A14 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, June 10, 2021 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Woman spurred to action by her grandchildren’s plight FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER Dear Abby: I have a grandson apart from his parents might also (25) and granddaughter (22) who be an incentive for him to become more independent in other ways, are both extremely overweight (300 pounds each). They not only such as continuing his education if have health issues, but also mental he is able, which would improve his issues. Both work part time at the employment prospects. same company as their mom and Dear Abby: There is a trend dad — and still live at home. They happening these days. Young people Jeanne live together for several years, get don’t date, don’t drive and are very Phillips pregnant and go to the justice of the dependent on their parents because ADVICE their parents encourage it. My peace to get legally married. Then, granddaughter is being treated with a year or more later, they sometimes meds; my grandson is not. decide to have a formal wedding I’m very close to him, and he shares a ceremony. Friends throw them a shower, and lot with me. He has issues with both of his the wedding is often elaborate. parents, but more so with his mom. They I thought a shower gift or wedding gift were raised in a very Christian home. There was to help the new couple to get their were always weight issues for the entire household set up. These couples already family because they eat most of their meals have everything in their house. I feel this is out. My daughter-in-law rarely cooks, and a slap in the face of tradition. What are your the house resembles a “Hoarders” home. thoughts? — Old-Fashioned In the past, I tried talking with my son and Dear Old-Fashioned: Yes, it’s a break his wife but they have a convenient excuse with tradition. These changes have occurred for everything I bring up. During my last because of changes in social mores, the econ- conversation with my grandson, he was so omy and gender roles. The tradition used to unhappy he mentioned suicide. Please can involve a young woman going directly from you help me? How can I get through to my her parents’ house to that of her husband. son and his wife? — Distraught Grandma More recently, young people have post- poned marriage, established themselves in in Texas Dear Grandma: Do your son and his the workplace and achieved economic inde- wife know their son is depressed to the point pendence before coupling up. This is a posi- of talking about suicide? If they are unaware, tive step because if the marriage fails or the put them on notice. While you’re at it, give spouse dies, the widowed spouse isn’t left him the number of the National Suicide without the tools to support themselves and Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-8255. their family. Because you have already tried talking While you may think the couple “already to his parents and found them unreceptive, has everything they need,” take a peek at would you consider inviting your grandson their bridal registry because it may be an to live with you for a while? It would be a way eye-opener. And remember, if you cannot of teaching him healthier eating habits, and celebrate happily with the couple, no rule of if he needs medication, you might be able etiquette dictates that you must attend the to see that his doctor prescribes it. Living wedding. DAYS GONE BY FROM THE EAST OREGONIAN GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago June 10, 1921 Several suggestions for a new name for Cabbage Hill have been received by the East Oregonian. One suggestion made by a prom- inent business man is that whatever name be chosen that the “Hill” be dropped and the boulevard substituted. Mrs. Susan Darr of Adams writes suggesting the names “Meeker Heights”; “Meeker View”; “Meeker Obser- vatory” or “Meeker Hill.” Her desire is to honor the name of Ezra Meeker who aided in remarking the Old Oregon trail. C.P. Strain, now in California, writes that since the hill overlooks a mighty empire that it have a name in keeping with the importance of the view. He suggests “Empire Crest,” “Crest Look- out,” “Golden Empire Crest,” “Empire Gate” or “Threshold of the Golden Empire.” 50 Years Ago June 10, 1971 James (Jim) Ross, 21, Hermiston, a chief warrant officer in the U.S. Army, will never forget March 24, 1971. That’s the date his heli- copter was shot down in Laos 15 miles north- east of Khe Sanh. The other two members of his crew lost their lives and Ross suffered several major injuries. Ross is visiting his parents, Mr. ad Mrs. Robert Ross, on Butter Creek highway near Hermiston. He is sched- uled to return to Madigan Hospital, Tacoma, Wash., for more treatment. The 1968 Hermis- ton High School graduate was shot down the first time on the Laotian border in October 1970. In this action, Ross was awarded the Silver Star for bravery. He helped his crew get away from the disabled aircraft and then remained by himself with the helicopter. 25 Years Ago June 10, 1996 Work on the Chemical Stockpile Emer- gency Preparedness Program’s alert notifi- cation system has halted because, at least for now, it doesn’t work. For starters, the system is unable to send data between the program’s three operations centers. CSEPP spokesman Tom Groat said the local area network link- ing emergency operations centers in Pend- leton, Heppner, and at the Umatilla Army Depot overloads when attempting to convey both meteorological information and other data, information that needs to be exchanged continually. Development of the $7 million system of sirens, reader boards and computer equipment has been at an impasse since Janu- ary, Groat said. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On June 10, 1963, Presi- dent John F. Kennedy signed into law the Equal Pay Act of 1963, aimed at eliminat- ing wage disparities based on gender. In 1692, the first execu- tion resulting from the Salem witch trials in Massachusetts took place as Bridget Bishop was hanged. In 1922, singer-actor Judy Garland was born Fran- ces Ethel Gumm in Grand Rapids, Minnesota. In 1935, Alcoholics Anonymous was founded in Akron, Ohio. In 1942, during World War II, German forces massacred 173 male resi- dents of Lidice, Czechoslo- vakia, in retaliation for the killing of Nazi official Rein- hard Heydrich. In 1944, German forces massacred 642 residents of the French village of Oradour-sur-Glane. In 1967, six days of war in the Mideast involving Israel, Syria, Egypt, Jordan and Iraq ended as Israel and Syria accepted a United Nations-mediated cease-fire. In 1977, James Earl Ray, the convicted assassin of civil rights leader Martin Luther King Jr., escaped from prison in Tennessee with six others; he was recaptured June 13. In 1978, Affirmed, ridden by Steve Cauthen, won the 110th Belmont Stakes to claim horse racing’s 11th Triple Crown. In 1991, 11-year-old Jaycee Dugard of South Lake Tahoe, California, was abducted by Phillip and Nancy Garrido; Jaycee was held by the couple for 18 years before she was found by authorities. In 2013, jury selection began in Sanford, Florida, in the trial of neighborhood watch volunteer George Zimmerman, charged with second-degree murder in the fatal shooting of 17-year-old Trayvon Martin. (Zimmer- man was acquitted.) Today’s Bir thdays: Attorney F. Lee Bailey is 88. Actor Alexandra Stewart is 82. Singer Shirley Alston Reeves (The Shirelles) is 80. Actor Gina Gershon is 59. Actor Jeanne Tripplehorn is 58. Rock musician Jimmy Chamberlin is 57. Actor Ben Daniels is 57. Actor Kate Flannery is 57. Model-actor Elizabeth Hurley is 56. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE