B6 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Wednesday, January 8, 2020 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Sister gets more of man’s time than his wife and kids FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS Dear Abby: I don’t know how to chased a second home very close to handle this. My husband of 29 years our son. The problem is, the home is located within a nudist colony spends more time with his sister and and, therefore, we assume they her family than he does with me and are in fact nudists. Should this be our children. If I say anything about a problem for us (we are both 70), it, he jumps all over me, defending or should we not be concerned? — her. He says she doesn’t have any- Wondering in the South one to help her. But Abby, she has J eanne Dear Wondering: I don’t think two grown sons and a husband she P hilliPs there is anything to be worried recently decided to divorce. ADVICE about. If you are concerned that I think his relationship with his your grandson will “see” some- sister is weird, and other people thing shocking, please know that he have said they think so, too. One can find whatever he is curious about on his person even called it creepy. When I told computer or cellphone. However, if you are my husband I thought it was a weird rela- tionship, he yelled at me. I can no longer worried that either of you will be forced to talk about his sister with him; it’s off limits. view or participate in nude activities when Please help. — Only The Wife you visit your son, all you have to say is, Dear Only The Wife: Has your husband “I think we’ll stay at a nearby hotel, thank you.” always been close to this sister? It may be Dear Abby: I recently attended a wed- the reason he is spending time with her. I’m ding and was videotaped while I was danc- sure she wouldn’t be divorcing her husband ing. I was shown the tape later at a fam- if the marriage had been a bed of roses, and ily gathering. I’m not a great dancer, and she may need private time with her brother I looked silly, so I asked that the video be to help her detoxify. deleted. Instead, it was passed around and That said, that he spends more time with everyone laughed and made fun of me. It his sister than with you and the children is was embarrassing and hurtful. unusual. It makes me wonder about the state My husband says I’m overreacting. Am of your own marriage. If there is stress and I? I said nothing and don’t intend to, but I tension the two of you can’t resolve together, can’t get it out of my mind. — Dancing Fool you may need to consult a licensed marriage in Ohio and family therapist. Dear Dancing Fool: Your feelings are Dear Abby: Our 47-year-old son remar- ried two years ago. We have a 15-year-old your feelings. Nobody wants to be made fun grandson from his previous marriage who of. But you have two choices: The first is to lives with his mom and who visits his dad continue to stew about it. The second is to every other weekend. We are not close with join in the laughter, admit you don’t dance our new in-laws, who live out of state. like a gazelle — few people do — and let it go. If you downplay it, it will go away. We recently found out that they have pur- DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 8, 1920 A latest-improved Butterkist popcorn machine was received today by the Cosy Bil- liard Parlor from the factory at Indianapo- lis and immediately put into operation. The machine is operated entirely by electricity and pops and butters corn, roasts peanuts and has a popcorn fountain, a new display feature. The machine represents an outlay of more than $1000 and was installed today by W. E. LaMonte, of Portland, Butterkist service man. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 8, 1970 An air sampling station was established this week atop the Umatilla County Court- house by the state Department of Envi- ronmental Quality. The Pendleton station is among 23 selected for a statewide air sampling network. The knowledge will be acquired by uniform sampling that will give current information of the general levels of suspended particulate matter, sulfur dioxide and particle fallout in the 23 cities. Even- tually, standards will be developed toward lessening annoying air. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 8, 1995 The Pendleton Planning Commission has endorsed the rezoning of the former Harris Pine Mills site, a change that would set the stage for a shopping center development. The city council will vote on a rezone-ordinance and Comprehensive Plan amendment at its January meeting. The rezone would resolve a bottleneck between private developers and state Department of Transportation offi- cials that stalled development for more than two years. The site was home to Harris Pine Furniture, at one time the top employer in Pendleton. The factory fell silent in 1991 at the site, between Safeway and the Umatilla River in southwest Pendleton. BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Jan. 8, 1815, the last major engagement of the War of 1812 came to an end as U.S. forces defeated the British in the Battle of New Orleans, not having got- ten word of the signing of a peace treaty. In 1918, President Woodrow Wilson outlined his Fourteen Points for last- ing peace after World War I. Mississippi became the first state to ratify the 18th Amendment to the Consti- tution, which established Prohibition. In 1935, rock ’n’ roll leg- end Elvis Presley was born in Tupelo, Mississippi. In 1964, President Lyn- don B. Johnson, in his State of the Union address, declared an “unconditional war on poverty in America.” In 1973, the Paris peace talks between the United States and North Vietnam resumed. In 1982, American Tele- phone and Telegraph settled the Justice Department’s antitrust lawsuit against it by agreeing to divest itself of the 22 Bell System companies. In 2004, A U.S. Black Hawk medivac helicop- ter crashed near Fallujah, Iraq, killing all nine soldiers aboard. In 2006, the first funerals were held in West Virginia for the 12 miners who’d died in the Sago Mine disaster six days earlier. In 2008, Sen. Hillary Rodham Clinton powered to victory in New Hampshire’s 2008 Democratic primary in a startling upset, defeat- ing Sen. Barack Obama and resurrecting her bid for the White House; Sen. John McCain defeated his Repub- lican rivals to move back into contention for the GOP nomination. In 2011, U.S. Rep. Gabri- elle Giffords, D-Ariz., was shot and critically wounded when a gunman opened fire as the congresswoman met with constituents in Tuc- son; six people were killed, 12 others also injured. (Gun- man Jared Lee Loughner was sentenced in Novem- ber 2012 to seven consecu- tive life sentences, plus 140 years.) Today’s Birthdays: Actor-comedian Larry Storch is 97. Singer Shir- ley Bassey is 83. Actress Yvette Mimieux is 78. Singer Juanita Cowart Mot- ley (The Marvelettes) is 76. Actress Kathleen Noone is 75. Rock musician Robby Krieger (The Doors) is 74. Actress Michelle Forbes is 55. Actress Maria Pitillo is 54. Reggae singer Sean Paul is 47. Actress-rock singer Jenny Lewis is 44. Actress Sarah Polley is 41. Actress Rachel Nichols is 40. Actress Gaby Hoffman is 38. Actress Cynthia Erivo is 33. Thought for Today: “Anxiety never yet suc- cessfully bridged over any chasm.” — Giovanni Ruffini, Italian writer (1807-1881). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE