Tuesday, November 9, 2021 PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK East Oregonian B13 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ A wife takes over whole home with remote work FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE ance despises my father, but I Dear Abby: My wife works forgave Dad and feel neutral from home, and we are having about his presence. My mom a disagreement about the home has voiced — begged, actually workspace. She says I interrupt — that I allow her and Dad to her too much and shouldn’t talk give me away since she didn’t to her so often. While I agree have either parent there for her with that, I don’t agree with her wedding. roaming around the house with J EANNE I don’t have an opinion on her laptop while she’s in meet- P HILLIPS the subject. My mom for senti- ings. If I turn on the TV, listen ADVICE mental reasons does. But my fu- to music or talk on the phone, ture husband can’t bear the sight she gets upset. of my dad. I have thought about I have been digging my heels in saying I’m entitled to enjoy my own calling the whole thing off on more than home and she should either stay in her one occasion. If I oblige my mom, my fiance will be home office or go to a coffee shop. Am I unrealistic to expect her not unhappy (to say the least), and if I oblige to make our entire house her office? my fiance, I’ll break Mom’s heart. I can find no middle ground here. Any advice — Walking On Eggshells Dear Walking: People create home on how to proceed? — Torn Bride-To-Be Dear Torn: This is your and your fian- offices for a reason. It’s a dedicated, or- ganized place to work. Your wife should ce’s wedding. It should not be influenced not be “roaming the house” with her lap- by your mother’s history. Walk yourself top and insisting you maintain complete down the aisle. Many modern brides do silence. Ideally, some physical boundar- it these days. Your mother could give ies should be set that equitably divide the a reading or sit with your father in the house between her “office” and the “rest front row and cheer you on. Who escorts you down the aisle should not be decided of the house.” Another suggestion might be for you by her. P.S. Have you thought about how your to find some activity away your home a couple of mornings or afternoons a week fiance’s antipathy for your father may af- while she’s busy in meetings. This might fect your marriage? What’s happening provide you with more social contact. now isn’t conducive to a happy marriage. The two of you should have a (calm) dis- Before you step foot on that trip down the aisle, it needs to be resolved. Family cussion and see what works for you. Dear Abby: In the midst of wedding counseling might help the four of you, planning, the question of who will walk because once you tie the knot, your fi- me down the aisle has come up. My fi- ance will be part of the family. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL 100 Years Ago Nov. 9, 1921 Spectators at the Pendleton-Baker high school football game on Armistice Day are to be kept in the grandstand, as the field has been wired off to keep the crowds off the grounds. For the fans who must see the play at close range, additional bleachers have been provided near the bleachers reserved for high school rooters, on the north side of the field. Dick Hanley, high school coach, says that the matter of patrolling the wires will be in the hand of members of the American Legion Post. Officials for the game will be Homer Angel, of Baker, former University of Oregon football player, referee; and Tracey Baker, of Pendleton, former University of Washington captain, umpire. 50 Years Ago Nov. 9, 1971 The new marina in Umatilla will be known in the future as the Umatilla Marina. The Port of Umatilla commission Monday voted to rename the facility after the name Wanahla Marina apparently presented several prob- lems. The vote brought unanimous approval in favor of the change. In 1968, when the Wanahla name was adopted, Commis- sioner Randy Dorran was the lone dissenter. The name change came after the Umatilla City Council and the Umatilla Chamber of Commerce were critical of the name Wanahla in meetings last week. 25 Years Ago Nov. 9, 1996 Fulfilling a boyhood dream, Republi- can Gordon Smith won his race Friday to succeed GOP Sen. Mark Hatfield and became the first Oregon senator elected from east of the Cascades since the 1920s. A count of absentee ballots from Tuesday’s election gave Smith the victory over Democrat Tom Brug- gere, a computer software company founder making his first bid for office. Smith, 44, a frozen-food tycoon whose father worked for President Dwight D. Eisenhower as assistant agriculture secretary, grew up in a household where politics was a main topic of conversa- tion at the dinner table. Smith’s long-standing ambition to serve in the Senate, coupled with his narrow loss in a January special election to replace the disgraced Bob Packwood, made Friday’s victory all the more sweet. The last U.S. senator from Eastern Oregon was Robert Stanfield of Umatilla, who was elected in 1920. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Nov. 9, 1938, Nazis looted and burned syna- gogues as well as Jewish- owned stores and houses in Germany and Austria in a pogrom or deliber- ate persecution that be- came known as “Kristall- nacht.” In 1620, the passengers and crew of the Mayflow- er sighted Cape Cod. In 1872, fire destroyed nearly 800 buildings in Boston. In 1935, United Mine Workers president John L. Lewis and other labor leaders formed the Com- mittee for Industrial Or- ganization (later renamed the Congress of Industrial Organizations). In 1965, the great Northeast blackout began as a series of power fail- ures lasting up to 13 1/2 hours, leaving 30 million people in seven states and part of Canada without electricity. In 1970, former French President Charles de Gaulle died at age 79. In 1976, the U.N. Gen- eral Assembly approved resolutions condemning apartheid in South Africa, including one character- izing the white-ruled gov- ernment as “illegitimate.” In 1989, communist East Germany threw open its borders, allowing citi- zens to travel freely to the West; joyous Germans danced atop the Berlin Wall. In 2000, George W. Bush’s lead over Al Gore in all-or-nothing Florida slipped beneath 300 votes in a suspense-filled re- count, as Democrats threw the presidential election to the courts, claiming “an injustice unparalleled in our history.” In 2005, three suicide bombers carried out near- ly simultaneous attacks on three U.S.-based hotels in Amman, Jordan, killing 60 victims and wounding hundreds. In 2007, President Gen. Pervez Musharraf of Pakistan placed op- position leader Benazir Bhutto under house arrest for a day, and rounded up thousands of her support- ers to block a mass rally against his emergency rule. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE