A18 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, January 18, 2022 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Reader is not ready to marry child’s mother FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE unsupervised, and standing on Dear Abby: My girlfriend, and climbing on the gravestones. “Dyanne,” and I recently had a Cemeteries are sacred places in baby conceived not long after we which the dead should be re- started dating. While I love my membered and honored. child with all my heart, Dyanne When parents or caretakers is constantly dropping hints that allow children to use the cem- she wants an engagement ring or etery as a play area, they fail to a “promise ring.” But she’s pres- J EANNE teach them respect for the dead suring me to provide something P HILLIPS or for the survivors who are vis- I believe should come when I ADVICE iting the graves of their loved feel comfortable doing it. ones. They also place their chil- I believe that when I give dren in danger. Gravestones can someone a ring, it should be be- cause I plan to marry her. I don’t consid- fall or tip over. Children have been killed er marriage the way most do, and think I or seriously injured by toppling stones. can just get divorced and it’s no big deal. Flat grave markers can be tripping haz- I think Dyanne puts too much emphasis ards. When we caution parents about on what others think and that’s one of these dangers, we are often met with in- difference. the reasons she wants a ring. Please urge your readers to take our Am I wrong to stall until I feel ready to propose and not just say, “Sure. One concern for their children’s safety seri- day we will, and here’s a ring in the mean- ously and control their children’s ac- tivities in cemeteries. — Concerned Tour time”? — Unengaged In California Dear Unengaged: Nowhere in your Guide Dear Concerned: I’m pleased to pass letter did you mention that you love Dyanne. You should not give her a ring along your message because it is an and keep her in a holding pattern if you important one. Cemetery etiquette is aren’t sure you want to follow through simple: Treat the graves as you would with the commitment. Tell her you care the graves of your own cherished loved about her and love your child and intend ones, or as you would like your own to to responsibly co-parent with her, but be treated. This includes no loud chatter, you are not ready for marriage and don’t and because there are people in mourn- know when you will be. That’s the truth. ing there, not walking on the graves, not Dear Abby: I’m a volunteer tour guide leaving chewing gum on the gravestones, for several historic sites. one of them is keeping pets leashed — if they are a cemetery. My fellow guides and I are brought there at all — and teaching chil- concerned — not to mention saddened dren the difference between a cemetery — when we see children running around and a playground. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL 100 years ago — 1922 Pendleton shivered, shoveled coal, hugged the fire and thawed out water pipes as a result of a cold wave which swept over eastern Oregon last night. The official figures show that the minimum for the 24 hours was 21 degrees below zero early this morning and 2 above zero shortly after noon. The barometer tells a story that indicates continued cold weather tonight. The chances are good, too, that it will be colder tonight than it was last night. “There are no vacant houses in Pendleton, so people had better not get burned out during this sort of weather,” remarked Fire Chief Bill Ringold this morning. The fire chief is a worried man these days because he knows frozen pipes are being thawed out and sometimes open flame torches are used. 50 years ago — 1972 Evangelist Erick Kaiser came to Pendleton this week to teach a seminar in Bible history. The Bible he brought included a historical lineage that dates back to John Day, the man for whom so many Eastern Oregon sites are named. The Bible was passed down to Mr. Kaiser’s wife, Joyce, from her grandfather, Sylvanius Day Hudiburgh. The Kaisers had a study of their family tree that confirmed their ancestry, said Kaiser. He expressed pride to be a descendant, by marriage, of a man who left his name in much of Eastern Oregon even though he admits his wife’s great-great-grandfather was more noto- rious than famous for his deeds. John Day came from the east coast in 1811 with the Astor-Hunt overland party. He and another man, Ramsay Crooks, fell behind and became stranded in the Blue Mountains during the winter. The two were also attacked and robbed near the mouth of what is now called the John Day River. 25 years ago — 1997 Freezing rain made travel treacherous in northeast Oregon this morning, forcing the closure of schools across Umatilla County. The Eastern Oregon Regional Airport also was closed due to this ice on the runways. “You can’t stop a plane on that,” said airport manager Larry Dalrymple, adding that airports in Pasco, Walla Walla and Yakima were also closed. Walking often proved more dangerous than driving, although there had been a host of fender bend- ers and cars off roads by mid morning. High school basketball games across the county were canceled due to the weather. The predictions for freezing rain took school administrators by surprise this morning. The original forecast was for the storm to arrive this evening. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Jan. 18, 1943, dur- ing World War II, Jewish insurgents in the Warsaw Ghetto launched their initial armed resistance against Nazi troops, who eventually succeeded in crushing the rebellion. In 1778, English navi- gator Captain James Cook reached the present-day Hawaiian Islands, which he named the “Sandwich Islands.” In 1911, the first land- ing of an aircraft on a ship took place as pilot Eugene B. Ely brought his Curtiss biplane in for a safe land- ing on the deck of the ar- mored cruiser USS Penn- sylvania in San Francisco Harbor. In 1913, entertainer Danny Kaye was born David Daniel Kaminsky in New York City. In 1957, a trio of B-52s completed the first non- stop, round-the-world flight by jet planes, land- ing at March Air Force Base in California after more than 45 hours aloft. In 1975, the situation comedy “The Jeffersons,” a spin-off from “All in the Family,” premiered on CBS-TV. In 1990, a jury in Los Angeles acquitted for- mer preschool operators Raymond Buckey and his mother, Peggy McMartin Buckey, of 52 child moles- tation charges. In 1991, financially strapped Eastern Airlines shut down after more than six decades in business. In 1993, the Martin Lu- ther King Jr. holiday was observed in all 50 states for the first time. In 2005, the world’s largest commercial jet, the Airbus A380 “super- jumbo” capable of fly- ing up to 800 passengers, was unveiled in Toulouse, France. Chinese In 2011, President Hu Jintao ar- rived at Andrews Air Force Base outside Wash- ington for a four-day state visit; President Ba- rack Obama welcomed him with a private dinner in the White House resi- dence. The first director of the Peace Corps, R. Sargent Shriver, died in Bethesda, Maryland, at age 95. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE