Tuesday, September 28, 2021 PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK East Oregonian A13 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ Poor judgment deserves forgiveness from friend FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE B.C. PICKLES BEETLE BAILEY BY LYNN JOHNSTON BY MASTROIANNI AND HART BY BRIAN CRANE more about drugs than the two Dear Abby: I took exception women do. Consensus was uni- to your response to “Former versal that “Former Friend” Friend in Oregon” (July 1), who may have committed a faux pas, vaped marijuana while visit- but NOT an unforgivable one, ing a friend in the presence of and I should not have been so the friend’s 12-year-old future hard-nosed. stepdaughter. The friend made Dear Abby: I was married in a mistake, for which she apolo- J EANNE a double wedding with my twin gized profusely. She had flown P HILLIPS brother. My husband and I will cross-country to visit her preg- ADVICE celebrate our 25th anniversary nant best friend, no small thing. in three months. My brother Flying can cause both anxiety and his wife divorced 10 years and nausea, and the woman said she uses vaping to relieve both of those ago. Our three adult children want us to have a big anniversary celebration, as do issues. Further, it was legal in that state. Pregnancy can cause hormones to be my husband and I. My brother says that out of whack, and the pregnant friend since it would have been his anniversary might have been more emotional and too, I’m being selfish and insensitive to reactive than usual. “Former Friend” his feelings. Our mother agrees! I think they are the ones being selfish. stated she did not have experience with children. If her judgment was poor, she My husband and I have had our share apologized for it and didn’t try to mini- of hardships, but we worked and talked mize it. I truly believe she should be for- through them. I feel we deserve this cele- given and that one mistake should not bration not only for us, but also our kids and friends. Your thoughts? — Silver end the entire friendship. This incident could have been a teach- Anniversary In Arizona Dear Silver: You are neither selfish ing tool for the child, referencing bad judgment, forgiveness, value of friend- nor insensitive. Celebrate your 25th an- ship, etc. Friendships are vitally impor- niversary (congratulations, by the way) in any fashion or at any time you and tant. — Forgiving In North Carolina Dear Forgiving: That letter drew a your family choose. It is regrettable that huge response from readers, many of your self-centered twin brother and over- whom expressed similar feelings to yours. ly indulgent mother adopted the attitude They pointed out that marijuana is be- they have and attempted to make the oc- coming increasingly legal and normal in casion all about him, but the choice was our society, and it is a topic that should theirs. Graciously accept their refusal to be openly discussed with the 12-year-old. attend, have the party and enjoy every They also felt the girl probably knows minute of it. BY MORT WALKER DAYS GONE BY FROM THE EAST OREGONIAN GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND JOHN MARSHALL 100 Years Ago Sept. 28, 1921 The Pacific Telephone and Telegraph Company will shortly begin work on a proj- ect designed to supply certain sections of Pendleton with necessary additional facili- ties. The contemplated work will involve an expenditure of approximately $30,000 and consists of placing 90 poles and stringing 5.3 miles of aerial cable containing a total of 1210 miles of wire. Recently the telephone company acquired property in Pendleton upon which a new central office building will be constructed. The present construction work is only the forerunner of a large amount of additional work planned for Pendleton in order to provide necessary facilities in this fast growing city. 50 Years Ago Sept. 28, 1971 The destruction of a pinball machine seized July 3 at the Hut Cafe in Pendleton was ordered Monday in Umatilla County Court. The Bally Brand Can Can machine is listed as defendant in a court action filed by Umatilla County Dist. Atty. R.P. Smith. Smith said Oregon State Police Officer Gary Martin played the machine June 19 at the Hut, and exchanged games won for cash. The court order calling for destruction of the machine said any money in the coin box should be turned over to the Umatilla County treasurer for deposit in the county’s general fund. The machine has been sitting in the basement of Pendleton City Hall since its seizure. 25 Years Ago Sept. 28, 1996 Before the advent of The Weather Chan- nel, not many people had heard of Meacham. Now, however, it’s unusual when the town doesn’t make the list of the nation’s coldest spots. Temperature, of course, is not what makes this small town so wonderful. Rich in history, Meacham was originally known as Lee’s Encampment. “Meacham, A Wide Spot on the Oregon Trail,” is a book written by former Pendletonian Betty Booth Stewart, who was born in Meacham. The book features a cast of many characters including Native Americans, stage coach passengers and those on the seemingly endless wagon train jour- neys. There are encounters with highway- men, murderers and thieves hiding out on the mountain. Stewart’s book is selling well and is reportedly well written, well researched and has a genuine literary quality. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY PARKER AND HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Sept. 28, 1920, eight members of the Chi- cago White Sox were in- dicted for allegedly throw- ing the 1919 World Series against the Cincinnati Reds. (All were acquitted at trial, but all eight were banned from the game for life.) In 1066, William the Conqueror invaded Eng- land to claim the English throne. In 1781, American forces in the Revolution- ary War, backed by a French fleet, began their successful siege of York- town, Va. In 1787, the Congress of the Confederation voted to send the just- completed Constitution of the United States to state legislatures for their approval. In 1850, flogging was abolished as a form of punishment in the U.S. Navy. In 1924, three U.S. Army planes landed in Seattle, having completed the first round-the-world trip by air in 175 days. In 1928, Scottish medi- cal researcher Alexander Fleming discovered peni- cillin, the first effective an- tibiotic. In 1939, during World War II, Nazi Germany and the Soviet Union signed a treaty calling for the par- titioning of Poland, which the two countries had in- vaded. In 1962, a federal ap- peals court found Mis- sissippi Gov. Ross Bar- nett in civil contempt for blocking the admission of James Meredith, a Black student, to the University of Mississippi. (Federal marshals escorted Mere- dith onto the campus two days later.) In 1991, jazz great Miles Davis died in Santa Monica, Calif., at age 65. In 1995, Israeli Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin and PLO chairman Yasser Arafat signed an accord at the White House ending Israel’s military occupa- tion of West Bank cities and laying the foundation for a Palestinian state. In 2000, capping a 12- year battle, the govern- ment approved use of the abortion pill RU-486. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE