A16 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, August 24, 2021 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Birth mother reconnects with biological son FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER Dear Abby: When I was an stay with me every night. Am I doomed with this man? By the way, unmarried 18-year-old, I had a child out of wedlock. Unsure that he’s been married four times. — I could provide for him, I chose to Wants More in Michigan place him for adoption so he would Dear Wants More: Wake up. The man you have been dating have a chance for a better life. This year, we connected through DNA. isn’t going to change. He has The reunion has been great, even struck out at marriage four times Jeanne and may have “plans” during the though I choose to remain in the Phillips background because his mother is week that do not include staying ADVICE still living. with a “Sleeping Beauty.” If you Would it be appropriate this fall want more companionship than and winter to include him in my holi- what you’re getting, you are going day festivities as long as it doesn’t interfere to have to seek it elsewhere. with the time he should be spending with his Dear Abby: My daughter is getting family? And, after his mother passes away, married. Her father and I never married, what role should I play in his life? His father but legally he’s listed as her father. For the past 40 years she has used my last name. is deceased, and he and his adopted brother Well, her wedding invitation arrived today are estranged. — Bio Mom in Texas Dear Bio Mom: Your son should and her father’s name is on it. Mine isn’t even mentioned! have told his adoptive mother about the reunion, regardless of who initiated it. I My parents and I raised her. Her dad was think it would be better for everyone if she around but never an active father. I raised was included. A way to do that would be her, but he gets the glory and the privilege to thank her for taking such good care of of walking her down the aisle? She says I’m your son and helping him to become the being “a wacko.” Must I accept this and let man he is today. I do not think secrecy is it go? I feel so hurt that I really don’t want healthy. If it backfires, there will be deeply to go to the wedding. — Loving, Left-Out hurt feelings because of the subterfuge. At Mom this point in your son’s life it’s too late for Dear Mom: I understand your feelings. you to be his mommy. However, you can be If you haven’t asked your daughter why a good friend, since his only family now is she chose to do this, you should. At the least, you deserve an explanation. Please the woman who loved and raised him. Dear Abby: I have been dating a man understand that if you refuse to go to her for almost three years. He’s retired; I’m still wedding, it could create a permanent rift. working. He refuses to stay with me during There may be grandchildren and mile- the week because I need to go to bed early. I stones you also could miss. Of course, the see him only on the weekends. Am I wrong decision is yours to make, but since you for wanting him to stay with me during the asked me to weigh in, I’m suggesting you week? I feel like we really don’t have a rela- take the high road, attend and support your tionship. My previous boyfriends would daughter on “her” day. DAYS GONE BY FROM THE EAST OREGONIAN GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago Aug. 24, 1921 That Louis Ragains was shot at some spot outside of the Wright cabin and was taken to the cabin after his death and the body placed in position on the floor is a theory of the tragedy that has been current following a trip to the cabin yesterday by three carloads of people who made a careful examination of the premises. That there were blood stains on Ragains’ own saddle and that a stain on the shoulder of his horse is thought to be blood are two startling indicators that are taken as establishing the plausibility of the theory. 50 Years Ago Aug. 24, 1971 Nellie Hoyt, who may be in her mid-60s, but carries on a multitude of activities that might go with an active 30-year-old, racked up another bunch of award ribbons this year at the Umatilla County Fair. The Umatilla artist, wife of Clyde Hoyt, has no idea how many ribbons she has won at fairs with her paint- ings. She started years ago and in addition to the Umatilla County Fair has received awards at the Columbia County Fair in St. Helens and the Tri-Cities Water Follies. “There’s not enough hours in the day to do what I want to do,” says Mrs. Hoyt, who raises a garden, does some writing and manages the Umatilla School cafeteria, in addition to her artistic pursuits. 25 Years Ago Aug. 24, 1996 If you can type, perform other standard clerical tasks and speak Spanish and English, you should have no trouble finding a job in the Hermiston area. Area employers and employ- ment agencies say the need for bilingual workers with office skills is growing right along with the growing Hispanic population. Umatilla County is one of 10 in the state in which at least 30 percent of new residents are Hispanic, according to figures released early this summer by the Center for Popula- tion Research and Census at Portland State University. In neighboring Morrow County, Hispanics make up 63 percent of new resi- dents. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Aug. 24, 1814, during the War of 1812, British forces invaded Washington, D.C., setting fire to the Capi- tol (which still was under construction) and the White House, as well as other public buildings. In A.D. 79, long-dormant Mount Vesuvius erupted, burying the Roman cities of Pompeii and Herculaneum in volcanic ash; an estimated 20,000 people died. In 1932, Amelia Earhart embarked on a 19-hour flight from Los Angeles to Newark, New Jersey, making her the first woman to fly solo, non-stop, from coast to coast. In 1949, the North Atlan- tic Treaty came into force. In 1954, President Dwight D. Eisenhower signed the Communist Control Act, outlawing the Communist Party in the United States. In 1981, Mark David Chapman was sentenced in New York to 20 years to life in prison for murdering John Lennon. (Chapman remains imprisoned.) I n 19 8 9, Ba seba l l Commissioner A. Bartlett Giamatti banned Pete Rose from the game for betting on his own team, the Cincinnati Reds. In 1992, Hur ricane Andrew smashed into Flor- ida, causing $30 billion in damage; 43 U.S. deaths were blamed on the storm. In 2003, the Justice Department reported the U.S. crime rate in 2002 was the lowest since studies began in 1973. In 2008, on the final day of the Beijing Games, Kobe Bryant hit two 3-pointers in a big fourth quarter to help the United States defeat Spain 118-107 and win the men’s basketball gold medal for the first time since 2000. In 2019, police in Aurora, Colorado, responding to a report of a suspicious person, used a chokehold to subdue Elijah McClain, a 23-year- old Black man; he suffered cardiac arrest on the way to the hospital and was later declared brain dead and taken off life support. (Three officers were placed on leave but returned to the force after prosecutors found insuffi- cient evidence to support charging them.) Today’s Bir thdays: Composer-musician Mason Williams is 83. R&B singer Marshall Thompson (The Chi-Lites) is 79. Actor Anne Archer is 74. Former Arkan- sas Gov. Mike Huckabee is 66. Baseball Hall of Famer Cal Ripken Jr. is 61. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE