A16 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, October 5, 2021 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Dad won’t accomodate man’s food restriction FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL my values weren’t so strict, but Dear Abby: My husband was I have met someone who seems instructed by his doctor to avoid to respect my desire to wait until dairy due to a chronic condition. marriage. Around the same time, his father The problem is our relation- and his girlfriend began imple- ship has many negatives. We live menting the keto diet into their two hours apart. He loves to lifestyle. We are often invited to gamble. I am educated, and he their home for game night. She J EANNE has a learning disability. Most of takes pride in preparing a home- P HILLIPS the time, I feel like I am in fourth cooked meal for everyone. We’ve ADVICE place in his life behind his fam- been open about my husband’s ily, his friends and his gambling. dietary restrictions, but dairy re- I don’t feel he really wants to be mains a heavily used ingredient in these dishes, and it is often hidden or with me. I sometimes wonder if it’s be- cause of the sex thing. However, I don’t disguised by a different name. She seems to think that because my want a relationship based on sex. I want husband isn’t “allergic” to dairy, it’s OK him to want to spend his time with me, for him to consume it. However, because and I want us to become one and I don’t we’ve both changed our diets to exclude see it happening. I also don’t believe he dairy, these visits often end in stomach can budget for anything more than pay- pains and, for him, other discomforts ing his bills and gambling the rest of his that may last for days. We enjoy the game money. It doesn’t seem like he would choose nights, but fear a more direct approach will hurt our newfound relationship with to be with me rather than with his friends his father’s soon-to-be bride. What would and family. Am I wanting too much? I’m afraid what he is after is security, not a you suggest? — Restricted In Arizona Dear Restricted: I suggest you be loving relationship where you become VERY direct with your father-in-law and one in life. — Waiting For Mr. Right Dear Waiting: I don’t think you want his soon-to-be fiancee about the effect that dairy products have on your hus- too much. What you are searching for is band! And if your husband’s dietary re- what most people want — a life partner strictions can’t be accommodated, either who is considerate, loving and whose val- eat beforehand or bring your own food ues are close to their own. Because you suspect this person is after financial se- to the gathering. Dear Abby: I am 55 and have waited curity, please listen to your gut. If you for the right man. The only regret I have really believe you are four notches down is that I didn’t find him earlier because I on his list of priorities, do not settle. End went into early menopause at 33. I wish this “romance” now. DAYS GONE BY FROM THE EAST OREGONIAN 100 Years Ago Oct. 5, 1921 That the municipality of Pendleton will forthwith start a campaign looking toward the voting of bonds of approximately $400,000 was presaged last night in the action taken by the members of the Pendleton Commercial Asso- ciation. Included is support of the increase of the mill tax levy from 11 mills to 15 mills. The mayor called attention to the fact that at present Pendleton has the lowest millage rate of taxation of any city in the state. He declared everyone would agree one necessity which the city must have is a septic tank to refine the sewage of the city before it is emptied into the river. In doing so Pendleton will be merely obeying the laws of the state, which have been openly violated for many years. The city has been promising to remedy the situation as it now exists and the state board of health has been put off innumerable times. 50 Years Ago Oct. 5, 1971 One suitcase isn’t big enough to hold all the blue ribbons Mrs. Jack Woodhall has won in exhibits of her hobbies. There are ribbons for her flowers, her flower arrangements, her cookies and cakes and jams and jellies. Mrs. Woodhall brought her suitcase full of ribbons, a flower arrangement and a prize-winning decorated cake to her husband’s dental office one day recently for purposes of the interview. Bernice Woodhall, a native of Milton-Freewater, takes care of Dr. Jack Woodhall’s appointment book every day, ushers in the next patient and answers the telephone every five minutes or so. She main- tains her cool in the busy office. 25 Years Ago Oct. 5, 1996 Marlene Parsons doesn’t discuss politics with her mother anymore. Parsons, the city of Weston’s court clerk who is running for mayor, avoids the topic. That’s because her mother, Opal Barnett, is busy with her own mayoral campaign just a few blocks away. The four-way race for mayor, which also includes Richard Zellner and Barbara Byerley, is a touchy subject when it comes to Parsons, 45, and Barnett, 70. But hurt feelings have been set aside as both duke it out over such issues as enforcing the town’s codes prohibiting livestock next to residential homes, fixing the water tower and repairing the pock- marked streets that twist through the city of 650. Barnett, who has sat on the City Council for the past 12 years, is a grandmotherly bulldog when it comes to city politics, but she insists no bitterness would come between her and Parsons, should her daughter win. “I would be happy for her,” she said. “I still have two years on the council.” TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Oct. 5, 1989, a jury in Charlotte, North Carolina, convicted for- mer PTL evangelist Jim Bakker of using his televi- sion show to defraud fol- lowers. (Although initially sentenced to 45 years in prison, Bakker was freed in December 1994 after serving 4 1/2 years.) In 1931, Clyde Pang- born and Hugh Herndon completed the first non- stop flight across the Pa- cific Ocean, arriving in Washington state some 41 hours after leaving Japan. In 1947, President Har- ry S. Truman delivered the first televised White House address as he spoke on the world food crisis. In 1953, Earl Warren was sworn in as the 14th chief justice of the United States, succeeding Fred M. Vinson. In 1958, racially-de- segregated Clinton High School in Clinton, Ten- nessee, was mostly lev- eled by an early morning bombing. In 2001, tabloid photo editor Robert Stevens died from inhaled anthrax, the first of a series of anthrax cases in Florida, New York, New Jersey and Washington. In 2005, defying the White House, sena- tors voted 90-9 to approve an amendment sponsored by Sen. John McCain, R-Ariz., that would prohibit the use of “cru- el, inhuman or degrad- ing treatment or punish- ment” against anyone in U.S. government custody. (A reluctant President George W. Bush later signed off on the amend- ment.) In 2015, the United States, Japan and 10 other nations in Asia and the Americas reached agree- ment on the landmark Trans-Pacific Partnership trade deal. In 2017, California Gov. Jerry Brown signed legislation extending pro- tections for immigrants living in the United States illegally; police in Cali- fornia would be barred from asking people about their immigration status or taking part in federal immigration enforcement activities. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE