A10 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, September 30, 2021 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ A spiteful ex causes legal nightmares for boyfriend FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: I’ve had a male Dear Abby: My boyfriend friend, “Herb,” for more than and I have been together for five 35 years. He has helped me a lot years. We share a daughter, who with things such as repairs at my is a toddler. I have a son with my home. Many years ago, I became abusive ex as well. Although we pregnant, but the baby’s father are financially stable, we qualify and I didn’t end up together. as low-income. When Herb offered to marry me My boyfriend has a crimi- J EANNE and raise my child as his own, nal history. He’s a wonderful P HILLIPS that’s when I realized he had father and has changed his life, ADVICE feelings for me. I explained that but we have experienced many this was a kind offer, but I could hardships because of his past. not reciprocate his feelings. Because of a phone call from Over the past 10 years, Herb has be- my ex, the state picked up his most re- cent charge from four years ago, and he come touchy-feely, and it makes me very is now facing prison time for a crime he uncomfortable. He will kiss me on my forehead or come from behind me and did not commit. We are both devastated. He has be- hold me or hug me while rubbing my come withdrawn and is now at a para- back. I have told him how it makes me noid level of distrusting. I know he has feel and he laughs it off. He also makes every right to be upset. But after six remarks like, “Oh, I’ve never been in months of urging him to seek profes- your bedroom,” or while we’re on the sional help and fearing he regrets being phone he tells me he is in bed and we are with me, I’m wondering if I’m doing my- having pillow talk. What can I do? I hate self a disservice by not seeking happiness to lose his friendship, but I really don’t elsewhere. I know I should be there for know what else I can say to him to make him because he needs me. But he won’t him understand how he makes me feel. make future plans or seek better job op- — Too Friendly In Ohio Dear Too Friendly: When Herb gives portunities because of his fear of prison time. What should I do? — In A Corner you an unwanted kiss or hug, tell him you do not enjoy it when he invades your In Wisconsin Dear In A Corner: Advise your boy- personal space and you don’t want it to friend that reclaiming his future may re- happen again. If he brings up the sub- quire the help of a criminal defense at- ject of your bedroom or alludes to pil- torney. Then help him find one who will low talk during a phone call, get off the take his case and defend him if the need phone immediately. If it continues, you arises. And maintain as much distance as will have to end the relationship and hire a handyman. you can from your vindictive ex. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY FROM THE EAST OREGONIAN GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL 100 Years Ago Sept. 30, 1921 Anyone wanting to start a home for snakes can get a start in the game at small cost right now. Glenn Bushee who is the official keeper and handler of the rattlesnakes used by Chief Tall Pine in the snake dance staged every year at Happy Canyon has several specimens of the reptiles on hand now. They are fat and lazy, he declares, and are not particularly vicious — for rattlers. He had quite a lot of trouble in getting his collection together, and he is now having the same kind of experience in getting rid of his “pets.” 50 Years Ago Sept. 30, 1971 President Nixon is reported to be seri- ously considering nominating a woman for the U.S. Supreme Court. A random survey was taken of shoppers on Pendleton’s Main Street, asking “Should there be a woman on the Supreme Court?” Ester Winnester said, “I don’t think a woman should be appointed. It would upset the men that are already there — it would make them nervous.” Lorene Malone said, “Definitely. There should be a woman giving her opinion. I think it would have a great effect on voters. Now’s the time.” Margaret McCarthy said, “Any woman but Martha Mitchell should be appointed to the Supreme Court.” 25 Years Ago Sept. 30, 1996 Last year, a junior high teacher found an elaborate rendering of “Sunridge Middle School” on a classroom chalkboard. Others admired the professional lettering. A search for the artist led to Jason Hogge, one of the school’s custodians. Upon being found out, he designed a sweatshirt for the school. That was just the beginning. Now there is a hall- way at Sundridge that takes students on a mystical journey as they walk to the music rooms. Look to the right and you’re under the sea. A glance to the left and you’re in a forest of drumstick trees with a keyboard high- way stretching around the woods. Sunridge Middle School is a special place to Hogge. It’s where he met his wife, Lisa. He is studying to be a teacher and hopes to work in the very district where he was first a student, then a custodian. He said, “I believe God has given me a talent that I’d rather share than try to sell.” TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Sept. 30, 1962, James Meredith, a Black student, was escorted by federal marshals to the campus of the University of Mississippi, where he enrolled for classes the next day; Meredith’s pres- ence sparked rioting that claimed two lives. In 1777, the Continen- tal Congress — forced to flee in the face of advanc- ing British forces — moved to York, Pennsylvania. In 1938, after co-sign- ing the Munich Agreement allowing Nazi annexation of Czechoslovakia’s Su- detenland, British Prime Minister Neville Cham- berlain said, “I believe it is peace for our time.” In 1947, the World Se- ries was broadcast on tele- vision for the first time; the New York Yankees defeated the Brooklyn Dodgers 5-3 in Game 1. In 1954, the first nu- clear-powered submarine, the USS Nautilus, was commissioned by the U.S. Navy. In 1955, actor James Dean, 24, was killed in a two-car collision near Cholame, California. In 1984, the mystery se- ries “Murder, She Wrote,” starring Angela Lansbury, premiered on CBS. In 1986, the U.S. re- leased accused Soviet spy Gennadiy Zakharov, one day after the Soviets re- leased American journal- ist Nicholas Daniloff. In 2001, under threat of U.S. military strikes, Afghanistan’s hard-line Taliban rulers said ex- plicitly for the first time that Osama bin Laden was still in the coun- try and that they knew where his hideout was lo- cated. In 2014, the first case of Ebola diagnosed in the U.S. was confirmed in a patient who had recently traveled from Liberia to Dallas. California Gov. Jerry Brown signed the nation’s first statewide ban on single-use plastic bags at grocery and con- venience stores. In 2017, Monty Hall, the long-running host of TV’s “Let’s Make a Deal,” died of heart failure at his home in Beverly Hills at the age of 96. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE