A12 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, January 20, 2022 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Man locks himself away for days after every fight FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE or “interesting” may sound a bit Dear Abby: When my hus- odd. band and I fight, which isn’t re- In a similar vein, what does ally that often, he shuts himself one say to someone when they away for several days. He locks share that they are divorced? I the door to his office or the recall a woman I met telling me guest room and won’t come out. she was divorced. I said, “I’m I try to give him time to cool sorry,” and she replied, “I’m off, but sometimes it’s awkward. J EANNE not!” What’s an appropriate He wouldn’t talk to me at all P HILLIPS response for when these situa- for several days while his whole ADvIce tions happen? I don’t want to family was here celebrating his appear unsympathetic, but per- grandma’s 90th birthday. haps they don’t want sympathy. He’s mad again. I apologized by text since he wouldn’t talk to me, but — Sympathetic In Florida Dear Sympathetic: You may have hit our kids — ages 6 and 8 — are going to wonder why Daddy isn’t with us. Should on something. The birthrate in the Unit- I skip a planned event and give him more ed States is at an all-time low because time to cool off or try to approach him? many women have chosen to forgo moth- erhood. If someone tells you she doesn’t — Waiting For Him In Georgia Dear Waiting: Skip the planned event, have children, all you have to say is “Oh,” and when your passive-aggressive hus- and change the subject. You should not band comes out of hiding, INSIST the interrogate the person further. As for the two of you get marriage counseling to subject of divorce, sometimes dissolution resolve your differences. Dealing with of a marriage is therapeutic. Do not ask conflict by hiding and using the silent for — or expect — more details. Show an treatment to punish one’s spouse sets a interest in what your old friend is doing poor example for your children. If he NOW and move on from there. Dear Abby: My late husband was a won’t do it for the sake of your marriage, he should do it for the emotional health dentist. Should I include his DDS de- gree on his headstone? — Not Sure of those kids. Dear Abby: I will be meeting an old In The South Dear Not Sure: Although your hus- high school friend for lunch. We are now in our 50s. I heard through the grapevine band may be deceased and no longer that she never had children. I am unsure practicing dentistry, it doesn’t make him what to say when the subject of chil- any less a dentist. He earned his degree. dren comes up, as it invariably will. “I’m If you would like it carved in granite, I sorry” may not be appropriate because don’t see why it shouldn’t be. Inquire at perhaps she never wanted any. “Wow” the cemetery about its protocol. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL 100 years ago — 1922 The State Dog Tax Law which was enacted at the legislative session of 1919, and which was thought to be unconstitutional, has recently been upheld by the supreme court, and will now be rigidly enforced by the county court, according to a statement today. Applications for license should be made to the county clerk by all dog owners, being care- ful to give the length of collar desired. This is a state tax and is additional to any city tax which may be collected in the cities. The tax is $1.00 for males and $2.00 for females. The tax is now due and collectable. 50 years ago — 1972 Usually when someone shows up at a city council meeting, it’s with a problem. So when Calvin Bryan stepped forward at the Pend- leton City Council meeting, councilmen sat back to grapple with another headache. Bryan surprised them. “I want to express my grat- itude and that of my neighbors to the coun- cil and to the Traffic Safety Commission,” he said, on how the city handled a traffic prob- lem in the area. A favorite pastime of youth- ful drivers in Pendleton is to drive down Main Street in a sort of endless parade. The route used to include circling the block at the north end of Main to get back onto the main drag. Residents of the area complained about the noise and litter. The Traffic Safety Commis- sion and the city’s engineer’s office recom- mended a change in the traffic flow, keeping it on North Main. The council gave a green light to the experiment. It’s worked, Bryan said, and the traffic past his residence has been reduced by about half. “We came to you about a year ago with a gripe and a petition,” Bryan said, “and something has been done. Thank you.” 25 years ago — 1997 Hal’s Hamburgers was closed, but that didn’t stop a pickup from plowing into the drive-through at about 7:10 Saturday morn- ing when the driver lost control. No one was in the popular landmark restaurant at S.E. 20th and Court in Pendleton. The restaurant will be closed at least two weeks for repairs, said manager Randy Cook. The window on the south side was smashed, and the impact pushed the grill and hood vent about eight inches away from the wall. Cook said Satur- day’s incident was the first time anything like that had happened. The culprit was a 1991 Ford pickup, which also smashed into a nearby storage shed. Police reports did not identify the driver, and no citations were issued. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Jan. 20, 1942, Nazi officials held the notori- ous Wannsee conference, during which they arrived at their “final solution” that called for exterminat- ing Europe’s Jews. In 1801, Secretary of State John Marshall was nominated by President John Adams to be chief justice of the United States. In 1936, Britain’s King George V died after his physician injected the mortally ill monarch with morphine and cocaine to hasten his death; the king was succeeded by his el- dest son, Edward VIII, who abdicated the throne 11 months later to marry American divorcee Wallis Simpson. In 1937, President Franklin D. Roosevelt be- came the first chief execu- tive to be inaugurated on Jan. 20 instead of March 4. In 1961, John F. Ken- nedy was inaugurated as the 35th President of the United States. In 1964, Capitol Re- cords released the album “Meet the Beatles!” In 1981, Iran releas- ed 52 Americans it had held hostage for 444 days, minutes after the presi- dency had passed from Jimmy Carter to Ronald Reagan. In 1986, the United States observed the first federal holiday in honor of slain civil rights leader Martin Luther King Jr. In 2009, Barack Obama was sworn in as the nation’s 44th, as well as first African American, president. In 2011, federal authorities orchestrat- ed one of the biggest Mafia takedowns in FBI history, charging 127 sus- pected mobsters and as- sociates in the Northeast with murders, extortion and other crimes span- ning decades. In 2020, Chinese government experts confirmed human-to- human transmission of the new coronavirus, say- ing two people caught the virus from family mem- bers and that some health workers had tested posi- tive. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE