Tuesday, November 2, 2021 PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK East Oregonian A15 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Friend keeps the finances secret from her husband FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE to be postponed if what you are Dear Abby: I am friends with concerned about is true. “Pete” and “Pam,” a couple I Dear Abby: I’m a 37-year-old have known for more than 20 woman who has had to move years. back to my mother’s home after I need a way to address my ending a long-term relationship. concerns to Pete. He works full I love her dearly and appreci- time in a great job, and his salary ate her letting me stay with her. goes into a joint bank account. J EANNE The problem is, I never have any Pam handles all the finances and P HILLIPS alone time at home or even out pays the bills. When Pete and I ADvIce when I socialize. She’s close with hang out and he asks Pam (for all my friends and frequently small amounts of money, she goes to the same bars and res- says, “Sorry, we don’t have it.” I understand that might be the case some- taurants I do. When I go out, she invariably asks me times, but it happens ALL THE TIME. Pam also secretly borrows cash from where I’m going and then shows up and me. She pays it back late sometimes, but sits with me and my group. I love her, not always. I talked with Pam and told but I really need some space. I’m single. her to tell Pete she borrows. I don’t think I want to meet people when I’m out, and she did, and it concerns me. I’m putting I can’t do it with her there. When I try to my foot down and not doing it anymore. talk to her about it, she gets upset and I’m worried because Pete thinks they thinks I don’t “ever” want her around. have all this money saved for a house. Please help. — Needing Space In New I’m starting to think Pam has spent it, Jersey Dear Needing Space: Explain that or most of it. How can I tell Pete as a friend to check the finances without you enjoy her company but need some starting World War III? I’d hate to lose time by yourself — whether it’s at home my friends over this. — In Danger Of or with your friends. If you don’t want her beside you all the time when you’re Losing Friends Dear In Danger: Tell Pete everything home, agree on a place you can retreat to you have written to me. If he is so finan- for some solitude — like your bedroom. When you’re going out with friends, cially ignorant that he doesn’t know how to check his balances and his credit rat- be clear that you want SOME time with ing, he should talk with a CPA. Whether them without her being present because Pam has a spending problem or some it inhibits you. This does not mean she’s other type of addiction, he needs to not ever welcome, but maybe HALF the know. He also needs to know how long time. Encourage her to spend more time his dreams of homeownership may need with her own friends. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL 100 years ago Nov. 2, 1921 Umatilla County and Mr. John Jones have some common experiences right now in matters of finance, according to facts which have been brought out by a statement on the financial standing of the county. The county is now back just $69,058.36 to the state on its second half of the state tax money, and the money is past due. In addition to this indebted- ness there are $110,000 in road warrants which are registered and unpaid. The total amount of taxes now delinquent goes to about $200,000. From 1915 to 1921, the county was on a cash basis on all of its business, but prior to that time, warrants had to be carried at different times. The present indebtedness is thought to be the heaviest the county has ever had, although no record of this has been compiled. The biggest part of the delinquency is thought to be caused by the inability of some farmers to pay their taxes. 50 years ago Nov. 2, 1971 Not all ex-Marines are big, tough and mean. Judy Blackwell, a blonde housewife and student from Helix, used to be a Marine. Mrs. Blackwell joined the Marines when she was 18 because she wanted to do something different. She also “liked the uniform.” While in the Marine Corp., Mrs. Blackwell met her husband, Bob, and was married. They now have a three-year-old child. “I did office work while I was a Marine — accounting. I never got to go overseas,” she said. “I’m glad I joined. I got to meet a lot of people. It’s amazing all the different kinds of people there are.” A student at Blue Mountain Community College, Mrs. Blackman is going to school on the G.I. Bill, majoring in accounting. “The Marine Corp was a worthwhile experience,” she said. 25 years ago Nov. 2, 1996 All 56 employees at Gilroy Foods onion processing plant will be unemployed as of March 1997. Company headquarters in Gilroy, Calif., announced the plant’s closure Thurs- day. The company said the facility is being closed because of “excess onion production capacity in the Gilroy group of plants.” Gilroy was recently purchased by ConAgra, Inc., an international food company based in Omaha, Neb.The decision to close the plant was a surprise to employees in Umatilla, said office manager Cathy Murray. “People are going to take a little time to adjust and have it sink in.” TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Nov. 2, 2000, Amer- ican astronaut Bill Shep- herd and two Russian cos- monauts, Yuri Gidzenko and Sergei Krikalev, be- came the first residents of the international space station. In 1783, General George Washington is- sued his Farewell Address to the Army near Princ- eton, New Jersey. In 1889, North Dakota and South Dakota became the 39th and 40th states with the signing of proclamations by President Benjamin Harrison. In 1920, white mobs rampaged through the Florida citrus town of Ocoee, setting fire to Black-owned homes and businesses, after a Black man, Mose Norman, showed up at the polls to vote on Election Day; some historians estimate as many as 60 people were killed. In 1963, South Vietnamese President Ngo Dihn Diem was as- sassinated in a military coup. In 1976, former Geor- gia Gov. Jimmy Carter became the first candi- date from the Deep South since the Civil War to be elected president as he de- feated incumbent Gerald R. Ford. In 1994, a jury in Pen- sacola, Florida, convicted Paul Hill of murder for the shotgun slayings of an abortion provider and his escort; Hill was executed in September 2003. In 2003, in Iraq, insur- gents shot down a Chi- nook helicopter carrying dozens of U.S. soldiers, killing 16. In Durham, New Hampshire, V. Gene Robinson was consecrat- ed as the first openly gay bishop in the Episcopal Church. In 2004, President George W. Bush was elected to a second term as Republicans strength- ened their grip on Con- gress. Dutch filmmaker Theo van Gogh was slain in Amsterdam after re- ceiving death threats over his movie “Submission,” which criticized the treat- ment of women under Is- lam. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE