A16 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, January 11, 2022 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Wife dreads year two of the pandemic with man FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE erful form of birth control you Dear Abby: My husband and possibly can so you don’t find I got married during the pan- yourself pregnant and trapped. demic in a short ceremony. Our Dear Abby: My mom is in a first year of marriage has been home for dementia patients, and less a honeymoon than a night- Dad was living in their big house mare. He tends to be hotheaded. by himself. He couldn’t sell it He fights dirty with name-call- until everything was settled with ing. J EANNE my mom. Because he was very We are trying marriage coun- P HILLIPS lonely, I decided to let him move seling, but all of his temper tan- ADVICE in with me. We agreed he would trums and antics have made me pay $320 a month. see him in a different, negative When my sister found out, light. He’s now talking about growing our family. He can be very sweet she was very upset that I was charging and thoughtful, but I don’t even know if Dad. She had him move out that day. When I turned 18 and lived at home I still like him at this point. I’m also wondering if I’m just better I paid rent, so I saw nothing wrong with alone because I like my space and time to it. Now I am an outcast. No one talks to myself. Maybe I’m settling with the cur- me except my dad, by phone. I am very rent situation when there could be some- depressed about this and feel suicidal. I one better out there. Is this something I suffer from anxiety and depression, see need to give some time to see how it plays a therapist and have been on meds for out, or should I end it, the sooner the bet- years. Am I wrong, and how do I fix this? — Good Son In Pennsylvania ter? — Honeymoon-Less In New Jersey Dear Good Son: If you haven’t done Dear Honeymoon-Less: The pandem- ic has stressed many marriages, but with so already, talk about this with your ther- the quarantines relaxing there should apist. It is very important that he or she be less pressure and confinement. Has it knows you are having suicidal thoughts helped? Whether your hot-tempered hus- and that they persist. You did NOTH- band is capable of changing his behavior ING “wrong.” Your father agreed to the is something that may be revealed during arrangement, and he should have made that clear to your sister. She was wrong the counseling. You didn’t mention how long the two to interfere, and she seems to wield a of you have been seeing a therapist, but if disproportionate amount of power in it has been more than six months with no your family. I can’t fix that and neither improvement, it’s fair to assume he isn’t can you, so you will have to find ways of likely to change, and the marriage should coping not only with your depression but end. In the meantime, use the most pow- also with her. You have my sympathy. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL 100 years ago — 1922 The state highway commission has received an offer from the Umatilla County court to grade the Dead Man’s Pass-Kamela section of the Old Oregon Trail if the state will lend the county $80,000 to do the work. The section covers 12 miles and is one of the most difficult parts of the state for road build- ing, said Commissioner Barratt. The county would pay the money back out of the general road fund as collected. No action will be taken by the commission until Chairman Booth, who is ill in Eugene, sits with the commission. 50 years ago — 1972 “I thought about pushing him over the steep, high cliff, but I didn’t want to kill him,” said Everett McKenzie. Friday night was terrifying for the 18-year-old recent Umatilla High School graduate who was kidnapped at gunpoint by Johnny Dean Chadwick, 18, La Grande. The experience started on a bus near the Woelpern exit west of Arlington about 7:30 p.m. and ended about four hours later after McKenzie eluded his kidnapper in the hills near Interstate 80 North and ran into Arlington where he found a police officer. McKenzie was sitting alone at the back of the bus when Chadwick approached him and drew a revolver. The hjacker demanded the bus driver stop the bus and then took McKen- zie with him at gunpoint. 25 years ago — 1997 Hermiston High School juniors Stephanie Smelser and Tori Fordice are accustomed to being in front of a crowd. As varsity cheer- leaders, they regularly perform before school- mates and fans at games and pep assemblies. But when the two packed their Bulldog spirit and headed to Orlando, Fla., to perform in the Citrus Bowl’s half-time show with 1,200 other cheerleaders, the experience of being in front of more than 16,000 people was electrifying. The two-minute Dr. Seuss-inspired routine, which required the mega-squad to wear red sweat suits while dancing in 100 degree heat, was the culmination of six months’ prepa- ration. Eight HHS varsity and junior varsity cheerleaders were nominated to try out for All-American status. After Smelser and Ford- ice earned a place on the national squad in July, they began soliciting sponsors to cover the $1,400 cost of the trip. While in Orlando from Dec. 28 to Jan. 2, they practiced and visited attractions. Cheerleading coach Susan Dick said the HHS squad is one of the stron- gest she’s seen in a long time. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Jan. 11, 1908, Pres- ident Theodore Roosevelt proclaimed the Grand Canyon National Monu- ment (it became a national park in 1919). In 1861, Alabama be- came the fourth state to withdraw from the Union. In 1913, the first en- closed sedan-type auto- mobile, a Hudson, went on display at the 13th Na- tional Automobile Show in New York. In 1927, the creation of the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences was proposed during a dinner of Hollywood lu- minaries at the Ambassa- dor Hotel in Los Angeles. In 1935, aviator Amelia Earhart began an 18-hour trip from Honolulu to Oakland, California, that made her the first person to fly solo across any part of the Pacific Ocean. In 1964, U.S. Surgeon General Luther Terry issued “Smoking and Health,” a report that concluded that “cigarette smoking contributes sub- stantially to mortality from certain specific dis- eases and to the overall death rate.” In 1989, nine days be- fore leaving the White House, President Ronald Reagan bade the nation farewell in a prime-time address, saying of his eight years in office: “We meant to change a nation and instead we changed a world.” In 2003, calling the death penalty process “ar- bitrary and capricious, and therefore immoral,” Illinois Gov. George Ryan commuted the sentences of 167 condemned in- mates, clearing his state’s death row two days before leaving office. In 2010, Mark McG- wire admitted to The As- sociated Press that he’d used steroids and human growth hormone when he broke baseball’s home run record in 1998. In 2020, health author- ities in the central Chinese city of Wuhan reported the first death from what had been identified as a new type of coronavirus; the patient was a 61-year- old man. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE