A16 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, September 14, 2021 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Career stress impacts family’s interactions FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: I am currently without a job. down and take a job or two in the mean- I hesitated to inform my mother because I time to afford it, as well as to feed your little was sure her reaction would only add to my family. As to your mother, who may be stress. I was right. She constantly corners worried because you don’t yet have a plan of me about my efforts to find a job. I talk to action, explain to her about seeking career her nearly every day to keep up counseling and she may calm down. with how she and my stepfather are Dear Abby: I’ve been seeing a doing. Because she never fails to dig man, “Carson,” on and off for about into me about my job search prog- five years. Last year, when I asked ress, I now find ways to shorten our him if we were exclusive, he quickly conversations. said no, so I went and slept with an ex I can get a job or two to sustain and became pregnant. I didn’t reach my living expenses for the time out to Carson because I thought the being. However, I’m trying to hold baby belonged to my ex, but when out for a job or career that connects the baby was born I quickly realized Jeanne to my soul passion. Working for she might be Carson’s. When I told Phillips decades in a job that sustains me him, he immediately denied she was ADVICE and my children is no match for the his but still rekindled our relation- ship. Abby, he disappears frequently longing of my passion. (I’m still not sure what it is.) and doesn’t answer my calls. What should How do I curb my mother’s pushing I do? Leave him? Stay? I do love him. — me for a resolution without coming off as Hopeless Romantic in Pennsylvania annoyed, which I am? I’m sure she wants to Dear Hopeless Romantic: Have express her concern, but I want support in my your child DNA-tested. If it proves she IS efforts without feeling condemned. Help me, Carson’s, he should be contributing to his please. — Annoyed in Alabama daughter’s support. (The same goes for Dear Annoyed: I will try. Because you anyone else you think could be the father.) still aren’t sure what your “soul passion” is, It’s important that you understand this man it’s time to find out. A place to start might behaves the way he does because he is not be a career counseling center (some univer- in love with you and doesn’t care about your sities have them). Contact one or more and feelings. He sees other women, just as he did inquire whether they offer career counseling the first time around. If this is the way you and aptitude testing. The test results will tell want to be treated, continue this relationship. you what you are best suited for. If, however, you think you deserve some- Of course, this service is not offered for thing — anything — better, end this poor free, which is why you might want to buckle excuse for a romance now. DAYS GONE BY FROM THE EAST OREGONIAN BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago Sept. 14, 1921 There’ll be no real gambling at Happy Canyon. Though the show will have more thrills than ever and some especially good stunts as well as a much larger dancing space there will be no wheel of fortune offering really valuable merchandise to those who try their luck. A suggestion that merchan- dise, including Indian robes, be given was overwhelmingly rejected by the board. It was held it would be a mistake to allow anything smacking of real gambling, even should the law permit. To this end there will be many more policemen than in the past and firm steps will be taken to check anything that borders on objectional conduct. 50 Years Ago Sept. 14, 1971 First you draw a plan, then you make a model. You get some service clubs interested, and eventually your project gets under way. This is the way a new “greenway” is to come about in Milton-Freewater. A new fire station is being built to replace the old Freewater station, and Mayor Barney Pilger said the city will improve the grounds between the Community Building and the fire station. The big lot is already seeded to grass and shaded by trees. On a tour of the site, the mayor related a bit of colorful history. He pointed to a covered water pipe behind the new fire hall. “This was a well and they had a terrible time getting all the concrete dug out when they were starting construction here. This property was once privately owned, and the well was the water supply for the house on the lot. The owner killed his wife and dumped her into the well, then poured concrete into it.” 25 Years Ago Sept. 14, 1996 Once, it was a necessity; catch a wild horse, throw a saddle on it and put the brav- est, or most foolhardy, on top of the 1,000- pound animal to ride it into submission. Later, it turned into a game among the cowboys. Today, the wild horse race is a popular event at the Round-Up and is growing into a full- fledged sport in its own right. Vern Garrett has been participating about 27 years and he’s seen a lot of cowboys hurt over the years. He credits the “cleaning up” of the sport for part of its popularity. “The cowboys don’t go out there drinking and the horses don’t win as often.” TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Sept. 14, 1814, Fran- cis Scott Key was inspired to write the poem “Defence of Fort McHenry” (later “The Star-Spangled Banner”) after witnessing the American flag flying over the Maryland fort following a night of British naval bombardment during the War of 1812. In 1812 , Napoleon Bonaparte’s troops entered Moscow following the Battle of Borodino to find the Russian city largely aban- doned and parts set ablaze. In 1836, former Vice President Aaron Burr died in Staten Island, N.Y., at age 80. In 1861, the first naval engagement of the Civil War took place as the USS Colo- rado attacked and sank the Confederate private schooner Judah off Pensacola, Florida. In 1901, P resident William McKinley died in Buffalo, New York, of gunshot wounds inflicted by an assassin; Vice Pres- ident Theodore Roosevelt succeeded him. In 1927, modern dance pioneer Isadora Duncan died in Nice, France, when her scarf became entangled in a wheel of the sports car she was riding in. In 1982, Princess Grace of Monaco, formerly film star Grace Kelly, died at age 52 of injuries from a car crash the day before; Lebanon’s presi- dent-elect, Bashir Gemayel, was killed by a bomb. In 2001, Americans packed churches and clogged public squares on a day of remembrance for the victims of the Sept. 11 attacks. Presi- dent George W. Bush prayed with his Cabinet and attended services at Washington National Cathedral, then flew to New York, where he waded into the ruins of the World Trade Center and addressed rescue workers in a flag-wav- ing, bullhorn-wielding show of resolve. In 2010, Reggie Bush announced he was forfeiting his 2005 Heisman title, citing a scandal over improper benefits while he was a star running back at Southern California; it was the first time college football’s top award had been relinquished by a recipient. Today’s Bir thdays: Actor Walter Koenig is 85. Basketball Hall of Fame coach Larry Brown is 81. Singer-actor Joey Heather- ton is 77. Actor Sam Neill is 74. Singer Jon “Bowzer” Bauman (Sha Na Na) is 74. Actor Robert Wisdom is 68. Rock musician Steve Berlin (Los Lobos) is 66. Coun- try singer-songwriter Beth Nielsen Chapman is 65. Actor Mary Crosby is 62. Singer Morten Harket (a-ha) is 62. Country singer John Berry is 62. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE