A14 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, April 1, 2021 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ New wife can’t stop thinking about husband’s old girlfriend FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER Dear Abby: I’m a young wife. Dear Inbox Full: Your friend I married after three months of may be sending these items because, dating my military husband. He was as a retiree, he has little to do but previously in an on-again/off-again cruise the internet for entertain- relationship that lasted about eight ment. It would not be rude to tell this years, during which she had a baby not-so-close friend you don’t have time to review all of the emails he with another man, etc. I believe my husband is still in love with her. has been sending and ask him to send fewer. It’s the truth. However, After constantly asking him, he Jeanne says he just wishes her well and he if he doesn’t comply and the barrage Phillips continues, feel free to block them or doesn’t have any romantic feelings. ADVICE I’m not sure what to do, and I just create a filter for these emails that keep overthinking it. Any thoughts? sends them to a folder where they — Hate’s Husband’s History can be easily scanned and deleted. Dear H.H.H.: Stop torturing your Dear Abby: My husband of 32 years often husband — and yourself — by constantly tells me women compliment him on his looks asking him about his feelings for his unfaith- or the way he dresses. I compliment him ful ex-girlfriend. Get to work building your often, but I think it’s his way of telling me that he’s still “got it” and I should be proud to self-esteem, and you will have less to worry about. Your husband’s history (baggage) is have a husband who’s hot and good-looking. his own. You are making a mistake by drag- Am I crazy for not enjoying hearing ging it into your marriage. If you concen- what other women think? If anything, it has trate on the positive, you will have a happier caused some insecurity on my part. I have asked him to stop sharing these comments marriage, and so will your husband. Dear Abby: Shortly after a retired, and told him I’m tired of hearing them — not-so-close friend moved to another city, especially since I have told him repeatedly he began sending emails about events he had what I think of him, his looks and his way of read about in social media, news outlets and dressing. Am I wrong? — Loves Him Inside magazines. At first there were only a few And Out a day, but as the days increased, so did his Dear Loves Him: I don’t think you’re emails. I responded to some of them, but he wrong. But has it occurred to you that never commented on them. He just sent more your husband may do this not out of ego and more to the point that his daily emails but because he is insecure? People who are are more than I can — or want to — read. I secure within themselves do not feel the need am spending too much time deleting them. to continually toot their own horns the way What should I do? Should I ask him not to your handsome, stylish husband does. Try send them anymore, or should I stay quiet this: The next time he does it, smile, nod in so as not to hurt his feelings? — Inbox Full agreement and tell him you agree with his admirer. And repeat as necessary. in Missouri DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE From the East Oregonian 100 Years Ago April 1, 1921 A $15,000 pipe organ, a Wurlitzer Hope- Jones of the same type as that installed in Gramman’s million dollar theatre in Los Angeles, has been contracted for the new motion picture theatre which will be built on Main street for occupancy about Septem- ber 1. Excavation of the building has already begun and later the two buildings which now house the Gem shop, cigar store and meat market will be torn down in preparation for the construction work. The building will have a 50 foot frontage, a full basement and a balcony. The structure of brick will cost about $40,000 and will have a seating capac- ity of 800. While primarily a motion picture theatre, the building will be equipped for vaudeville performances also. There will be a 20 foot tiled entrance, with a store building on either side. A large lobby and rostrum will be features, and the heating and ventilating systems will be strictly modern. 50 Years Ago April 1, 1971 Steer busting is “a brutal exploitation of animals for profit,” a Heppner woman told the Fish and Game Committee of the Oregon House today. Forty-four other states have outlawed the practice. At present it is conducted in Oregon only at the Pendle- ton Round-Up. In steer busting, a rodeo performer tosses a rope around the horns of TODAY IN HISTORY BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN a running animal, loops the rope around the flanks of the steer and trips it. Representatives of the Round-Up testified that injury is rare and that the animals are well cared for. Jiggs Fisk, livestock director of the show, said out of 250 rides in the event by cowboys, five horns were broken and one steer suffered a broken leg. A representative of the Animal Defenders League at the hearing produced a letter from Gov. Tom McCall in which he said he would work to ban the “brutal and offensive” sport. 25 Years Ago April 1, 1996 It’s the end of an era. The Burger Barn, that bastion of ‘50s-style car hop hep, milk shakes and bite-size hamburgers, has closed. “Kids used to get out of their cars and mill around,” said Erlaine Hajek, 57, who bought the restaurant with her husband, Frank, in 1967 when it was an A&W. Hajek unex- pectedly received an offer from the owner of Courtesy Appliance and with hesitation decided to sell the property. And so furni- ture, freezers and dishwashers will take the place of french fry baskets, root beer vats and milk shake mixers. Hajek continued the A&W tradition of mixing her own root beer even after the restaurant went independent in 1985, and customers still waited in their cars for car hops to deliver their food. Some things had changed with the time, however. A double burger zoomed from 60 cents to $2.45 during the past 30 years. On April 1, 1954, the United States Air Force Academy was established by President Dwight D. Eisen- hower. In 1945, American forces launched the amphibious invasion of Okinawa during World War II. (U.S. forces succeeded in capturing the Japanese island on June 22.) In 1970, President Rich- ard M. Nixon signed a measure banning cigarette advertising on radio and tele- vision, to take effect after Jan. 1, 1971. In 1972, the first Major League Baseball players’ strike began; it lasted 12 days. In 1975, with Khmer Rouge guerrillas closing in, Cambodian President Lon Nol resigned and fled into exile, spending the rest of his life in the United States. In 1976, Apple Computer was founded by Steve Jobs, Steve Wozniak and Ronald Wayne. In 1977, the U.S. Senate followed the example of the House of Representatives by adopting, 86-9, a strin- gent code of ethics requiring full financial disclosure and limits on outside income. In 1984, Marvin Gaye was shot to death by his father, Marvin Gay Sr. in Los Angeles, the day before the recording star’s 45th birthday. (The elder Gay pleaded guilty to voluntary manslaughter and received probation.) In 1987, in his first speech on the AIDS epidemic, Pres- ident Ronald Reagan told doctors in Philadelphia, “We’ve declared AIDS public health enemy no. 1.” In 1992, the National Hockey League Players’ Association went on its first- ever strike, which lasted 10 days. Today’s Bir thdays: Actor Jane Powell is 92. Actor Annette O’Toole is 69. Singer Susan Boyle is 60. Rapper-actor Method Man is 50. Political commentator Rachel Maddow is 48. Singer Bijou Phillips is 41. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE