A16 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, May 4, 2021 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Overbearing boyfriend ruins family get-togethers FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER Dear Abby: We get our children time, I have entertained the notion of keeping it and giving it to my future and grandchildren together twice a year. Our oldest daughter is divorced life partner, should I meet someone I and, unfortunately, has a significant care for that deeply. Your guidance other the rest of our family cannot would be greatly appreciated. — stand. He’s an arrogant, competitive Romancing the Stone know-it-all. Dear Romancing: Promise We have been around him only rings symbolize the promise of a Jeanne twice — the last two times the proposal of marriage. In the case Phillips of your former girlfriend, it didn’t family got together. The second ADVICE time was a disaster for the rest of us. pan out. Because the two of you still Should we tell her we don’t want to communicate, why not mention to her that you have the stone and ask invite him this year, and how do we if she would like to have it. If she says no, you say it? Or should we not tell her? — Tenta- tive in Florida can always offer it to someone else, although Dear Tentative: Talk to your daughter I can’t promise the lady will be eager to about this. When you do, have handy a list of receive a souvenir of a failed relationship. the ways he offended your family members Dear Abby: A friend of mine has a at the gathering. Her significant other may 70-pound dog that behaves badly. When I be so self-centered he doesn’t realize he’s visit her, it sprints out of the front door, bark- being obnoxious. ing, and jumps on my car. It has left 3½-inch- Ask her to ask him to dial back his need to long deep scratches on two of my vehicles. compete, impress, cover for his own insecu- She yells at it, and eventually the dog stops, but not before jumping on me and leaving me rity — whatever drives him. Then give him muddied and snagged. one more chance. If that fails, do not invite This friend is due to have a baby, and I am him again, and tell her why. You can always sure she will be inviting me over to meet the see your daughter separately, I assume, and baby soon. How can I avoid further damage so can her siblings. Dear Abby: I had a relationship with to my car and clothing without damaging my friendship? — Assaulted in Austin a wonderful woman for almost six years. Dear Assaulted: The obvious answer is During the course of our relationship, I purchased a rather expensive precious stone to find the courage to tell your friend you — exactly what she wanted — with the intent are willing to visit only if she confines her of giving it to her as a promise ring. (Neither dog so it won’t cause further damage to you of us are fans of the institution of marriage.) and your property. And while you are at it, We have since gone our separate ways, but mention that you are concerned about her we still communicate. baby’s safety. Her dog’s lack of discipline Because it was purchased for her, I am poses a distinct danger to her defenseless and tempted to give her the stone. At the same vulnerable little one. DAYS GONE BY From the East Oregonian GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago May 4, 1921 Don Chase, fireman at the Hammond mill, recently invented an elastic fishing line, which he claims will do away with the necessity of using a reel, as the line lengthens or shortens itself with the movement of the hooked fish, 25 yards of this elastic line being as good as 50 yards of the ordinary kind. Chase made an official test of his line on Big Creek Satur- day and aside from the fact that the line broke when he hooked the biggest fish that ever entered Big Creek, it worked fine. 50 Years Ago May 4, 1971 The Pendleton School Board Monday night approved a request to allow St. Joseph’s Academy students to attend Pendleton public schools on a half-day basis next year. Dr. Donald Smith, president of the St. Mary’s Parish Council, said there would be less sisters available next year and it would be necessary to hire three or four lay teachers unless the approximately 40 students could attend public schools. Classes at the public schools which would be attended by the St. Joseph’s students would include physical education, science and art. The students still would receive religion, English, math and other classes at the academy. 25 Years Ago May 4, 1996 Even though it was pretty much a given the Hermiston was going to sweep the less-tal- ented Mountain View Cougars in their Inter- mountain Conference softball doubleheader Friday afternoon, there still was a little suspense. Questions needed to be answered. Just how many hits could the Bulldogs get in a row? And how many hits would pitcher Katie Barnett surrender? The answers: 10 and none. The Bulldogs crushed the Cougars 16-0 and 11-0 as Barnett pitched two no-hitters. It was Barnett’s fourth and fifth no-hitters of the season and the first time in her career she has put up all zeroes in two games on the same day. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On May 4, 1961, the first group of “Freedom Riders” left Washington, D.C., to challenge racial segregation on interstate buses and in bus terminals. In 1626, Dutch explorer Peter Minuit landed on pres- ent-day Manhattan Island. In 1776, Rhode Island declared its freedom from England, two months before the Declaration of Indepen- dence was adopted. In 1886, at Haymarket Square in Chicago, a labor demonstration for an 8-hour work day turned into a deadly riot when a bomb exploded. In 1932, mobster Al Capone, convicted of income-tax evasion, entered the federal penitentiary in Atlanta. (Capone was later transferred to Alcatraz Island.) In 1942, the Battle of the Coral Sea, the first naval clash fought entirely with carrier aircraft, began in the Pacific during World War II. (The outcome was consid- ered a tactical victory for Japan, but ultimately a stra- tegic one for the Allies.) In 1945, during World War II, German forces in the Netherlands, Denmark and northwest Germany agreed to surrender. In 1959, the first Grammy Awards ceremony was held at the Beverly Hilton Hotel. Domenico Modugno won Record of the Year and Song of the Year for “Nel Blu Dipinto Di Blu (Volare)”; Henry Mancini won Album of the Year for “The Music from Peter Gunn.” In 1970, Ohio National Guardsmen opened fire during an anti-war protest at Kent State University, killing four students and wounding nine others. In 1998, Unabomber Theodore Kaczynski was given four life sentences plus 30 years by a federal judge in Sacramento, California, under a plea agreement that spared him the death penalty. In 2006, a federal judge sentenced Zacarias Mouss- aoui to life in prison for his role in the 9/11 attacks, tell- ing the convicted terrorist, “You will die with a whim- per.” In 2010, a Pakistani-born U.S. citizen was charged with terrorism and attempt- ing to use a weapon of mass destruction in the botched Times Square bombing. (Faisal Shahzad later pleaded guilty to plotting to set off the propane-and-gasoline bomb in an SUV and was sentenced to life in prison.) Today’s Birthdays: Kath- erine Jackson, matriarch of the Jackson musical family, is 91. Jazz musician Ron Carter is 84. Irish musician Darryl Hunt (The Pogues) is 71. Violinist Soozie Tyrell (Bruce Springsteen and the E Street Band) is 64. Actor Mary McDonough is 60. Comedian Ana Gasteyer is 54. Actor Will Arnett is 51. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE