) In 1867, Nebraska be- came the 37th state as President Andrew John- son signed a proclama- tion. In 1893, inventor Niko- la Tesla first publicly dem- onstrated radio during a meeting of the National Electric Light Association in St. Louis by transmit- ting electromagnetic en- ergy without wires. In 1932, Charles A. Lindbergh Jr., the 20-month-old son of Charles and Anne Lind- bergh, was kidnapped from the family home near Hopewell, New Jer- sey. (Remains identified as those of the child were found the following May.) In 1945, President Franklin D. Roosevelt, back from the Yalta Con- ference, proclaimed the meeting a success as he addressed a joint session of Congress. In 1966, the Soviet space probe Venera 3 im- pacted the surface of Ve- nus, becoming the first spacecraft to reach anoth- er planet; however, Venera was unable to transmit any data, its communications system having failed. In 1971, a bomb went off inside a men’s room at the U.S. Capitol; the radi- cal group Weather Under- ground claimed respon- sibility for the pre-dawn blast. Dennis In 2005, Rader, the churchgoing family man accused of leading a double life as the BTK serial killer, was charged in Wichita, Kan- sas, with 10 counts of first-degree murder. (Rad- er later pleaded guilty and received multiple life sen- tences.) PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE