A16 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, August 10, 2021 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Husband’s alcoholism now pits him against teenaged son FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: Sometimes when my holics that can be accessed by visiting husband, “Tom,” drinks he becomes al-anon.org/info. Attending Al-Anon volatile. A month ago, after being out meetings would be beneficial for you drinking, he came home very late. and Eric, regardless of what your I made a joke that upset him and he husband decides about drying out. started yelling and calling me names. Dear Abby: My husband’s daugh- I have learned that when Tom gets like ter has “borrowed” money from us on that, it’s best to just agree with him. countless occasions when she couldn’t On that occasion, it didn’t work, pay her bills. She has never made an Jeanne and he began breaking things. Our effort to repay it. She was recently Phillips teenage son “Eric” was so scared he included in someone’s will, and the ADVICE called the police. When the police bequest was sizable. Prior to receiv- arrived they told my husband who had ing her inheritance, she had asked placed the call and interviewed each of to borrow money to buy three major us separately. After they left, Tom called Eric appliances. Because it would be several months ugly names, told him he was done with him until the estate would be settled and it was a and hasn’t spoken to him since. If they are in large sum that we really couldn’t afford to lose, the same room, my husband won’t look at him we required her to sign a promissory note. She or talk to him. mailed us a check when her funds arrived, but I don’t know how to fix this. I worry about now she’s cut off all communication with us! We how this will affect Eric. He tries to avoid his have tried to resume normal relations with her dad now and goes to his room when he hears to no avail. Should we keep trying? — Ignored his dad come home. — Bad Behavior in Texas in the East Dear Ignored: So your husband’s daughter Dear Bad Behavior: Your husband may blame his abusive outbursts on his drinking, is offended because you made her sign a promis- but as you can see, he’s well aware of what he sory note before handing out (more) money you couldn’t afford to lose? In light of the fact that did after he sobers up. Eric was right to call the police because, after “breaking things,” his she hasn’t repaid you for all the other monies father could have gone after you. you helped her out with when she needed it, what you did was sensible. This unfortunate situation will not improve until Tom faces the fact that he’s a problem Rather than accept that in the past she has drinker, swears off the sauce and gets help. By behaved irresponsibly, which is why you asked for the guarantee of repayment, she’s blaming not insisting upon it, you have cast yourself in you?! Instead of beating your heads against a the role of his enabler. For your sake and Eric’s, draw the line. (The healthiest person in your stone wall trying to have a relationship with household appears to be your son.) your husband’s deadbeat daughter, you would Talk to Eric. Let him know he did nothing be better off biding your time until she once wrong. There are programs for families of alco- again needs something. DAYS GONE BY FROM THE EAST OREGONIAN BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago Aug. 10, 1921 The finding of the body of a girl of about 25 years of age with wrist watch bearing the letters “R.G.H.” and wearing on the lapel of the coat a pin with the letters “O.R.T.” (Order of Railway Telegraphers) establishes without doubt that the body is that of Miss Ruth Hart, Pendleton girl, who was aboard the Alaska at the time it went down. T.F. O’Brien, local O.W.R. & N. agent, received a wire last night telling of the finding of the body and is certain that it is that of Miss Hart, who was for the past seven years employed as operator at the local office. The tanker Oleum arrived today in San Francisco with the body. 50 Years Ago Aug. 10, 1971 A case of bubonic plague was reported today by Umatilla County Health Officer Dr. Alton Alderman. “There is no cause for public concern,” said Dr. Alderman. The disease is not communicable from person to person. It is spread by fleas on rodents. The case was discovered rapidly by the attending physician. The young boy suffering from bubonic plague is getting well, said Dr. Alderman. “The government will be sending in a team of men to trap animals and get fleas from them. They won’t discover anything they wouldn’t have found before the case was reported,” he said. 25 Years Ago Aug. 10, 1996 Burn it now. That seems to be the wishes of most folks living near the Umatilla Chemical Depot, according to a survey released today by the Oregon Department of Environmental Quality on community attitudes toward the destruction of chemical weapons. Intercept Research Corp., of Tigard, called 300 Herm- iston residents, and 100 each from Pendle- ton and the Tri-Cities, and asked opinions on the proposed chemical weapons incinerator at the depot, where nearly 12 percent of the country’s chemical weapons are stored. The survey is good news for proponents of incin- eration. Area wide, 81 percent of the respon- dents agreed an incinerator was needed to safety dispose of the stockpile, with 84 percent of Hermiston residents, 72 percent of Pendleton residents, and 81 percent of Tri-Cit- ies residents. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On August 10, 1993, Ruth Bader Ginsburg was sworn in as the second female justice on the U.S. Supreme Court. In 1792, during the French Revolution, mobs in Paris attacked the Tuileries Palace, where King Louis XVI resided. (The king was later arrested, put on trial for trea- son, and executed.) In 1821, Missouri became the 24th state. In 1861, Confederate forces routed Union troops in the Battle of Wilson’s Creek in Missouri, the first major engagement of the Civil War west of the Mississippi River. In 1944, during World War II, American forces overcame remaining Japanese resistance on Guam. In 1945, a day after the atomic bombing of Nagasaki, Imperial Japan conveyed its willingness to surrender provided the status of Emperor Hirohito remained unchanged. (The Allies responded the next day, saying they would deter- mine the Emperor’s future status.) In 1969, Leno and Rosemary LaBianca were murdered in their Los Angeles home by members of Charles Manson’s cult, one day after actor Sharon Tate and four other people were slain. In 1977, postal employee David Berkowitz was arrested in Yonkers, New York, accused of being “Son of Sam,” the gunman who killed six people and wounded seven others in the New York City area. (Berkowitz is serving six consecutive 25-years-to- life sentences.) In 1988, President Ronald Reagan signed a measure providing $20,000 payments to still-living Japanese-Amer- icans who were interned by their government during World War II. In 1991, nine Buddhists were found slain at their temple outside Phoenix, Arizona. (Two teenagers were later arrested; one was sentenced to life in prison, while the other received 281 years.) In 1995, Timothy McVeigh and Terry Nichols were charged with 11 counts in the Oklahoma City bombing (McVeigh was convicted of murder and executed; Nichols was convicted of conspiracy and involuntary manslaugh- ter and sentenced to life in prison). In 2006, British authorities announced they had thwarted a terrorist plot to simulta- neously blow up 10 aircraft heading to the U.S. using explosives smuggled in hand luggage. In 2019, Jeffrey Epstein, accused of orchestrating a sex-trafficking ring and sexually abusing dozens of underage girls, was found unresponsive in his cell at a New York City jail; he was later pronounced dead at a hospital. (The city’s medical examiner ruled the death a suicide by hanging.) PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE