Tuesday, November 30, 2021 PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK East Oregonian A13 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Woman tries to balance life with her two mothers FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE parents’ views on alcohol as he Dear Abby: I have two moth- prepares for his first year of col- ers: my biological mother and lege. In Colorado, Georgia and Mom, who raised me. I share many other states, minors ARE everything with Mom. My bio- prohibited from possessing and logical mother and I are not drinking alcohol — with an im- as close. We never have been. I portant exception. That is, doing don’t have a single good child- it in the presence of and under hood memory with her in it. J EANNE the supervision of their parents Lately, my bio mother has P HILLIPS in their home. been extremely jealous of my ADVICE I’m not condoning reckless relationship with Mom, even behavior, but when I was grow- though she has never done any- ing up, my parents let us try beer thing to facilitate the same rela- tionship with me. She’s pushy and con- and wine at an early age. It was pretty stantly oversteps boundaries. Because of strong, and we didn’t like it. We were this, when I found out I was pregnant, I never encouraged to get drunk or use it in excess. But we learned about it, tast- chose not to tell her. I’m now 36 weeks pregnant, and ed it and understood the good and bad someone adjacent to my inner circle has when dealing with alcohol. I believe this informed her of my pregnancy and due is why my sisters and I never had issues. date. She contacted my family FUM- We have always been responsible, and ING about my not telling her, insisting I’m convinced this is a responsible way she had a “right” to know. I do not feel to introduce alcohol to a minor. We gain knowledge through experi- she is entitled to any details about my ence. Having that experience in a safe life. Am I wrong? — Guarded In Illinois Dear Guarded: You are not wrong. environment with the proper guidance You are entitled to privacy if you want and supervision is a must. Better to learn it. Your birth mother is “entitled” only with a responsible parent than a frat to those details of your life you are will- brother you just met. Agree? — Allan ing to share with her. (When DID you In Colorado Dear Allan: Yes, I do. And thank you intend to share the happy news with her? After the birth?) You may need to dis- for pointing out that provision in the law. tance yourself from the person who gave Many other readers echoed your senti- your birth mother the news if you want ments about demystifying the allure of alcohol by introducing it in the home to avoid similar breaches in the future. Dear Abby: I’m writing about “Anx- under parental supervision. It could pre- ious About Alcohol in Georgia” (Aug. vent some young people from going wild 30), the teen who was torn between his the minute they reach the campus. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL 100 years ago — 1921 When Rathie and Owens, sentenced to hang for complicity in the death of Sheriff Til Taylor, meet their deaths Friday morning at the state penitentiary at Salem, at least two Umatilla county men will be present. They are W. R. Taylor, brother of the officer who was killed, and Glenn Bushee, special agent of the O. W. R. & N. It is possible that other men will be invited to go from here by Warden Comp- ton. Bushee was with Til Taylor at Rieth the day the two of them captured Owens, who was wanted for the robbery of Eugene “Happy” Lyman of the Dean Tatom company store. “I’d have shot Owens that day if Til would have let me,” Bushee said today, his eyes misty with tears as he talked about the incident. “I wish to Go now that I had shot him. Then Til would have been alive today.” 50 years ago — 1971 One of the wettest periods in Pendleton history continued through Nov. 29. Occa- sional rain was expected to continue today but should end tonight. It has rained every day since Nov. 23. From Nov. 26 through 10 a.m. Nov. 29, Pendleton received 1.95 inches of rain. On Nov. 26, 1.35 inches fell. Only in 1947 when 1.49 inches fell has more rain fallen here in one day, at least since 1935, when records began being kept at the Pendleton Airport. The downpour on Nov. 26 was the most in a 24-hour period since 1.23 inches on Dec. 10-11, 1958. While it has been raining here, the Blue Mountains were getting more snow. On Nov. 29, Meacham had four inches of new snow and 29 inches at roadside, and Tollgate had 14 inches of new snow and 44 inches road- side. 25 years ago — 1996 When foster parent Debby Zinn of Pend- leton counsels a child to forgive, she under- stands how difficult it can be for a wounded person to grasp the fruit of forgiveness. Zinn was in her early twenties when her younger sister, Sandra Good, met Charles Manson. Looking back, Zinn believes Sandy found with Manson what they lacked at home — a sense of family. Zinn found the same when she married Gene Zinn. “Revelations of the things they did at the ranch that came out at the trial caused me great agony, remorse and hatred,” Zinn said. “I really hated Sandy.” Becoming a Christian was “the first step” toward lifting the burden of hatred, she said. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Nov. 30, 1993, Pres- ident Bill Clinton signed the Brady Bill, which re- quired a five-day waiting period for handgun pur- chases and background checks of prospective buyers. In 1782, the United States and Britain signed preliminary peace articles in Paris for ending the Revolutionary War; the Treaty of Paris was signed in September 1783. In 1803, Spain com- pleted the process of ced- ing Louisiana to France, which had sold it to the United States. In 1835, Samuel Lang- horne Clemens — better known as Mark Twain — was born in Florida, Mis- souri. In 1900, Irish writer Oscar Wilde died in Paris at age 46. In 1965, “Unsafe at Any Speed” by Ralph Na- der, a book highly critical of the U.S. auto industry, was first released in hard- cover by Grossman Pub- lishers. In 1981, the United States and the Soviet Union opened negotia- tions in Geneva aimed at reducing nuclear weapons in Europe. In 1982, the Michael Jackson album “Thriller” was released by Epic Re- cords. In 2000, Al Gore’s law- yers battled for his politi- cal survival in the Florida and U.S. Supreme Courts; meanwhile, GOP lawmak- ers in Tallahassee moved to award the presidency to George W. Bush in case the courts did not by ap- pointing their own slate of electors. In 2010, the Obama ad- ministration announced that all 197 airlines that flew to the U.S. had begun collecting names, genders and birth dates of pas- sengers so the government could check them against terror watch lists before they boarded flights. In 2013, Paul Walker, 40, the star of the “Fast & Furious” movie se- ries, died with his friend, Roger W. Rodas, who was at the wheel of a Porsche sports car that crashed and burned north of Los Angeles. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE