A12 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Wednesday, December 18, 2019 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Woman serving time fears boyfriend’s love will fade FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER Dear Abby: I’m a 25-year-old If it was an emergency, I wouldn’t female currently serving a nine-year mind, but it’s usually something of no consequence that could wait until prison sentence. It is the first time I morning. have ever been in trouble (wrong I have tried ignoring her, pre- place, wrong time). My boyfriend tending to be asleep, saying “good- is 24. We’ve been together 2½ years night again” in a rough tone of voice and have had our ups and downs and getting angry. Nothing seems to (mostly ups). I am truly in love with J eanne work. I would appreciate some advice him, and he tells me he will always P hilliPs for dealing with this. — Sleepless in be there for me. ADVICE Texas I have been in prison for five Dear Sleepless: A solid night’s months so far, and he hasn’t missed sleep is crucial for good health. Tell a visit or a phone call. He also makes your wife to keep a notepad by the side of the sure I have money on my books. bed and jot down what she wants to discuss I’m worried that somewhere down the the next morning. However, if she persists in road, since we’re so young, he will meet awakening you, get up and go into another someone and move on. In a way, I would room. And continue doing it until your wife kind of understand — I don’t want his life to agrees to show more consideration. stop because mine has. But I also don’t want Dear Abby: I have known my friend to lose him. How do I keep our relationship “Midge” for more than 60 years. We live in strong, or should I let him go? — Locked Up different states now, but keep in touch online. in Delaware While our views are polar opposites on just Dear Locked Up: Nine years is a long about everything, we have remained friends. time, and sometimes life happens in the Over the last year, it seems Midge has interim. I can’t predict what will happen, and reverted to being a wild teenager. She is smok- you shouldn’t either. Take things a day at a ing pot, got tattooed and is doing a lot of party- time. Keep the lines of communication open ing. Recently, she posted a very lengthy mis- and honest. sive, including dozens of pictures, about how Because things are going well, do not “let much she misses her ex-boyfriend. Abby, they him go.” If the romance ends, so be it. But if it broke up 10 years ago! I asked her sister about does, appreciate that he seems to be a staunch her bizarre behavior and was told, “Oh, that’s friend and ally. just Midge.” Is it time to let go of the friend- Dear Abby: I love my wife. We have ship? — Not The Same in California been married for 38 years. However, she does Dear Not The Same: Assuming that pot something that drives me crazy. is legal in the state where Midge resides, she’s I have a hard time going to sleep at night, doing nothing illegal, immoral or that will get and if I’m disturbed in those first few min- utes of sleep, I’m up all night. We both agreed her pregnant out of wedlock. Because you’re that when we say “goodnight,” it means no concerned about her, call Midge to hear how she is. Sometimes an abrupt change in person- more talking or loud noises. But almost every ality can be a symptom of a physical or mental night after saying “goodnight,” she wakes me health issue. up with something she has to say or explore. DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 18, 1919 Eight days with the temperature ranging from 30 below to 52 below is reported from Ukiah in a letter to Mrs. M. F. Gibbs, who is spending the winter in Pendleton. Calves, chickens and hogs dropped dead from the cold but residents did not suffer as they were well supplied with wood. In Umapine, ther- mometers are running as far as 30 degrees below zero on many farms and although nearly every home has plenty of fuel on hand, the farmers have trouble getting their stock fed these wintery days. Cattle are consuming twice as much hay as usual and it keeps farm- ers hustling to finish morning chores in time to begin the evening ones. A bright spot in this picture is the thought to the farmer that his alfalfa meadow or grain field is covered with a foot of snow. This means an abundance of moisture and assures good crops next season. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 18, 1969 Over 400 children in the West End area of Hermiston received telephone calls from Santa Claus through the courtesy of the Jay- cees this week. The children wrote letters to a local address asking for an interview with Santa. Jaycee President Ron Stevenson said they received a large number of appreciative letters from parents. This weekend, the chil- dren of Jaycee members will be guests at an annual Christmas party. Prior to the event they will make a hayride tour in the commu- nity singing Christmas carols. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 18, 1994 Mike Stoltz, Oregon State University Extension Service agent in Umatilla County, received the Visionary Leadership Award at the recent annual meeting of Gamma Chap- ter, Epsilon Sigma Phi in Corvallis. Extension agents must have at least 10 years of experi- ence to join the chapter. Stoltz was honored for 15 years of work in the introduction of new crops and methods. In Eastern Oregon, this included his work on strategies for controlling the Russian wheat aphid and the introduc- tion of canola. “I never thought of myself as a visionary,” Stoltz said. “I’m just interested in new things.” TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Dec. 18, 2000, the Electoral College cast its ballots, with President-elect George W. Bush receiving the expected 271; Al Gore, however, received 266, one fewer than expected, because of a District of Columbia Democrat who’d left her bal- lot blank to protest the dis- trict’s lack of representation in Congress. In 1787, New Jersey became the third state to rat- ify the U.S. Constitution. In 1940, Adolf Hit- ler signed a secret directive ordering preparations for a Nazi invasion of the Soviet Union. (Operation Bar- barossa was launched in June 1941.) In 1944, the U.S. Supreme Court upheld the govern- ment’s wartime evacuation of people of Japanese descent from the West Coast while at the same time ruling that “concededly loyal” Amer- icans of Japanese ances- try could not continue to be detained. In 1956, Japan was admit- ted to the United Nations. In 1969, Britain’s House of Lords joined the House of Commons in making perma- nent a 1965 ban on the death penalty for murder. In 1998, the House debated articles of impeach- ment against President Bill Clinton. South Carolina car- ried out the nation’s 500th execution since capital pun- ishment resumed in 1977. In 2003, two federal appeals courts ruled the U.S. military could not indefi- nitely hold prisoners without access to lawyers or Ameri- can courts. Today’s Birthdays: Movie producer-director Ste- ven Spielberg is 73. Actor Ray Liotta is 65. Actor Brad Pitt is 56. Singer Alejandro Sanz is 51. Actor Josh Dallas is 41. Actress Katie Holmes is 41. Actor Ravi Patel is 41. Singer Christina Aguilera is 39. Christian rock musician Dave Luetkenhoelter (Kut- less) is 37. Actress Ashley Benson is 30. Actress-singer Bridgit Mendler is 27. Elec- tro-pop singer Billie Eilish is 18. Thought for Today: “Whoever wants to be a judge of human nature should study people’s excuses.” — Christian Friedrich Hebbel, German poet and dramatist (1813-1863). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE