A12 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, September 2, 2021 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Boyfriend sets ‘do not disturb’ policy for visit to ex-girlfriend FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: I’ve been dating a great that he send you a text confirming he has arrived safely, and another telling you when guy for a year and a half. For eight years before we met, he dated a woman with teen- he has started back and expects to be home. age daughters. He never had chil- The way to “get past this” is dren, so they are as close to his own to stay very busy in his absence. kids as he will ever have. He was Make plans with friends during the evenings so you won’t be sitting recently invited to the graduation party of one of the daughters. It alone at home, stewing. And when will be a weeklong trip, since they he returns, do not give him the third have moved across the country. He degree. intends to stay awhile and visit with Dear Abby: I am a 41-year-old the girls and his old girlfriend. I’m mother of three, married less than Jeanne two years. I now realize what a self- grudgingly OK with that. Phillips ish lover my husband is. He expects The part I’m having real trouble ADVICE things from me and refuses to recip- with is that he told me he won’t call or text me the entire week that he rocate, which leaves me unhappy is gone. He has apologized in advance but and unsatisfied. When I ask him to change says he wants to concentrate on the girls and things up or return the same foreplay, it have a break from everything. We usually results in us not connecting at all. How do I talk every day, and this seems extreme, espe- get him to be less selfish without hurting his cially since he will be spending a week with feelings? I’m on the verge of cheating. — It’s Stale in the Midwest the woman who broke up with him and left him heartbroken (his words). He realizes his Dear It’s Stale: Cheating won’t help your behavior isn’t normal and assures me we are situation. It will likely make it worse. Instead OK, but I’m so hurt. Am I right to be this of dealing with a selfish or sexually repressed upset, and how do I get past this? — Silent husband, you will have, in addition, one who is outraged when he discovers your infidelity. Treatment in Illinois Dear Silent Treatment: I understand Find a time when you are both calm to talk why you would find it upsetting that your to him. Tell him you love him, but your sex boyfriend of a year and a half has unilaterally life is unsatisfactory, and if he loves you, he decided to go radio silent under these circum- will agree to talk things out with a licensed stances. It is a radical change of his behavior marriage and family therapist. If he refuses pattern, and I’m sure most women would be or things don’t improve, you may want to at least taken aback. Before he leaves, request consult a lawyer. DAYS GONE BY FROM THE EAST OREGONIAN BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS 100 Years Ago Sept. 2, 1921 Sam Oliver, a member of this year’s grad- uating class of the Pendleton High School, and former U.S. Navy man, has invented a device for the saving of grain ordinarily wasted through the sack dump during harvest operations. The device, for which Mr. Oliver has applied for a patent, can be made for $4 or $5 and is fastened to the sack dump. It was used on the O. Vlassenroot farm and on 1000 acres 15 sacks were saved. The appliance consists of a box beneath the sack dump, and extending beyond it. Any grain which goes beyond the sack dump is caught in the box. Mr. Oliver, who will enter University of Oregon this fall, will either manufacture the invention or sell the patent right to a combine company. Pictures and a working model will be shown here at the Northwest Grain and Hay Show, September 22, 23 and 24. 50 Years Ago Sept. 2, 1971 Rain Wednesday and this morning sent Heppner residents scurrying to high ground, closed a road, led to a car accident and, in Pendleton in less than 24 hours, exceeded the month’s average rainfall. At Heppner, nearly two inches fell in less than 15 minutes. Weath- erman Don Gilliam said the amount equaled that which fell on May 25, when Shobe Creek flooded Heppner. A lower portion the South Cold Spring Road north of Pendleton was closed by a mud slide at 3:30 a.m. today. It was reopened by 10 a.m. No one was injured in the accident caused by the mud shortly before the road was closed. 25 Years Ago Sept. 2, 1996 Cooler weather over the Labor Day week- end allowed firefighters to make progress on three fires that have burned through more than 89,000 acres of timber in the Blue Moun- tains of northeastern Oregon. “The freezing level on Tuesday or Wednesday should come down to 6,000 feet, so that would really help. We might get some precipitation,” Dolly Davis, spokeswoman for the Northwest Inter- agency Coordination Center in Portland, said today. The largest of the three fires, the Tower Fire, has burned 47,800 acres, and was 84 percent contained. Estimated containment for the Bull blaze is Thursday. The Summit Fire has burned 37,000 acres and was 65 percent contained. BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Sept. 2, 1969, in what some regard as the birth of the internet, two connected computers at the University of California, Los Angeles, passed test data through a 15-foot cable. In 1666, the Great Fire of London broke out. In 1789, the United States Treasury Department was established. In 1864, during the Civil War, Union Gen. William T. Sherman’s forces occupied Atlanta. In 1944, during World War II, Navy pilot Lt. (jg) George Herbert Walker Bush was shot down by Japanese forces as he completed a bombing run over the Bonin Islands. (Bush was rescued by the crew of the submarine USS Finback; his two crew members, however, died.) In 1945, Japan formally surrendered in ceremonies aboard the USS Missouri in Tokyo Bay, ending World War II. In 1960, Wilma Rudolph of the United States won the first of her three gold medals at the Rome Summer Olympics as she finished the 100-meter dash in 11 seconds. In 1963, Alabama Gov. George C. Wallace prevented the integration of Tuske- gee High School by encir- cling the building with state troopers. “The CBS Evening News” with Walter Cronkite was lengthened from 15 to 30 minutes, becoming network television’s first half-hour nightly newscast. In 1998, a Swissair MD-11 jetliner crashed off Nova Scotia, killing all 229 people aboard. In 2005, a National Guard convoy packed with food, water and medicine rolled into New Orleans four days after Hurricane Katrina. In 2019, a fire swept a boat carrying recreational scuba divers that was anchored near an island off the South- ern California coast; the captain and four other crew members were able to escape the flames, but 34 people who were trapped below died. Today’s Bir thdays: Former Sen. Alan K. Simp- son, R-Wyo., is 90. Former United States Olympic Committee Chairman Peter Ueberroth is 84. Singer Jimmy Clanton is 83. R&B singer Sam Gooden (The Impressions) is 82. R&B singer Rosalind Ashford (Martha & the Vandellas) is 78. Singer Joe Simon is 78. Pro and College Football Hall of Famer Terry Brad- shaw is 73. Basketball Hall of Famer Nate Archibald is 73. Actor Mark Harmon is 70. Former Sen. Jim DeMint, R-S.C., is 70. International Tennis Hall of Famer Jimmy Connors is 69. Actor Linda Purl is 66. Rock musician Jerry Augustyniak (10,000 Maniacs) is 63. Country musician Paul Deakin (The Mavericks) is 62. Pro Foot- ball Hall of Famer Eric Dick- erson is 61. Actor Keanu Reeves is 57. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE