A8 COFFEE BREAK East Oregonian Saturday, April 24, 2021 DEAR ABBY Dog walker gives neighbor the creeps Dear Abby: I am a 34-year-old woman. I live in a ground fl oor unit in an apartment complex with my terrier-collie mix, who is a very good judge of character. An elderly neighbor has a habit of walking his German shepherd by my unit. My dog does not like the man and barks ferociously every time he hears them. What unsettles me is that something seems off about him, and his behav- ior is becoming intrusive. The couple of times he has seen me outside, he has asked me if I live “all alone” or comments that he “hasn’t seen my boyfriend around in a long time.” He peers into my window when he walks and lingers, despite my growling and snarling dog. I tried closing the blinds, but now he comes to my door and knocks. I haven’t answered because he makes me feel unsafe. about your boyfriend’s absence, tell him your I want to confront him, but I’m not sure social life is none of his business. If it will make what to say. It’s also happening right you feel more secure, install secu- in front of the building I live in, which rity cameras in your apartment, and makes me nervous. What should I if you catch him peering into your do? — Wary in Washington windows again, tell him you have Dear Wary: The person you him on camera and you will report describe may be more lonely — or him not only to building manage- nosy — than dangerous. You can’t ment but also the police. stop someone from walking his dog Dear Abby: I’m a middle-aged woman needing to know what to do. past your front door if that is where JEANNE I have family members who say if I the exit is located. Talk to your other PHILLIPS weren’t around, things would be a lot neighbors and ask if he has a history ADVICE better. I was told from the beginning of doing this with them. that I was a “mistake.” I am wonder- If he knocks on your door again, tell him you are busy and don’t like being ing, should I stay hurt with them for saying disturbed and to stop doing it. If he asks any these things, or should I let it go? more personal questions or comments again They are always saying I will never amount to anything. When I say something to them about the way they make me feel, they tell me to be quiet and mind my own business. Should I tell them how I feel or what? — Devalued in the South Dear Devalued: A family member who would say something so cruel as what you have described is someone you should avoid contact with, if possible. It’s very import- ant that you spend time with people — other family members or friends — who help you to feel better about yourself rather than worse. Should you tell these family members how you feel? Ordinarily, I would say yes. However, because you have already done that, I don’t think it would enlighten them. Believe me, you have my sympathy because these relatives are toxic. DAYS GONE BY From the East Oregonian 100 Years Ago April 24, 1921 Heavy snow falling again in the Blue Mountains has made the Old Oregon Trail practically impassible between Meacham and the road from Hilgard east. Work of opening the highway for travel started last week by N.K. Olmstead demon- strating the Shawnee Power grader under the auspices of the Eastern Oregon Auto Club will continue this week through to La Grande. While cars are making the trip over the mountain, the road is reported in bad condition from Dead Man’s Pass to the bottom of California Gulch approaching La Grande. Of the 52 miles over the mountains, about half are hard to travel and the rest in fair condition. 50 Years Ago April 24, 1971 Despite near blizzard conditions Hermiston High School’s track team ran away from Redmond Friday, 81-55. “It snowed off and on throughout the meet, and when it wasn’t snowing the wind blew,” said Hermiston Coach Terry Boatman. Yet the Bulldogs got double wins from Rick Meyers, George Wells and Randy Kraut to whip the Panthers. Boatman said sprint times were slow because of the conditions but his own Glenn Counsell and Redmond’s Bob Berchtold ran head to head in both the 100-yard dash and the 220. Berchtold nipped Coun- sell in both but Counsell’s 220 time was his best of the season. 25 Years Ago April 24, 1996 Equipped with shovels and tree seedlings, boys from Homestead Youth Lodge in Pendleton did their part recently to restore a section of Two Mile Creek near Meacham. Working in teams and braced against rain and snow, the boys planted between 750 and 1,000 ponderosa pine and Douglas fi r trees along the stream, restoring its bank as it meanders through a mountain meadow. Years from now the work accomplished by the Homestead teens will pay off with vibrant fi sh habitat and clear, cold water shaded by tall evergreens. But directors at Homestead Youth Lodge say a more immediate payoff is encouraging a better lie for troubled kids. THIS DAY IN HISTORY On April 24, 1980, the United States launched an unsuccessful attempt to free the American hostages in Iran, a mission that resulted in the deaths of eight U.S. servicemen. In 18 0 0, Cong ress approved a bill establishing the Library of Congress. In 1877, federal troops were ordered out of New Orleans, ending the North’s post-Civil War rule in the South. In 1915, in what’s consid- ered the start of the Arme- nian genocide, the Ottoman Empire began rounding up Armenian political and cultural leaders in Constan- tinople. In 1960, rioting erupted in Biloxi, Mississippi, after Black protesters staging a “wade-in” at a whites-only beach were attacked by a crowd of hostile whites. In 1962, the Massachu- setts Institute of Technology achieved the first satellite relay of a television signal, between Camp Parks, Cali- fornia, and Westford, Massa- chusetts. In 1967, Soviet cosmo- naut Vladimir Komarov was killed when his Soyuz 1 spacecraft smashed into the Earth after his parachutes failed to deploy properly during reentry; he was the fi rst human spacefl ight fatal- ity. In 1974, comedian Bud Abbott, 78, died in Woodland Hills, California. In 2003, U.S. forces in Iraq took custody of Tariq Aziz, the former Iraqi deputy prime minister. China shut down a Beijing hospital as the global death toll from SARS surpassed 260. In 2005, Pope Benedict XVI formally began his stewardship of the Roman Catholic Church; the former Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger said in his installation homily that as pontiff he would listen to the will of God in govern- ing the world’s 1.1 billion Catholics. In 2009, Mexico shut dow n schools, muse - ums, libraries and state- run theaters across its overcrowded capital in hopes of containing a deadly swine fl u outbreak. In 2013, in Bangladesh, a shoddily constructed 8-story commercial building housing garment factories collapsed, killing more than 1,100 people. In 2019, avowed racist John William King was executed in Texas for the 1998 slaying of James Byrd Jr., who was chained to the back of a truck and dragged along a road outside Jasper, Texas; prosecutors said Byrd was targeted because he was Black. Today’s Bir thdays: Movie director-producer Richard Donner is 91. Actor Shirley MacLaine is 87. Actor-singer-direc- tor Barbra Streisand is 79. R&B singer Ann Peebles is 74. Actor Michael O’Keefe is 66. Rock musician David J (Bauhaus) is 64. Actor Glenn Morshower is 62. Rock musician Billy Gould is 58. Actor-comedian Cedric the Entertainer is 57. Actor Stacy Haiduk is 53. Latin pop singer Alejandro Fernandez is 50. Country-rock musi- cian Brad Morgan (Drive-By Truckers) is 50. Rock musi- cian Brian Marshall (Creed; Alter Bridge) is 48. Actor Derek Luke is 47. Actor-pro- ducer Thad Luckinbill is 46. Actor Eric Balfour is 44. Actor Rebecca Mader is 44. Country singer Rebecca Lynn Howard is 42. Country singer Danny Gokey is 41. Actor Reagan Gomez is 41. CHURCH Featured this Week: DIRECTORY Community Worship Our Lady of Angels Catholic Church 565 W. HERMISTON AVE. Iglesia Católica Nuestra Señora de los Ángeles 565 W. HERMISTON AVE. First United Methodist Church Pendleton 210 NW 9th St. Pendleton Oregon (Peace Lutheran Church) Sunday worship 8:30pm 541-276-2616 Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Doors Patty Nance, pastor Redeemer Episcopal Church 241 SE Second St. Pendleton (541)276-3809 www.pendletonepiscopal.org The Salvation Army Center for Worship & Service Sunday Worship Service 9:30 - Sunday School 10:30 - Worship Service Wednesday Bible Study 5:30 Family Fellowship Meal • 6:00 Bible Study COME AS YOU ARE 150 SE Emigrant • (541) 276-3369 The Salvation Army Center for Worship & Service Sunday Worship Service 9:30 - Sunday School 10:30 - Worship Service Wednesday Bible Study ok - 9 a.m er Pendle t a s y Sunday Holy Communion da un edeem 9:00 a.m. live S of the R Wednesday Holy ming ch Communion Noon Strea pal Chur o Episc 5:30 Family Fellowship Meal • 6:00 Bible Study Sunday Mornings COME AS YOU ARE 1st Service: 8:30am 2nd Service: 10:30am Community Presbyterian Church PENDLETON LIGHTHOUSE CHURCH cebo M-F Morning Prayer at . 7:00 on Fa a.m. ton All Are Welcome 150 SE Emigrant (541) 276-3369 Includes Children’s Services 201 SW Dorion Ave. PendletonPresbyterian.com Worship Services On Facebook 10:00am Sundays Facebook.com/PendletonPresbyterian 108 S. 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Box 1108 Hermiston, Oregon 97838 FAITH LUTHERAN CHURCH PendletonFaithCenter.com “A Come as You are Church” OPEN HEARTS – OPEN DOOR www.graceandmercylutheran.org Sunday Worship 8:45 a.m. Sunday School 10:00 a.m. (Nursery Provided) Fellowship, Refreshments & Sunday School Check Out our Facebook Page or Website for More Information ONLINE and IN-PERSON SERVICES S U N D AYS 541.276.1894 | 10:00AM | 712 SW 27TH ST. www.pendletoncog.com love God, love people, and make disciples who make disciples in Mission for Christ LCMC Sunday Worship.........9:00 AM Bible Study......10:15 AM Red Lion Hotel ( Oregon Trail Room ) 14 Martin Drive, Umatilla, OR 922-3250 Worship: 10 AM Sunday School at 11:30 Solid Rock Community Church 140 SW 2nd St Hermiston, OR 97838 541-567-6937 Worship Service: 11:00AM Sunday School: 9:45 Pastor Wilbur Clark Sunday Service: 9am & 6pm Tuesday Kingdom Seekers: 7pm Wednesday Bible Study: 7pm Also Live Stream at PendletonFirst.com SundayEvenings Celebrate Recovery: 6:00 We offer: Sunday School • Sign Language Wednesday Evenings Interpreters • Nursery • Transportation • & more! 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