A12 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, August 19, 2021 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Beau’s female friend send a ‘hands-off’ signal to his paramour FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE Dear Abby: I have been seeing gifts. I am unsure whether I should plan a shower for her now. I don’t a wonderful man for seven months and spend every weekend with want to offend her by not doing so. Everyone in our circle is fully vacci- him. We live 45 miles apart, but it works for us. He has a group of nated for COVID so that would not friends, five ladies, that he spends be a concern. Please advise. — Well-Meaning in New Mexico a lot of time with. He dated one of them for a year before he broke it Dear Well-Meaning: Your off, but they remain friends. I have daughter’s behavior is rude, insen- Jeanne met the group and, while they sitive and ungrateful. You are under Phillips no obligation to give her another act friendly, I get a proprietary ADVICE vibe from them. It makes me feel baby shower. If she approaches you extremely uncomfortable around for another one, suggest she ask them and I have told him so. Am I some of her friends to give her the looking for trouble where there isn’t any? “shower of her dreams.” Should I just ignore the fact that his friends P.S. This is just an FYI, but if you care are women? He has men friends, too, but about the rules of etiquette, it is considered it’s the girls he is closer to. — Threatened a breach for a mother to throw her daughter in Arizona a shower. You have already done more than Dear Threatened: Some men relate enough for her. Dear Abby: Why, in social situations, better to women than they do to men — which may be why your gentleman friend do women with long hair feel the need to is closer to these women than to his male constantly change their hairstyle from an friends. They may be emitting a “propri- updo to letting it fall to their shoulders and etary vibe” because they feel threatened vice versa? This lets hair — and dander — and fear you will steal him away. fly around, and it’s especially offensive at I don’t know where this relationship is the dinner table. It’s like bringing in a collie headed, and neither do you at this point. So and having it shake all over three or four for now, ignore the “vibes.” Be warm and times. We have noticed this especially in friendly to the women and concentrate on middle-aged women. Does anyone else find what you have going with him. And please, this offensive? My neighbor thinks they are write me again in six months so I and my trying to draw attention to themselves. — readers know what happens. Hairy Situation in Washington Dear Abby: My daughter is expecting Dear Hairy Situation: This is a habit I her second child. I threw a baby shower for have observed among women of every age. her when she was expecting her first and she Switching from an updo to down and vice complained that it “felt cheap” and wasn’t versa could also be temperature-related. the celebration she envisioned. I was deeply (Could the middle-aged women be meno- hurt, but the shower was for her, and I did pausal?) It may also be a nervous habit. But not want to focus on my feelings. I apol- in most cases, I agree with your neighbor. It ogized and tried to make it up with extra screams “Look at me!” DAYS GONE BY FROM THE EAST OREGONIAN 100 Years Ago Aug. 19, 1921 Fred Patterson, alias Pat Anderson and also known as Andy Anderson, was arrested about daylight this morning on a charge of complicity in the murder of Matt Jepson, aged rancher whose body was found in a well last Saturday on his ranch 16 miles east of Milton. The arrest of Patterson was made by Sheriff Houser, who with Deputy E.B.F. Ridgeway and A. Van Orsdale, a Walla Walla officer, comprised a posse that had sought the man for many hours. Patterson was arrested at Glass- by’s mill, 25 miles southeast of Walla Walla. In the search for Patterson the officers made use of three automobiles and the bloodhounds from the Walla Walla penitentiary. 50 Years Ago Aug. 19, 1971 John M. McElligott, son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles McElligott, Pendleton, was promoted to captain at the Army Primary Helicopter School, where he is assigned as a check pilot with Flight Evaluation. McElligott came to Ft. Wolters in September 1969 from Viet- nam where he served with the 101st Airborne Division as a helicopter pilot. His decorations include the Bronze Star Medal, 19 awards of the Air Medal (each medal signifies a mini- mum 25 missions flown over hostile terri- tory) and the Army Commendation Medal. The 22-year-old infantry officer and Army aviator, a 1966 graduate of Ione High School, entered the Army in June 1967. He and his wife, Cherry, and daughter, Stephanie, reside in Mineral Wells, Texas. 25 Years Ago Aug. 19, 1996 A newly formed 4-H club out of Pilot Rock struck it big at the Umatilla County Fair, but not without plenty of hard work and a streak of good luck. The 4-H members, who came together in November 1995, showed up at this year’s fair with their sheep, ready as they were going to be, and no idea of what was about to happen. To their surprise, eight of the nine members placed in the top 15 and 4-H member Eric Howard walked away with the champion market lamb and Rena Christensen won the reserve champion market lamb. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On August 19, 1934, a plebiscite in Germany approved the vesting of sole executive power in Adolf Hitler. In 1807, Robert Fulton’s North River Steamboat arrived in Albany, two days after leaving New York. In 1812, the USS Consti- tution defeated the British frigate HMS Guerriere off Nova Scotia during the War of 1812, earning the nick- name “Old Ironsides.” In 1814, during the War of 1812, British forces landed at Benedict, Mary- land, with the objective of capturing Washington D.C. In 1848, the New York Herald reported the discov- ery of gold in California. In 1909, the first auto- mobile races were run at the just-opened Indianap- olis Motor Speedway; the winner of the first event was auto engineer Louis Schwit- zer, who drove a Stod- dard-Dayton touring car twice around the 2.5-mile track at an average speed of 57.4 mph. In 1942, during World War II, about 6,000 Cana- dian and British soldiers launched a disastrous raid against the Germans at Dieppe, France, suffering more than 50% casualties. In 1955, torrential rains caused by Hurricane Diane resulted in severe flooding in the northeastern U.S., claiming some 200 lives. In 1960, a tribunal in Moscow convicted Amer- ican U2 pilot Francis Gary Power s of espionage. (Although sentenced to 10 years’ imprisonment, Powers was returned to the United States in 1962 as part of a prisoner exchange.) In 1974, U.S. Ambassa- dor Rodger P. Davies was fatally wounded by a bullet that penetrated the Amer- ican embassy in Nicosia, Cyprus, during a protest by Greek Cypriots. In 1980, 301 people aboard a Saudi Arabian L-1011 died as the jetliner made a fiery emergency return to the Riyadh airport. In 1991, rioting erupted in the Brooklyn, New York, Crown Heights neighbor- hood after a Black 7-year- old, Gavin Cato, was struck and killed by a Jewish driver from the ultra-Orthodox Lubavitch community; three hours later, a mob of Black youth fatally stabbed Yankel Rosenbaum, a rabbinical student. In 2010, the last Amer- ican combat brigade exited Iraq, seven years and five months after the U.S.-led invasion began. Today’s Bi r thdays: Actor L.Q. Jones is 94. Actor Debra Paget is 88. USTA Eastern Tennis Hall of Famer Renee Richards is 87. Former MLB All-Star Bobby Richardson is 86. Actor Diana Muldaur is 83. Actor Jill St. John is 81. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE