A14 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, December 8, 2020 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Sitter’s pushy granddaughter is a concern for working mom FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER Dear Abby: Because my hus- ted me back saying Drew can work band and I work, I take our 6-month- as much as he wants! He also said old to a sitter several times a week. Drew hasn’t worked full time since he started working there. I understand little ones tend to be Well, Drew got mad at me and mean sometimes — hitting, biting left. I still love him. I thought he was and pushing — but in this case, it’s a my soul mate. Should I keep wish- little different. ing we could get back together? — My sitter cares for her 3-year-old Feeling Lifeless granddaughter as well as her clients’ J eanne Dear Feeling Lifeless: No! In a children, and her granddaughter P hilliPs sense, you were taken for a ride, and pushes the littler ones. I have seen ADVICE I’m not talking about four-wheel- her push a 1-year-old down. I have ers. Your next soul mate should be never observed any of the other chil- dren do it, only the granddaughter. someone who is completely hon- est and, preferably, fully employed. Drew is I wouldn’t be so worried if my daughter neither. were 2 and could defend herself, but she’s Dear Abby: I have been remarried for only 6 months old. She is crawling, sitting up four years to a wonderful man who treats me and standing already, and I’m gravely wor- ried the girl will harm my infant. I don’t want like a queen. However, he and my 18-year- my baby ending up with a head injury. What old daughter dislike each other, which causes can I do to try to resolve this? — Deeply a huge amount of stress and conflict. They Concerned in the South fight, and I’m stuck in the middle. I don’t Dear Deeply Concerned: Talk to the know what I can do to resolve this problem. I love them both with all my heart! — Desper- sitter about your concerns. Ask if it is pos- sible to keep the older girl separate from ate For Peace the younger ones, however, the only way to Dear Desperate: I wish you had men- tioned why your husband dislikes your be absolutely certain your little one is safe daughter and vice versa. Is he overbearing would be to change babysitters. and trying to parent her? That is your job, not Dear Abby: I made a friend on Facebook. his. “Drew” and I texted through Messenger, and Your daughter is no longer 14. At 18, she I went to ride four-wheelers with him one is now considered to be an adult, and because day. We hit it off great. We started dating, the “combatants” are both adults, they should and he moved in with me for a few months. act like it, be civil and refrain from turning In the beginning, Drew didn’t mention their disagreements into open warfare. Your he was working only part time. After he told mistake has been allowing yourself to be me he had been moved to part time, I told placed in the middle. A better solution would him he needed to tell his boss he needed full be to get family counseling if your daughter time or a different job. I wrote a comment plans to continue to live with you. to that effect on their page, and his boss tex- DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE DILBERT BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE BY SCOTT ADAMS 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 8, 1920 The present squeeze in the grain mar- ket is due to the fact that no wheat is mov- ing into the primary markets, according to W. L. Thompson, president of the Amer- ican National Bank, who while in town to look after interests here told the East Ore- gonian: “The policy of buying from hand to mouth, for filling only immediate needs, has to a large extent taken out of the wheat market all the larger mills of the country.” Mr. Thompson said farmers can help them- selves and the grain business in general by taking up the “Buy a Barrel of Flour” move- ment. With the movement county, state and nation-wide, mills would soon be obliged to get into the wheat market for supplies and thus would encourage the farmers to sell at a profitable price. The farm bureau on Sat- urday urged all its members and all farmers in the county to get behind the movement by buying a barrel of flour for their own use. Households in Pendleton likewise are urged to lay in their supplies of flour at once. A barrel of flour constitutes but 196 pounds and the retail price at present is around the $10 mark. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 8, 1970 You might think of cougar hunting as man’s work but don’t say so in front of Deb- bie Edwards. The Pendleton girl — she’s only 13 — bagged a cougar last week. She is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Edwards, Route 1. Debbie was one of the few lucky hunters in Oregon to draw a cou- gar tag this year. Saturday she, her father, and neighbor Jerry Mils loaded up their dogs and drove to the Big Canyon Creek country about 40 miles west from Enter- prise on a scouting trip. They had planned to talk to ranchers and others and select an area to hunt in later. But they found fresh tracks across the road and turned the dogs loose. The dogs treed a female weighing 85 pounds and Debbie killed the big cat with shots from an M-1 carbine. This is Deb- bie’s first year of hunting. No, she didn’t get a buck. But with a cougar rug on the floor, could she ask for more? 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 8, 1995 Last week’s flooding may have caused more than water damage to area homes. It also is suspected of contaminating the city’s drinking water with infectious bacteria. City officials recommended Thursday that the public boil water for drinking or cook- ing to lessen the threat of fecal coliform bacteria, which was discovered in the area’s water system a day earlier. That recommen- dation was lifted Friday morning after city officials announced that an extra dose of chlorine had killed existing bacteria. Within hours of the notification Thursday afternoon local grocery stores were packed with cus- tomers carting home cases of water. Bottled water in the gallon size was snapped up and quickly sold out at Albertson’s and Safeway once word began spreading about the con- tamination problem. Albertson’s grocery manager said the water was gone before the announcement “even hit the radio.” In the last 20 years, this type of contamination has happened three times, and each time it was due to flooding. TODAY IN HISTORY THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Dec. 8, 1941, the United States entered World War II as Congress declared war against Imperial Japan, a day after the attack on Pearl Harbor. In 1886, the American Federation of Labor was founded in Columbus, Ohio. In 1949, the Chinese Nationalist government moved from the Chinese mainland to Formosa as the Communists pressed their attacks. In 1991, AIDS patient Kimberly Bergalis, who had contracted the disease from her dentist, died in Fort Pierce, Fla., at age 23. In 2012, Pakistan’s presi- dent visited a British hospital where a 15-year-old school- girl, Malala Yousafzai, was being treated after being shot in the head by a Taliban gunman in October. In 2014, the U.S. and NATO ceremonially ended their combat mission in Afghanistan, 13 years after the Sept. 11 terror attacks sparked their invasion of the country to topple the Tali- ban-led government. Today’s Birthdays: Flut- ist James Galway is 81. Actor Mary Woronov is 77. Actor Kim Basinger is 67. Rock musician Phil Collen (Def Leppard) is 63. Actor Teri Hatcher is 56. Singer Sinead O’Connor (AKA Shuhada’ Davitt) is 54. Rock singer Ingrid Michaelson is 41. Actor Hannah Ware is 38. NHL defenseman Drew Doughty is 31. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE