A12 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, December 30, 2021 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Young woman’s temper has her siblings on edge FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: I have a younger drinks, and not for the better. sister I love dearly. I respect and He brags, repeats himself and admire her. “Elise” is intelligent presents in a way that’s annoying and talented. She is a minister’s and embarrassing. His alcohol wife and a mother to small chil- personality will never change — dren. Due to some unfortunate it is who he is. He’s been like this family circumstances when she for the entire 13 years I’ve been was young, she has some emo- with him. J EANNE tional scars she’s trying to over- He drinks two to three times P HILLIPS come. Sometimes at family gath- a week, at most, and says I ADVICE erings she’ll “explode” and lash “overreact” to his personality out at whoever triggered her. change. He tells me I shouldn’t Her outbursts usually take us all get so frustrated, but I don’t by surprise. want to be around my husband when he How do we, as siblings who have drinks. Can you advise me how to live grown up in the same environment, han- with him when he’s drunk? By the way, dle this? We don’t think our childhoods it doesn’t take much for him to get this so terrible, although we did have some way — three beers. Could he be having challenges, and our daddy does have nar- a reaction to the alcohol? — Fed Up In cissistic tendencies. He actually recogniz- San Diego es that and is trying to improve himself. Dear Fed Up: That’s possible. Some Sometimes we feel she makes mountains individuals are more sensitive to alcohol out of molehills, but we want to be sensi- than others. Whether it takes three beers tive to her pain. I’m concerned she’ll end or simply sniffing a cork to get your hus- up controlling our family gatherings in a band loaded, his drinking is causing a negative way if these flare-ups don’t stop. problem in your marriage. What do you think could be done? — Be- It’s time for you to locate a chapter of fuddled Big Sis Al-Anon (al-anon.org) and attend some Dear Big Sis: What could (and should) of the meetings. This organization was be done is an intervention by you and created decades ago to help the friends your siblings in which Elise is advised to and family members of people who have seek professional help for her explosive an alcohol problem — which your hus- anger issues. If she refuses and her be- band definitely has. You are far from havior continues, let her know you sup- alone in having this problem, which you port her but can no longer include her. will realize once you get there. Please Dear Abby: My husband’s per- don’t wait. Your reaction to his person- sonality changes completely when he ality change is understandable. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL 100 years ago — 1921 On the farms the recent cold days have offered excellent opportunities for the killing of the winter supply of pork, or the long-year- ling beef, or possibly a fat wether, but out at the Pendleton Packing Company’s plant arti- ficial conditions are maintained which make every day “butchering day.” The compa- ny’s business has been practically doubled since September. During December about 900 head of hogs have been killed, between 160 and 180 head of cattle and between 500 and 600 head of lambs and sheep. The prod- ucts of the company are marketed under two brands. The Oregon Pride hams, bacon and lard are gaining friends in Oregon every day, and another line of hams, bacon and shorten- ing is sold under the name of “Campfire.” One fact which is of more than ordinary interest is that the company is now shipping in every year more hogs for slaughter in the local plant than are owned in Umatilla county. Practi- cally all of the hogs now being killed are corn- fed products of Nebraska. 50 years ago — 1971 Milton-Freewater officials are blushing, in yellow. It seems that although Milton-Freewater police officers have faithfully been handing out citations to motorists who park their vehicles in no parking areas marked by yellow curbs, the city has no law on the books forbidding such parking. The oversight was discovered by Milton-Freewater City Atty. James Walton, City Manager Henry Schneider told the city council Monday. An ordinance is being written to correct the matter. Can motorists who paid fines for violating the nonexistent Milton-Free- water law get their money back? Probably not, says an informed source. 25 years ago — 1996 An antique fence sign has become the source of a mystery for Hermiston insurance agent Bill Elfering. When Elfering came to his State Farm Insurance office a few weeks ago, he found a flat yellow object resting against a glass wind break in front of his office door. “Pays the man who pays the premium,” says the painted metal plaque advertising the State Farm Mutual Auto Insurance Company. Listed on the bottom are the agent’s name and a phone number: James Phillips, Pendleton 134. “I don’t think it’ll work anymore,” Elfering said of the phone number. The mystery comes in who gave him the sign: Elfering said he has no idea. He contacted State Farm’s Company History Unit at their corporate headquarters in Blooming- ton, Ill., for clues. The fence sign dates to 1941, Elfering learned. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Dec. 30, 1922, Vladimir Lenin pro- claimed the establishment of the Union of Soviet Socialist Republics, which lasted nearly seven de- cades before dissolving in December 1991. uring the War of 1812. In 1853, the United States and Mexico signed a treaty under which the U.S. agreed to buy some 45,000 square miles of land from Mexico for $10 million in a deal known as the Gadsden Purchase. In 1860, 10 days after South Carolina seceded from the Union, the state militia seized the United States Arsenal in Charles- ton. In 1954, Olympic gold medal runner Malvin G. Whitfield became the first Black recipient of the James E. Sullivan Award for amateur athletes. In 1994, a gunman walked into a pair of sub- urban Boston abortion clinics and opened fire, killing two employees. In 1999, former Beatle George Harrison fought off a knife-wielding in- truder who’d broken into his mansion west of Lon- don and stabbed him in the chest. (The attacker was later acquitted of at- tempted murder by reason of insanity.) In 2004, a fire broke out during a rock concert at a nightclub in Buenos Aires, Argentina, killing 194 people. Bandleader and clarinetist Artie Shaw died in Thousand Oaks, California, at age 94. In 2006, a state funer- al service was held in the U.S. Capitol Rotunda for former President Gerald R. Ford. In 2009, seven CIA em- ployees and a Jordanian intelligence officer were killed by a suicide bomber at a U.S. base in Khost, Afghanistan. In 2015, Bill Cosby was charged with drugging and sexually assaulting a woman at his suburban Philadelphia home in 2004; it was the first crimi- nal case brought against the comedian out of the torrent of allegations that destroyed his good- guy image as “America’s Dad.” PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE