A16 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, December 28, 2021 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Wife considers leaving man because of weight FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE try marriage counseling before Dear Abby: I’m in my late 30s you consult a lawyer. and have been married for seven Dear Abby: I’m in my early years. My husband and I have 40s. A few months ago, I was di- two young children, a beautiful agnosed with stage 4 breast can- home, good jobs, etc. However, cer. I keep reading the five-year over the last few years, I have survival rate is only 28%, and I’m lost my attraction to him. concerned that despite receiving He has gained more than 40 J EANNE treatment, I don’t have many pounds since we met, and he re- P HILLIPS years left. The cancer has been fuses to eat healthy or exercise. ADVICE found in my spine and pelvis as He watched me spend countless well. I am a person of faith, so hours working out to lose all my I’m not afraid of death. I’m just baby weight. We are rarely inti- mate anymore, and when we are I do it worried about leaving my daughter be- hind, along with friends and family. out of obligation. My question is, should I make a will? I I know these things happen, but he seems to be happy. I think if I told him I live in an apartment and don’t have many wanted to leave, he would be floored. Di- assets except for some savings. I plan to vorced friends of mine who have young start a trust, so my daughter will receive children have advised me against it, and that money at the appropriate time. I say my children’s happiness should come have never had a reason in the past for a before mine. Others say if I’m not happy, will. I don’t know what sorts of things go the kids won’t be happy. I can manage into a will. I also have a 2-year-old cat, living this life for them, but I feel like I’m and now I’m worried he will outlive me. I too young to cheat myself out of some don’t want him to have to go back to the of my best years. Am I being selfish or Humane Society if I pass on. He’s like a child to me, and I only want the best for smart? — Weighty Subject In New York Dear Weighty Subject: Before your him. — Making Plans For The Future Dear Making Plans: Because you have marriage deteriorates further, have a frank discussion with your husband. He financial assets, a daughter and a beloved seems to be happy because he doesn’t pet you want to provide for in the event know what’s going on in your head. For of your death, it’s important that you reasons that go beyond animal attraction consult an attorney NOW about ANY — including the welfare of his children — end-of-life documents you need to have he needs to make some lifestyle changes in place. You may decide you need more and get a handle on his health. I am hop- directives than just a will, which will give ing that when you convey the message to you peace of mind and guarantee your him, he will be receptive. If not, please wishes are carried out. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL 100 years ago — 1921 After the strenuous days of a busy holi- day period, a tired bunch of saleswomen of the J. C. Penney Company forgot their fatigue Saturday night when Manager J. E. Akey presented seven of them with checks aggregating a little over five hundred dollars. Those who have been with the organization a year or more share in this new cooperative plan. An outstanding feature of the oppor- tunities offered to the men associated with the J. C. Penney company is the chance to become partners in not only one store, but as many as they are able to develop. This bonus plan is a new departure in giving women employees a share in the earnings of the organization. 50 years ago — 1971 Arlin Phillips knows all about sinking feelings. Last week he was working with a Milton-Freewater city crew burning weeds at the bottom of what’s known as Milton hill, where Highway 11 enters the city from the south. Phillips stepped in a patch of mud that had washed into a ditch from fields to the south. His foot stuck. He freed it, but the other foot sank deeper. In moments he was chest deep in the mud. His fellow city employees looped a fire hose under his arms and tugged. But they couldn’t get him out. So the workers ran a backhoe up to the ditch — and scooped Phillips out of the mud with the machine’s shovel. 25 years ago — 1996 Earlier this month, the Yellowhawk Clinic lost the services of a natural resource known as Tessie Williams. Williams retired after 28 years as a community health repre- sentative. Those who know Williams were not surprised that this was not a somber occasion, but one which saw Williams and friends doing the Macarena and sharing lots of laughter. According to Williams, community health representatives were vital to bridging the gap between doctors and Indian people. “Many of the elders spoke Indian and there was a misunder- standing at that time between doctors and elders, so we became interpreters,” she said. Williams intends to participate in all her traditional functions including the annual Medicine Wheel. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Dec. 28, 2014, the war in Afghanistan, fought for 13 bloody years and still raging, came to a formal end with a quiet flag-lowering ceremony in Kabul that marked the transition of the fight- ing from U.S.-led combat troops to the country’s own security forces. In 1612, Italian as- tronomer Galileo Galilei observed the planet Nep- tune, but mistook it for a star. In 1832, John C. Cal- houn became the first vice president of the United States to resign, stepping down because of differ- ences with President An- drew Jackson. In 1908, a major earth- quake followed by a tsuna- mi devastated the Italian city of Messina, killing at least 70,000 people. In 1972, Kim Il Sung, the premier of North Ko- rea, was named the coun- try’s president under a new constitution. In 1973, the En- dangered Species Act was signed into law by President Richard Nix- on. In 1975, the “Hail Mary pass” entered the football lexicon as Dallas quarterback Roger Staubach tossed the ball to Drew Pearson for an improbable 50-yard touchdown with 24 sec- onds left to help the Cow- boys come back to edge the Minnesota Vikings 17-14. In 1981, Elizabeth Jor- dan Carr, the first Ameri- can “test-tube” baby, was born in Norfolk, Virginia. In 1991, nine people died in a crush of people trying to get into a rap celebrity basketball game at City College in New York. In 2007, Pakistani op- position leader Benazir Bhutto was laid to rest as the country’s army tried to quell a frenzy of rioting in the wake of her assas- sination. In 2015, a grand jury in Cleveland declined to indict a white rookie po- lice officer in the killing of 12-year-old Tamir Rice, a Black youngster who was shot while playing with a pellet gun. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE