ANDREW CUTLER Publisher/Editor KATHRYN B. BROWN Owner WYATT HAUPT JR. News Editor JADE McDOWELL Hermiston Editor TUESDAy, NOVEMBER 24, 2020 A4 Founded October 16, 1875 OUR VIEW The road to unity is a two-way street R ecounts and legal challenges not- withstanding, it appears Joe Biden will be president on Jan. 20, 2021. In declaring victory, the former vice pres- ident made the obligatory call for unity. That’s always a tall order, particularly in a deeply divided country after such a bitter campaign. As the victor, it falls to Biden to reach across the divide. He has his work cut out for him. Farmers and ranchers largely supported President Trump, but that support in rural areas was not unanimous or homogenous. Even among supporters it’s not uncom- mon to hear frank discussions of the presi- dent’s shortcomings — both in policy and manners. The president delivered on his promise to reduce government regulation, most nota- bly in reversing the controversial “Waters of the U.S.” rule. Farmers and ranchers have mostly benefited from the 2017 tax reforms. His record on trade was a mixed bag. His on-again, off-again trade war with China had a huge impact on farmers, but eventu- ally there came an agreement that at least in spirit benefits ag. His imposition of puni- tive tariffs on Mexico and Canada even as he announced a replacement for the North American Free Trade Agreement led to retaliatory duties on farm products. There are bilateral agreements with Japan and South Korea. Many in agriculture are wary that Biden’s election will signal a return to policies that gave them pause during the Obama admin- istration. They have not been comforted by environmental and economic policies pro- moted by the more radical factions of his party. What can the former vice president do to calm farmers and ranchers in the red inte- rior? We have a couple of suggestions. • Show up. Trump addressed the Ameri- can Farm Bureau Federation’s national con- vention three times during his term and addressed the FFA’s convention once. Three previous administrations had let surrogates handle these events. Whether the next gatherings are virtual events or live, farmers and ranchers will want to hear about policy proposals directly from President Biden. • Listen. Trump’s critics say he doesn’t listen to people with opposing views. During the Obama administration, farmers and ranchers didn’t think they had a seat at the table and didn’t think they were being heard. They did think they were being spo- ken down to. In such a deeply divided country, Biden can’t repeat the mistakes of his predecessors. • Reject the demonization of those with different views. It has become too easy to dismiss those with whom we disagree with pejorative and inflammatory labels — bigot, homophobe, socialist, commie, misogynist, Nazi. Most of us, right or left, hold no animus toward our fellow citizens. Name calling is no substitute for discussion. Biden struck the right tone last week. “To make progress, we must stop treating our opponents as our enemy,” Biden said. “We are not enemies. We are Americans.” We agree. We urge Biden to deliver on his promise to bring the country together. But that will also require those who opposed his election to give him the benefit of the doubt. Judge his actions, not the campaign rhetoric. Celebrating life’s difficult journeys REGINA BRAKER ANOTHER MILE T here was cheesecake on the picnic table to celebrate LaNora’s birth- day, with knitting friends in the Pioneer Park sheltered area wishing her well. One asked if she minded telling her age, and she answered, “Route 66.” Usu- ally one of the quiet ones in the group, she prefers a side conversation while oth- ers live up to their reputation as “rowdy knitters.” My knitting buddy, LaNora is an expert at lace and open-work knitting, patterns that often include elements rated at high difficulty. I’m always surprised at how quickly she progresses on a proj- ect from week to week. I wonder if she enjoys the introspective and therapeutic rhythms that knitting offers, along with the feeling of accomplishment and gen- erosity in completing a piece intended for someone she treasures. In a recent conversation, when I asked how her week had been, she said it had been hard. She told me about a trip to Wallowa County to attend two funer- als, and mentioned one being a “good” funeral, while the other one was diffi- cult. One for a family friend, a gentle- man of advanced years, his memorial ser- vice was a celebration of a long life rich in experiences. But the second was for a very young cousin, taken far too early in a terrible accident. We talked a bit more about how difficult these kinds of fam- ily gatherings are now, but so much more important for us to find our way, however possible, to support one another. LaNora has a deep understanding of the fragility of life, having experienced a difficult cancer journey through ovarian and uterine cancer, and found the strength of spirit that sustains life. Last December, as we were finishing up a knitting session at our favorite local brewpub, she told me and another friend her story. Sixteen years ago, after caring for her mother at the end of her life, LaNora was confronted three months after her moth- er’s death with her own need for care. A doctor’s visit, due to some irritation and a muscle in her right arm that snapped, resulted in tests that brought a diabetes diagnosis. Her blood work prompted fur- ther exploratory tests. At age 50, LaNora found out that she was on a cancer journey, with treatment choices of surgery in Pendleton and che- motherapy in Walla Walla, Washing- ton, complicated by the need to monitor her diabetes. In the course of her sur- gery, it was found that she was in danger of a ruptured appendix, necessitating an immediate response. What was scheduled as a 2½-hour operation turned into seven more hours. And then she had to recover, in order to begin the chemotherapy, with an exercise trainer and massage thera- pist donated by the Spirit Program (also known as Kick’n Cancer) at the Roundup Athletic Club. LaNora’s cancer detour began in July 2004 with her last treatment in April 2005, but she had already gained some familiarity with parts of it. When I asked her about the support she received, she talked about other family members shar- ing their cancer stories and the amazing sensitivity of the medical staff. While waiting for her first oncology appoint- ment with her husband, LaNora was approached by the phlebotomist who later did her blood draws. This woman had seen them accompany patients pre- viously to Walla Walla, and asked, “Who did you bring today?” When she heard it was LaNora coming for treatment, she was taken aback, her face filling with emotion. And yet, LaNora emphasized her good humor through it all as she recounted the details. She laughed when she referred to her marathon surgery bringing her a “great remodeling job.” Yes, she expe- rienced full hair loss, neuropathy, and foggy brain, and said that chemo wiped her out, but she remembers walking a lot, saying “at the time I didn’t think it was that bad.” It helped to have church friends who drove her to Walla Walla and donated gas money, and supportive extended family. In her 15th cancer-free year, LaNora still gives back to local support programs, though now more difficult to carry out. With some folks fearful due to the coro- navirus, I’m grateful she’s here to advo- cate for checkups for anything unusual, knowing how serious it can be. ——— Regina Braker, a retired educa- tor with journeys through many places and experiences, enjoys getting to know people along the way. Indeed, one might say that learning how to lose is a more important lesson than learning how to win. Terry Templeman Pendleton a good general, a point that was made in these pages recently. It is also true that Erwin Rommel was a good general. So what? This only goes to show that the bad guys are sometimes skilled at command- ing troops. Lee’s skill as a general does not excuse the fact that he defended slav- ery, which is a morally abhorrent position that is wrong now and has always been wrong. There is no place for the names of Con- federates in Pendleton. I propose that the city make a replacement stamp featuring Joshua Walker’s name. Show that Pendle- ton is home to brave and just people. Strand Sheldahl-Thomason Warrenton YOUR VIEWS Learning to lose an important lesson Vince Lombardi once said, “Winning isn’t everything, it’s the only thing.” This is apparently how some football coaches view the world, but lately it seems that many Americans have adopted Vince’s view of life. The old maxim “It’s not whether you win or lose, it’s how you play the game” is no longer in fashion. Another habit of speech that seems to have taken over in the past four years is the conversion of verbs, such as “win- ning” and “losing,” into proper nouns, such as winners and losers. Of course every contest, from athletics to bake- offs to political elections, is designed so that someone must win and others must lose. Otherwise, the contest would never be over. But winning and losing are not really character traits. Everybody occa- sionally wins and loses something or other. The act of winning or losing says very little about what kind of person you are. Because no one ever wins or loses all the time, we should probably pity the person who defines himself or herself as a win- ner or loser. Defining yourself as a winner only sets you up for shame when you lose. Defining yourself as a loser only keeps you from trying to do your best. Stamp destruction an act of bravery I grew up in Pendleton, and I’m writ- ing to commend Pendleton resident Joshua Walker for breaking a sidewalk stamp commemorating the president of the Confederacy. That act of destruction was a brave act and it was the right thing to do. Mayor John Turner’s reaction that Walker tried to “rewrite history” is com- pletely wrong. Walker’s act has nothing to do with rewriting history and every- thing to do with recognizing history. Walker recognized that Jefferson Davis was a vile figure from one of America’s darkest moments, and he reacted appro- priately to seeing Davis’ name celebrated. People like Jefferson Davis and Robert E. Lee should be remembered for what they were and the evil that they fought to pro- tect. Their names should in no way be cel- ebrated, and especially not in Pendleton, a town to which they have no historical connection. It may be true that Robert E. Lee was Stamp destruction was childish In response to “Resident breaks Con- federate stamp …”: another childish act of vandalism/temper tantrum from a lefty; how unsurprising. Justice in this case would call for the perp to repair the damage with his own money — and labor. As for “Say Her Name Breonna Tay- lor” … how about “Cannon Hinnant Say His Name.” John Kaufman Pendleton EDITORIALS Unsigned editorials are the opinion of the East Oregonian editorial board. Other columns, letters and cartoons on this page express the opinions of the authors and not necessarily that of the East Oregonian. letters that address concerns about individual services and products or letters that infringe on the rights of private citizens. Letters must be signed by the author and include the city of residence and a daytime phone number. The phone number will not be published. Unsigned letters will not be published. 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