A10 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, December 16, 2021 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Weight loss doesn’t take sting out of observations FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE problems. My new friend has Dear Abby: During the last many other friends in one big year, I made some significant friend group, and she’s inviting changes to my life. I left an emo- me to join them. I barely know tionally abusive marriage af- these people, and some of them ter 23 years, which gave me the make me uncomfortable, but I confidence to take better care of still eat lunch with them some- myself. I have lost 70 pounds and times. I don’t want to be rude to am almost down to the weight I J EANNE my friend, but I am unsure if I was in high school. I am very P HILLIPS want to join this group. proud of this. ADVICE I have a separate friend My issue is my family has whom I met in middle school, now started using my former and I have reason to believe that weight as a measuring stick. I am often told things like, “You should I am his only friend. He eats lunch with see your cousin. She’s almost as big as me and my upperclassmen friends. They you were!” which is quickly followed by ignore him while he talks to me about an offhand, “No offense,” which tells me the things we like. I am afraid I’m hurt- they know it offends me. I said as much ing him by making more friends. Any ad- to them at first, but the insulting com- vice? — Stressed Teen In New Jersey Dear Teen: New relationships take parisons continue. It’s become the family standard. I time to develop. With time, as you and know I was very large, but this is extreme- your new classmates get to know each ly hurtful. I find myself avoiding family other better, you may feel more comfort- visits because the subject seems to invari- able with them. If that doesn’t happen, ably come up in some way. Is there any- you may want to make other plans for thing beyond what I have already tried lunch. That you have been including your that can convey the distress this causes? middle school friend during those lunch- — Former Fat Relative In Missouri Dear Relative: Your relatives have es I think is loyal, caring and compas- been told that alluding to your former sionate. Doing so is not “hurting” him. weight problem causes you distress. That If he’s unable to integrate and become it continues tells me they are thoughtless part of the group, no law says the two of at best, not to mention rude and incon- you must have lunch with those people siderate of your feelings. The logical so- every single day. Consider alternating lution is to do what is best for you and lunches with other students so you can widen your circle of friends. Friends are see less of them. Dear Abby: I have begun high school treasures. The more of them you have, and I love it, but I’m bumping into friend the richer your life will be. BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL DAYS GONE BY 100 years ago — 1921 Fred H. Patterson, about 45 years old, is in St. Anthony Hospital, and Mrs. Ella Alexan- der, his common law wife, is in the city jail as a result of a shooting scrape this morn- ing which resulted in the man acquiring two bullets from a .38 caliber Colt’s Special revolver at the hands of the woman. Jeal- ousy and fear are the two reasons given by the woman for her action in shooting Patter- son when she presented herself at the police station and surrendered this morning at 7:30 o’clock. Four shots were fired. The two shots which took effect both struck Patterson from behind, one catching him in the left elbow and the other in the left side of his body. That she had to shoot him or he would have killed her was the statement Mrs. Alexander made. Patterson’s side of the story conflicts with the reason given by Mrs. Alexander for the shoot- ing. He said he was preparing to leave to go to work, and the next thing he was aware of was the report of the revolver shots and the sting of the lead. 50 years ago — 1971 The students at Blue Mountain Commu- nity College no longer believe in Santa Claus but they do like the feeling of Christmas. So they plan to share it with lonely people on Christmas Eve. The occasion will be a dinner in the student union at 6 p.m. A program will follow. The guests will be men and women who live in furnished rooms and tiny apart- ments and have no families with whom to share the holiday. Tim Mabry, president of the BMCC students, said the idea caught fire and grew. “We’re up to 200 people now,” he said. Faculty members as well as students have become involved. Students will provide transportation for their guests. “We have a selfish motive,” Mabry said. “Maybe we will feel Christmasy again.” 25 years ago — 1996 The results are in — Pendleton’s children have selected their favorite toys of the year. The Children’s Museum of Eastern Oregon sponsored the contest for favorite toys of 1996. Local merchants donated toys to be tested by kids whose interest ranged from the imaginary to the more concrete. Favorite among ages 0-4 were the Piglet and Tigger puppets. Second runner-up was the Brio Train set. The ages 5-7 group and the 8-10 group were unified in their choice of an elec- tronic listening game called the Brain Bash. A listening game for 5-10 years olds? “That surprised me too,” said Childrens’ Museum volunteer Jan Peterson-Terjeson. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Dec. 16, 1773, the Boston Tea Party took place as American colo- nists boarded a British ship and dumped more than 300 chests of tea into Boston Harbor to protest tea taxes. In 1811, the first of the powerful New Madrid earthquakes struck the central Mississippi Valley with an estimated magni- tude of 7.7. In 1944, the World War II Battle of the Bulge be- gan as German forces launched an attack against Allied forces through the Ardennes Forest in Bel- gium and Luxembourg (the Allies turned the Ger- mans back). In 1950, President Har- ry S. Truman proclaimed a national state of emergen- cy in order to fight “world conquest by Communist imperialism.” In 1960, 134 people were killed when a Unit- ed Air Lines DC-8 and a TWA Super Constellation collided over New York City. In 1982, Environ- mental Protection Agency head Anne M. Gorsuch became the first Cabinet-level officer to be cited for contempt of Congress for refusing to submit documents re- quested by a congressio- nal committee. In 1991, the U.N. Gen- eral Assembly rescinded its 1975 resolution equat- ing Zionism with racism by a vote of 111-25. In 2000, President-elect George W. Bush selected Colin Powell to become the first African-Ameri- can secretary of state. In 2001, after nine weeks of fighting, Afghan militia leaders claimed control of the last moun- tain bastion of Osama bin Laden’s al-Qaida fighters, but bin Laden himself was nowhere to be seen. In 2012, President Ba- rack Obama visited New- town, Connecticut, the scene of the Sandy Hook Elementary School mas- sacre; after meeting pri- vately with victims’ fami- lies, the president told an evening vigil he would use “whatever power” he had to prevent future shoot- ings. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE