A18 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, May 25, 2021 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Musician in multiple bands complicates scheduling needs FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: I am in a rock band apologized, I received one of them. with some friends. All of us are in Because she lacks understanding our 50s and 60s. We have been play- or the ability to forgive, a vitriolic ing together for the last three years. diatribe came my way. In her letter, Last year, our bass player joined she related past “unfortunate (in her another band (while staying in ours) opinion) ill behaviors on my part for because another friend was in it, but which I should be ashamed.” Then they broke up because of COVID. she ended a friendship we had for Jeanne Now that music venues are opening many years without trying to mend Phillips the relationship. This is very hurt- up again, he has joined yet another ADVICE ful for me, and I’m sure for others. group. I’m a loyal guy, and it bothers How does one respond, if at all, to me that he doesn’t seem as loyal to something like this? — Suffering in Michigan our band. He says he can easily do both, but Dear Suffering: One does not respond. for me, it causes booking issues because the other band will be blocking out dates that we One copes by recognizing that the only might be able to book. I see no other conflicts. person this unhappy woman is punishing He even asked if I was interested in joining is herself, as her circle of friends dimin- the other band, too, because he figured that if ishes and businesses around town no longer he can’t be in two places at once, it might as welcome her. Dear Abby: My wife recently asked well be both of us. Should we cut our losses and replace him? Loyalty is really important me if she could take off her wedding ring to us. — Rocking On in Texas in favor of wearing her mother’s, which is Dear Rocking On: Because you feel that much larger than the one I gave her. I regard loyalty is paramount and your friend may it as a lack of respect for our marriage, which have scheduling conflicts because of his has been under a lot of stress for a long time. participation with the other band(s), yes, he (No affairs.) I also view it as symbolic of should be replaced with a musician you can how much she has financially sacrificed being married to me. What do you think? — rely on. Dear Abby: I have a friend who feels Wondering in the East a need to correct the behavior of others by Dear Wondering: I “think” you should writing letters. There are not too many busi- tell your wife it would hurt you deeply if nesses around town that haven’t received she follows through, and why. I also think one of her letters and, no doubt, others in her the time has come for the two of you to talk circle of friends have, too. about what is “stressing” your marriage with After a misunderstanding for which I a licensed marriage and family therapist. DAYS GONE BY From the East Oregonian BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago May 25, 1921 Twenty five hundred copies of Col. Charles Wellington Furlong’s book “Let ’er Buck” were subscribed for at the Rotary Club luncheon today and this afternoon a commit- tee from the Commercial Association is endeavoring to underwrite the sale of 10,000 copies by Pendleton people. At the Rotary luncheon Bond Bros. ordered 500 copies of the book and the Thompson drug stores 1000 copies. The other business men pres- ent subscribed personally for another 1000 copies. Under the plan offered by the publish- ers a discount is offered that makes the sale of the books a commercial proposition and the view is held that the desired 10,000 copies may be sold here to local people and to Round-Up visitors. 50 Years Ago May 25, 1971 A wall of water rolled over much of Heppner from two directions Tuesday. Damage in this latest flood was much more extensive than in any past floods sine 1934. Possibly the 1903 flood will be the only one to out-strip yesterday’s rampage. People were warned by the flood siren about 30 minutes before the water struck, or there would have been more damage. Cars were ordered moved off both Chase and Main streets to higher ground. People were told to evacu- ate the lowlands. The water came from cloud bursts on Willow Creek and Balm Fork, which meet southeast of the town. Shobe Canyon, which flooded only 23 months ago, sweeping over much of the city, carried about the same amount of water Tuesday. 25 Years Ago May 25, 1996 The Heppner High School choir practices in a supply closet. Shoved into a dim, narrow space, several girls huddle around a piano as a volunteer coaxes them to sing. A closed door is all that separates them from the blast of a saxo- phone, flute, electric guitar and a pair of trum- pets in the high school band room. Yet another room contains three acoustic guitar players wedged into a practice area to strum chords. It’s not the best situation, but it’s the only one that works in a school that is trying to meet the musical needs of students in grades 7-12 who want to sing or play an instrument. Music lab is offered once a day and, some contend, is the last leg of a hobbled music program that is on the verge of petering out all together. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On May 25, 2020, George Floyd, a Black man, died when a white Minneapolis police officer pressed his knee on Floyd’s neck for about 9½ minutes while Floyd was handcuffed and pleading that he couldn’t breathe; Floyd’s death, captured on video by a bystander, would lead to worldwide protests, some of which turned violent, and a reexamination of racism and policing in the U.S. In 1787, the Constitu- tional Convention began at the Pennsylvania State House (Independence Hall) in Philadelphia after enough delegates had shown up for a quorum. In 1946, Transjordan (now Jordan) became a king- dom as it proclaimed its new monarch, Abdullah I. In 1959, the U.S. Supreme Court, in State Athletic Commission v. Dorsey, struck down a Louisiana law prohibiting interracial boxing matches. (The case had been brought by Joseph Dorsey Jr., a Black professional boxer.) In 1964, the U.S. Supreme Court, in Griffin v. County School Board of Prince Edward County, ordered the Virginia county to reopen its public schools, which offi- cials had closed in an attempt to circumvent the Supreme Court’s 1954 Brown v. Board of Education of Topeka desegregation ruling. In 1977, the first “Star Wars” film (later retitled “Star Wars: Episode IV — A New Hope”) was released by 20th Century Fox. In 1992, Jay Leno made his debut as host of NBC’s “Tonight Show,” succeeding Johnny Carson. In 2008, NASA’s Phoenix Mars Lander arrived on the Red Planet to begin search- ing for evidence of water; the spacecraft confirmed the presence of water ice at its landing site. In 2018, Harvey Wein- stein was charged in New York with rape and another sex felony in the first prose- cution to result from the wave of allegations against him; the once-powerful movie producer turned himself in to face the charges and was released on $1 million bail after a court appearance. (Weinstein was convicted of rape and sexual assault; he is serving a 23-year prison sentence.) Today’s Bir thdays: Actor Ann Robinson is 92. Country singer Jessi Colter is 78. Movie director and Muppeteer Frank Oz is 77. Actor Patti D’Arbanville is 70. Playwright Eve Ensler is 68. Sen. Amy Klobuchar, D-Minn., is 61. Actor-come- dian Mike Myers is 58. Actor Octavia Spencer is 51. Actor Molly Sims is 48. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE