A12 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, December 2, 2021 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Woman tired of couple’s constant marital drama FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: I’ve been mar- Dear Abby: My husband has ried for six years. When I met a “best friend” from childhood my wife, we decided she’d move I’ll call “Artie.” Finding things into my home with her teenaged to do with him and his wife is boys. I told them upfront how a struggle. We like to travel, so important it is to me to keep a we always invite them along, but clean home. When they come Artie says “no” to everything. home from college, they leave a His wife, “Ann,” and I are pretty J EANNE mess in the kitchen, and it drives close. P HILLIPS me crazy. This has been going on We all spend a lot of time to- ADVICE since we married, and I’m ready gether and they fight constantly! to tell my wife they are not al- Ann shows up at our house in lowed back into my home. the middle of the night needing I have reminded them many times a place to sleep. Their fighting has ruined more gatherings than I have fingers and about cleaning up after themselves, but toes to count. I feel like our life is con- their mess continues. I’m close to losing sumed by their toxic relationship. My my temper over it. It angers me to see husband tells me I should just “ignore grown men in my home do this. It feels it.” But he’s not the one who has to tend like they are blatantly disrespecting me. to his friend’s wife EVERY day. Help! — When I was away for a year, my wife constantly complained to me about their Exhausted In Alabama Dear Exhausted: What you do is draw lack of cleanliness as well. Am I in the the line. Tell your husband the unrelent- wrong? — Taskmaster In California Dear Taskmaster: You are not wrong. ing warfare in his friend’s marriage is more than you care to handle. Tell Ann Remind the “boys” — without exploding the same thing, and that if she can’t sleep — that you have asked them repeatedly under her own roof, she’ll have to find not to leave the kitchen in a mess after other accommodations than your house they use it. Then tell them — without ex- in the middle of the night. Urge her to get ploding — that if it happens again, they counseling and to contact the National will have to arrange for other accommo- Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799- dations when they visit. It goes without saying that your wife 7233) or a local domestic violence shelter if Artie is violent. As to socializing with should back you up on this. They should them as a couple — on trips, yet (!) — ex- also ask their mother if there is anything plain to your husband that you have lost else they can do to be helpful when they your appetite for it, and if he wants to visit — like wash the towels they have see his childhood friend, he should do it used and make up the beds with fresh linens before they return to school. without you. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL 100 years ago — 1921 Another accident, said by Traffic Officer R. E. Turner, to have been caused by a violation of the law, resulted last night in painful inju- ries to E. W. Gillaspy. The accident occurred near the state hospital on the highway when Mr. Gillaspy and a boy, whose identity is unknown to the police, clashed. Both were riding bicycles, according to the information secured by the traffic officers, and neither bicycle was equipped with a headlight. Gillaspy was rendered temporarily uncon- scious when he crashed to the pavement after the collision, and he was painfully injured about the head. In the future, according to Turner, cyclists who ride after dark without lights will be prosecuted for violating the law. 50 years ago — 1971 A guitar is easier to move around than an organ. This is the reason Tracey Fordice, who sings at the Skyroom at Pendleton Municipal Airport, is learning how to play the guitar. She uses her own organ for performances and her father transports it between home and her job. The Pendleton High School junior has been playing at the Skyroom for six months. During the school year, she works two week- ends a month. Tracey sings and plays about 250 songs a night. She knows most of them from memory. She sings contemporary music and likes “Carole King stuff best.” While she has had piano lessons, she plays by ear instead of using music. She is saving the money she earns for college and to go to Europe with a folk singing group. Tracey says her grades haven’t suffered. Her parents won’t let her work unless she maintains a 3.5 grade point average. “That means I’m studying more than I ever did before,” she said. 25 years ago — 1996 Sen.-elect Gordon Smith said he’s resigned his management posts in Smith Frozen Foods in preparation for his full- time job as Oregon’s newest senator. State Senate president the past two years, Smith said he and his wife still own the major- ity of stock in the family company and he plans to keep that stock unless he’s required to divest it under ethics rules. The Senate Ethics Committee helped bounce former Sen. Bob Packwood and caused some politi- cal heartburn for retiring Sen. Mark Hatfield when he forgot to report some gifts from friends. So Smith isn’t taking any chances. In addition to resigning as president of his company, he plans to ask the Senate Ethics Committee for guidance on handling his fortune to avoid any conflicts of interest. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Dec. 2, 1859, mili- tant abolitionist John Brown was hanged for his raid on Harpers Ferry the previous October. In 1823, President James Monroe outlined his doctrine opposing Eu- ropean expansion in the Western Hemisphere. In 1942, an artificially created, self-sustaining nuclear chain reaction was demonstrated for the first time at the University of Chicago. In 1954, the U.S. Sen- ate passed, 67-22, a reso- lution condemning Sen. Joseph R. McCarthy, R- Wis., saying he had “acted contrary to senatorial eth- ics and tended to bring the Senate into dishonor and disrepute.” In 1957, the Shipping- port Atomic Power Sta- tion in Pennsylvania, the first full-scale commercial nuclear facility in the U.S., began operations. (The re- actor ceased operating in 1982.) In 1970, the newly cre- ated Environmental Pro- tection Agency opened its doors under its first di- rector, William D. Ruck- elshaus. In 1982, in the first op- eration of its kind, doc- tors at the University of Utah Medical Center im- planted a permanent arti- ficial heart in the chest of retired dentist Dr. Barney Clark, who lived 112 days with the device. In 1993, Colombian drug lord Pablo Escobar was shot to death by secu- rity forces in Medellin. In 2000, Al Gore sought a recount in South Florida, while George W. Bush flatly as- serted, “I’m soon to be the president” and met with GOP congressional lead- ers. In 2001, in one of the largest corporate bank- ruptcies in U.S. history, Enron filed for Chapter 11 protection. In 2015, a couple loyal to the Islamic State group opened fire at a holiday banquet for public employees in San Bernardino, California, killing 14 people and wounding 21 others be- fore dying in a shootout with police. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE Days gone by: Dec. 2, 2021