Tuesday, April 6, 2021 PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK East Oregonian A15 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Unguarded comment may cause brothers to break permanently FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER Dear Abby: I am a senior male. you. He is doing what emotionally I understand I may have some healthy people do, erasing a nega- tive influence from his life. You beliefs that others find old-fash- ioned. However, I consciously try can continue trying to apologize by to be tolerant of others’ feelings penning a heartfelt letter of apology and beliefs. That said, my problem and remorse, promising to never use is with my younger brother, who is those words again, and sending it a homosexual. I have always tried to your brother. But if he continues to ignore that side of his life and, to be unreceptive, you will have to Jeanne consequently, we have always had live with it. Phillips a good relationship. He lives in Dear Abby: I met a man online ADVICE another state, so we only talk on the seven months ago. We hit it off right away. I checked to make sure he telephone. A couple of months ago while we wasn’t a “catfisher” and everything were talking, the subject of sexuality came checked out. We talk on the phone at least up, and I told him I find the fact that he is gay twice a day, Facebook Messenger and video “disgusting.” I know it was a poor choice of chat. He sent me a card for my birthday along with some money. words. I merely meant to say that I, myself, I have developed strong feelings for him, am and always have been totally heterosex- ual. I have never had any sexual interest in and he has told me he loves me. He has told members of my own sex. I never meant my me many times he wants to meet, but we couldn’t do it because of the pandemic. He’s comment to be judgmental of my brother or a jewelry designer trying to get his business anyone else. I left several messages apologizing for back up before he loses it. He’s afraid to lose anything I said that he found objectionable. everything. Now, when I try to contact him, he doesn’t I don’t know what to do. Should I keep answer my phone calls. waiting or just stay friends with him? We Abby, I miss my brother. I truly love him, really care about each other, but circum- and I don’t want to lose all contact with him. stances prevent us from meeting. — Broken- hearted in New York If you have any advice for me, please give it to me. I’m desperate and can think of nothing Dear Brokenhearted: Because “circum- I might be able to do to restore our relation- stances” prevent you from meeting this man ship. Please help me. — Feels Like A Fool in in person, try hard to regain your balance Washington and stay friends. Although you think you Dear Feels Like: I have never understood know him, until you finally meet in person, why so many straight people spend so much you really don’t. Even if you confirmed he time obsessing about what gay people might works in jewelry design, he may still be be doing behind closed doors. That, to me, hiding something from you. Often when a is disgusting. significant other keeps making excuses not to meet, there’s a good reason for it and not I’ll be frank. After what you said to your brother, he would have to be a saint to forgive always what you want to hear. DAYS GONE BY From the East Oregonian GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS 100 Years Ago April 6, 1921 Whether work on the Cold Springs road, in Umatilla county, should start at the river or at the Pendleton end is a subject for controversy. Farmers want the road started from the river, so that they can truck their wheat to the boats and ship by water to the markets. Pendleton people want the work started from Pendleton, as this will bring business into the town. There isn’t enough money in sight at this time to complete the road, so one end or the other is bound to be disappointed. 50 Years Ago April 6, 1971 Approximately 80 Safeway employes in Baker, Enterprise and La Grande went on strike today, joining 60 Safeway employes who struck stores in Hermiston and Pendleton last Thursday. The employes are all members of Retail Clerks Union Local 1612, which seeks parity with wages paid to Safeway employes in the Tri-Cities area of Eastern Washing- ton. Other major grocery stores in Pendleton, Hermiston and Umatilla have locked out union clerks. All stores are continuing operation with supervisory personnel and nonunion workers. 25 Years Ago April 6, 1996 Next school year, Renae Schuening’s students will learn about depths of man’s inhumanity to man from someone who has seen the evidence first hand. Schuening, who teaches social studies to sixth, seventh and eighth graders at the Helix School, is one of 45 American teachers who received a teaching fellowship from the New York-based Jewish Labor Committee. The fellowship is to study Jewish history with an emphasis on the Zionist Movement of the late 19th and 20th centuries, the Holocaust, and the founding of the State of Israel. BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On April 6, 1909, Ameri- can explorers Robert E. Peary and Matthew A. Henson and four Inuits became the first men to reach the North Pole. In 1862, the Civil War Battle of Shiloh began in Tennessee as Confederate forces launched a surprise attack against Union troops, who beat back the Confeder- ates the next day. In 1886, the Canadian city of Vancouver, British Colum- bia, was incorporated. In 1896, the first modern Olympic games formally opened in Athens, Greece. In 1917, the United States entered World War I as the House joined the Senate in approving a declaration of war against Germany that was then signed by President Woodrow Wilson. In 1945, during World War II, the Japanese warship Yamato and nine other vessels sailed on a suicide mission to attack the U.S. fleet off Okinawa; the fleet was intercepted the next day. In 1954, Sen. Joseph R. McCarthy, R-Wis., respond- ing to CBS newsman Edward R. Murrow’s broadside against him on “See It Now,” said in remarks filmed for the program that Murrow had, in the past, “engaged in propaganda for Communist causes.” In 1968, 41 people were killed by two consecutive natural gas explosions at a sporting goods store in downtown Richmond, Indi- ana. In 1974, Swedish pop group ABBA won the Euro- vision Song Contest held in Brighton, England, with a performance of the song “Waterloo.” In 1985, William J. Schroeder became the first artificial heart recipient to be discharged from the hospital as he moved into an apartment in Louisville, Kentucky. In 2008, Democratic pres- idential candidate Barack Obama, speaking at a private fundraiser in San Francisco, spoke of voters in Pennsylva- nia’s Rust Belt communities who “cling to guns or reli- gion” because of bitterness about their economic lot; Democratic rival Hillary Rodham Clinton seized on the comment, calling it “elit- ist.” In 2017, Don Rickles, the big-mouthed, bald-headed “Mr. Warmth” whose verbal assaults endeared him to audiences and peers and made him the acknowl- edged grandmaster of insult comedy, died at his Beverly Hills home at age 90. Today’s Bir thdays: Nobel Prize-winning scien- tist James D. Watson is 93. Actor Billy Dee Williams is 84. Movie director Barry Levinson is 79. Olympic bronze medal figure skater Janet Lynn is 68. Actor Paul Rudd is 52. Actor Zach Braff is 46. Jazz and R&B musician Robert Glasper is 43. Actor Eliza Coupe is 40. Actor Charlie McDermott is 31. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE