A8 COFFEE BREAK East Oregonian Saturday, June 19, 2021 DEAR ABBY Young professional can’t escape dating gossip Romances evolve from friendships, and We now need to replace the reclining friendships take time and eff ort. Hang on to chairs in the den. He weighs more than 300 your sense of humor, and remem- pounds, and I can’t find a loveseat ber: You are at the beginning of an or chairs that can accommodate his weight. He won’t allow Mom interesting career and life journey. Stop worrying about the gossips, to drive herself over here. What and take advantage of the opportu- can I do? I would like comfort- nities that are opening up for you. able seating in my den, but I don’t Dear Abby: My mother and her want furniture that will break the companion recently moved to be first time he sits on it. — Imposed closer to me (20 minutes away). Upon in the South JEANNE The problem is I don’t really care Dear Imposed Upon: You are PHILLIPS for her companion, and he is always under no obligation to buy furni- ADVICE around my mom. He comes over ture to accommodate someone to my house when she does, plops you “don’t particularly like.” Tell himself in our den and turns on the TV — your mother you will provide the transpor- loud. (We always close the door because he tation when she wants to visit you. (Her companion can pick her up when she’s needs a hearing aid.) Dear Abby: I’m a girl of 23 who has never had a boyfriend. Now that I fi nished college and am a journalist, I have met some guys, mostly from high school and places like that. One of them, who went to my middle school, recently asked me on a date. Another one from high school asked me out, too, in the same week. (Neither one ever talked to me in the respective schools.) Even if I wanted to go out, I’m a little nervous because I’ve never been on a date. What do you think I have to do? I know I shouldn’t care about what my family and friends say, but they are gossips. — Feeling Weird in Mexico Dear Feeling Weird: I’m glad you wrote. You do not have to do anything except calm down and get to know who these guys are. You should not rush into anything. ready to go home, or you can take her.) Problem solved. Dear Abby: When six of us women got together for lunch, one gal brought copies of her mother’s newly published book of poetry. The book was $20. After describing the book and her mother, she offered one to each of us to purchase! We’re not poor, but I thought she showed poor taste by pushing this book on us. We all bought one because we felt obligated. What’s your opinion about what she did? What would have been a tactful way to refuse? — Dumbstruck Dear Dumbstruck: You could have thanked the woman for offering the book, told her you are sure it was “wonderful” and refused by saying, “But I’m just not into poetry!” DAYS GONE BY From the East Oregonian 100 Years Ago June 19, 1921 Tex Smith, buckaroo, and champion bulldogger at the 1920 Pendleton Round-Up, is being held in custody at Cadwell, Idaho, with Roy Snyder, on a charge of stealing an Auburn car from G. Reed, of Nampa. It is alleged that the two left Nampa with a car that they appropriated and it is supposed that they are the ones that robbed a store at Emmett of about $2,000 worth of silk goods, a garage at Vale and a store at Crane of several hundred dollars worth of merchandise and also a shop and garage at Fallon, Nevada. In getting away from Fallon they were pursued by the sheriff and two men whom he had deputized and in a running fi ght the sheriff was seriously wounded and the men escaped. 50 Years Ago June 19, 1971 The bodies of fi ve members of the Dr. Clarence Tannell family were removed Friday by searchers from a timbered ridge at the head of Little Johnson Creek, about 14 air miles southeast of Pendleton, where their light plane crashed Monday. The Longview, Wash., family left Kelso, Wash., in their Piper Challenger Sunday night en route to Wisconsin and Michigan to visit relatives. No fl ight plan was fi led. It was not known they were missing until Wednesday when they failed to show up in the Midwest as expected. The plane, piloted by Tannell, had last been heard from Monday over Pendleton when Tannell radioed for weather information. 25 Years Ago June 19, 1996 Umatilla County’s maintenance supervisor is scheduled to be arraigned Thursday morning on fi rst- and second-degree theft and offi cial misconduct charges. George Edward “Ed’ Crawley Jr. is to be formally charged with buying tools, weld- ing equipment, and materials to build a small barn for personal use with county funds. Preliminary estimates of the property’s value by Oregon State Police detectives is at $2,200. THIS DAY IN HISTORY On June 19, 1865, Union troops arrived in Galveston, Texas, with news that the Civil War was over, and that all remaining slaves in Texas were free — an event cele- brated to this day as “June- teenth.” In 1775, George Wash- ington was commissioned by the Continental Congress as commander in chief of the Continental Army. In 1911, Pennsylva- nia became the fi rst state to establish a motion picture censorship board. In 1917, during World War I, King George V ordered the British royal family to dispense with German titles and surnames; the family took the name “Windsor.” In 1944, during World War II, the two-day Battle of the Philippine Sea began, resulting in a decisive victory for the Americans over the Japanese. In 1945, millions of New Yorkers turned out to cheer Gen. Dwight D. Eisenhower, who was honored with a parade. In 1953, Julius Rosen- berg, 35, and his wife, Ethel, 37, convicted of conspiring to pass U.S. atomic secrets to the Soviet Union, were executed at Sing Sing Prison in Ossining, New York. In 1964, the Civil Rights Act of 1964 was approved by the U.S. Senate, 73-27, after surviving a lengthy fi libuster. In 1975, former Chicago organized crime boss Sam Giancana was shot to death in the basement of his home in Oak Park, Illinois; the kill- ing has never been solved. In 1987, the U.S. Supreme Court struck down a Louisi- ana law requiring any public school teaching the theory of evolution to teach creation science as well. In 2009, Texas billion- aire R. Allen Stanford was indicted and jailed on charges his international banking empire was really just a Ponzi scheme built on lies, bluster and bribery. (Stanford was sentenced to 110 years in prison after being convicted of bilking investors in a $7.2 billion scheme that involved the sale of fraudulent certifi - cates of deposits.) In 2013, actor James Gandolfi ni, 51, died while vacationing in Rome. In 2014, Rep. Kevin McCarthy of California won election as House majority leader as Republicans shuf- fl ed their leadership in the wake of Rep. Eric Cantor’s primary defeat in Virginia. Today’s Birthdays: Actor Gena Rowlands is 91. Hall of Fame race car driver Shir- ley Muldowney is 81. Singer Elaine “Spanky” McFarlane (Spanky and Our Gang) is 79. Nobel peace laureate Aung San Suu Kyi is 76. Author Sir Salman Rushdie is 74. Actor Phylicia Rashad is 73. Rock singer Ann Wilson (Heart) is 71. Musician Larry Dunn is 68. Actor Kathleen Turner is 67. Country singer Doug Stone is 65. Singer Mark DeBarge is 62. Singer-danc- er-choreographer Paula Abdul is 59. Actor Andy Lauer is 58. British Prime Minister Boris Johnson is 57. Rock singer-musician Brian Vander Ark (Verve Pipe) is 57. Actor Samuel West is 55. Actor Mia Sara is 54. TV personality Lara Spencer is 52. Rock musi- cian Brian “Head” Welch is 51. Actor Jean Dujardin is 49. Actor Robin Tunney is 49. Actor Bumper Robinson is 47. Actor Poppy Montgom- ery is 46. Alt-country sing- er-musician Scott Avett (The Avett Brothers) is 45. Actor Ryan Hurst is 45. Actor Zoe Saldana is 43. Former NBA star Dirk Nowitzki is 43. Actor Neil Brown Jr. is 41. Actor Lauren Lee Smith is 41. Rapper Macklemore (Macklemore and Ryan Lewis) is 39. Actor Paul Dano is 37. New York Mets pitcher Jacob DeGrom is 33. CHURCH Featured this Week: DIRECTORY Community Worship Our Lady of Angels Catholic Church 565 W. HERMISTON AVE. Iglesia Católica Nuestra Señora de los Ángeles 565 W. HERMISTON AVE. St. Johns Episcopal Church Join Us Us Join On Our Journey With Jesus. Join us on ZOOM 9:00 AM Sunday Email: chuckb@eotnet.net for link N.E. Gladys Ave & 7th, Hermiston PH: 567-6672 We are an all inclusive Church who welcomes all. PENDLETON LIGHTHOUSE CHURCH Sunday Service: 9am & 6pm Tuesday Kingdom Seekers: 7pm Wednesday Bible Study: 7pm We offer: Sunday School • Sign Language Behind These Stone Walls Beat the Hearts of Some of the Warmest Most Sincere, Most Caring People in Pendleton. We Invite You to Come Get Acquainted! Sunday Worship at 9:40am June - September Office 541-276-5358 M-F, 8:30-12:30 www.fccpendleton.org The Salvation Army Center for Worship & Service Sunday Worship Service 9:30 - Sunday School 10:30 - Worship Service Interpreters • Nursery • Transportation • & more! 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Open Minded Solid Rock Community Church 140 SW 2nd St Hermiston, OR 97838 541-567-6937 Worship Service: 11:00AM Sunday School: 9:45 Pastor Wilbur Clark Also Live Stream at PendletonFirst.com SundayEvenings Celebrate Recovery: 6:00 Wednesday Evenings Family Night: 6:00 pm Pendleton First Assembly of God 1911 SE Court Ave. PO Box 728 541.276.6417 pendletonfirst.com To advertise in the Church Directory, please contact Audra Workman 541-564-4538 or email aworkman@eastoregonian.com